#sorry bestie no space will ever truly allow you to feel safe OR accepted. have fun walking that tightrope for the rest of your life | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

illithiddies · 5 months

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The bg3 fandom is so big and active rn I can't imagine there aren't at least a few servers out there that put like... a reasonable limit on the sort of dark content that can be discussed in it while still also allowing nuanced and mature discussion about it, especially considering the game's canon topics.

It's such a bizarre delicate balance but there has to be something right?

#im planning on sticking to a couple of my nonbg3 friends servers that invited me to talk abt bg3 in them #and the tiny little sprinting server I made a bit ago #but I know I'm going to chomping at the fucking bit to talk abt bg3 way more than anyone wants me to I think 😭#like. Only large and fandom specific servers really fill that niche but god are they always a minefield #the sheer whiplash of going from the happiness of watching the award show to like #isolating myself and now wondering if I'm going to finish ANY of my projects anymore still has me reeling #I'm just. tired man. i already did this with star wars. i don't want to do it again already here #i feel like fandom spaces love celebrating trauma survivors but only if you're one of the cool acceptable ones #if you're one of the ones that has dodgy reactions to things and complex unpredictable feelings then its just. oops!#sorry bestie no space will ever truly allow you to feel safe OR accepted. have fun walking that tightrope for the rest of your life #tbf i didn't even give the bg3 server im in the option but I already know how server-destroying this issue is #sorry to anyone who bothered to read this afhshdh it feels so much safer to rant in the tags #questlog

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