#speaking of nhs when does it go from oh these two idols are cute together to these two idols have been married for 10 years and are hiding | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

youaremysunshine-court · 1 year

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Me before a stream: streaming is a job. You can absolutely form parasocial relationships with streamers. They don't know you exist. Don't fall into this trap.

My monkey brain during a stream: hngh streamer friend shaped

Me after a stream: JAY WHAT THE FUCK

#having a bit of a thing #over the actual boundaries of parasocial relationships #is it weird that i want to buy an s23 bc i saw an ad with jhope on it DESPITE NOT BEING ARMY #its definitley weird when you start bullying people online over someone who doesnt know you exist #its vaguely weird to assume that you know everything about someone based on the persona they present to the public #probably kind of weird to want to try their favourite food just bc its their favourite food #crisising over here #like where are the boundaries between normal human behaviour and 'oh i have formed an unhealthy attachment to this man'#like its pretty normal to see some dude moaning over his food and be like huh i want to try that #but forcing yourself to enjoy a meal just bc someone else likes it is kinda weird but not as weird as stalking #i dont fucking know #where does it turn from oh this stream is background noise to oh i sent a hate anon to someone who criticised my bias #i dont know i really dont know *insert nie huaisang gif*#speaking of nhs when does it go from oh these two idols are cute together to these two idols have been married for 10 years and are hiding #it from us #when does a fan go from i enjoy their work to obsessed stalker outside their hotel roo.#and does it help what jackson wang does #where he makes himself like... touchable and approachable and less like a god than other idols???#or does that make the parasocialism worse somehow #can you tell ive been reading too much hannigram lately

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