#there isnt some hard line to cross with lesbians trying to recruit and convert innocent bi girls to be evil dykes its just not happening | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

osmiabee · 4 years

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The day this website realises that labels should simply be a way to describe an overarching theme of a persons lived reality rather than shoehorning every microscopic detail of a persons life into a different pseudoscientific term as a way to seek ~validity~ from strangers online is the day I'll know peace

#not to invite disc horse in the year of our lord 2020 but bruh #i be out here... seeing things... and i just dont care for it??#contrary to popular belief there are a lot of ways to be a lesbian actually #you can be ace you can be non-binary you can be a questioning wlw that only wants to date women at the moment while you figure it all out #because ultimately it just has to be a theme of your lived reality like actual real life stuff that is happening to you #being like ''i think this broadly describes my current situation pretty accurately'' is like.. as far as these labels should go #you don't need a label for ''i have trust issues'' or ''i struggle to experience attraction because im traumatised'' you need a therapist #i say this from a place of love as a deeply traumatised dyke with a therapist #big up halima #but seriously dont stagnate because you've defined yourself into a tiny box because someone on the internet said it was valid #also while we're here and youre reading these tags like what the fuck set her off it was the lesbian masterdoc discourse #the fact that it explains experiences that also apply to bi women is not biphobia #its a facet of the fact that women experiencing attraction to women have shared lived experiences #there isnt some hard line to cross with lesbians trying to recruit and convert innocent bi girls to be evil dykes its just not happening #if bi women read it and go OH SHIT THATS ME IM DEFINITELY A LESBIAN thats cause for celebration #if they read it and go OH SHIT ME TOO but also I don't fully relate and I'm still bi then fuck yeah thats fine #like literally nobody is forcing anyone to read it #shared experiences... are normal and good actually #also while were here #gender non-conformity or being transfeminine or non-binary does not make you immune to being a lesbian #dont make me tap the sign #but like in all seriousness lesbian is such a good term with a rich history of gender non conformity and inclusivity #and its our responsibility as a collective to emphasize that the community can and does include transfeminine and nb identities #because it literally has in the past its a really recent modern change if you look historically #half the reputation is just straight up lesbophobia i cant even lie #but also a collective effort to be openly intersectional can only bring good things #wow this went off on a tangent #but also theres so many microdefinitions drawing these hard weird chopped up lines across the community #and it makes me sad #so stop it.. just fuckin live your life... and get a therapist... can be related i just think therapy is good anyway bye

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