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the-thinking-woman replied to your post: Tony & Nat Are In Bruce’s Corner

Cool meta :) I think I agree with pretty much all of that. I did think Tony played on Bruce’s desire to make everything right a bit - though probably not consciously. He desperately wanted to make it right himself, & he needed Bruce.

thank you!

and yeah - definitely not consciously! I think Tony is more honest with Bruce than he is with anyone, even Pepper or Rhodey. He empathizes with him and that makes him very earnest in Bruce’s presence (kind of like how Nat is also very straightforward with him for similar reasons!). I added a bit to the meta that I think clarifies this distinction a bit - “Like Tony says to Steve later on the farm, isn’t the point of their Avenging that at the end of the day, they can go home with the knowledge that they’ve made the world safe for themselves and their loved ones and everyone in general? And this is a compelling argument for Bruce at this stage of his life - it’s a goal he shares with Tony. There’s a difference between manipulating someone and trying to convince them of something/persuade them to do something that will contribute to a shared goal. And Tony was definitely doing the latter, not the former.”

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the-thinking-woman replied to your post: Keep reading

Aw, thanks! :) I’m on it, but it’s turning into a dissertation!!!

I look forward to it!!

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I've seen it, and I agree that it was never meant to be "infertility=monstrosity". The 2 things got mixed, but it was clear to me that she was reassuring him that not having kids wasn't a dealbreaker, & that she felt like a monster too (as a killer)

thanks so much for your input. I look forward to your spoilery review! you always have carefully considered thoughts to share. :)