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I think I might have a conversation about getting engaged or at least having the thought of setting aside money for a wedding.

I don't want to rush my love and he can propose when he's ready, but I want to see if he'd be interested sooner than later so I can get some plans in place.

It'll be two years until I finish up with my master, but I am going to be busy and I'm not sure if I can plan a wedding while stressing about school.

I also can wait and see how grad school treats me.

I'd also like the clarity of plans for the future and something to work towards.

It would also be so much easier to explain that we're engaged instead of being in engagement limbo of "we're engaged, just not officially".

I might at least mention something to him when we have a three hour car ride to his extended family this weekend.

Any thoughts, friends?

#the earliest we could get married is December 2025 but its feel silly because i finish school May 2026 #so realistically we are looking May 2026-July 2026 #i also just want to marry the man and stop being apart all the time #and id like to start slowly getting things ready for that.#i also should trust him to propose when hes ready #i might just mention 'i know we are not engaged yet but i want to start setting funds aside for when we do get married #so that i don't have to struggle as much #i also need to put funds aside for a down payment of a car #but i also want to start saving for a wedding and trust me im going to be broke #thats why i want to go forward in that #also id love the clarity itd bring of 'yes we're engaged and planning on getting married may/june/july 2026 #evening thoughts

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