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cruelsister-moved2 · 1 year

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no but thinking about it gay girl game and straight girl game are COMPLETELY different so I wonder how many of them their problem is just that theyre trying to do the same thing with both. especially if you're used to men being obsessed w you and suddenly you basically have to learn a whole new skill it's easy to get discouraged and just go back to what you know.

i see these girls saying like ohhh but girls dont text first and it's like well? you text her then! its not hard to talk to another woman, you do it every day. the type of girls that expect mascs to hit on them but don't realise if someone's visibly gay and you're not, you need to be the one to approach them and make your intentions clear. if you're used to just waiting around and falling into a relationship I get why gay dating would seem hard to you. but it isn't hard. you're just really bad at it. sorry. there's still time to learn <3

#and I don't think its a 'just different styles' thing #I think ur trained as a woman dating men to be helpless and passive #and u need to unlearn that. literally even if u don't want to date women u still need to unlearn that #but yeah this type of stuff is genuinely offensive to people who only date women #and these people clearly don't think about us ever and that's why they say it #maybe some of yall do just prefer men also it's okay like. people will say this and then only date men it's like #maybe you prefer dating men that's fine why be weird about it lol #I do also think these ppl r seeking/attracting the wrong type of girls #I know even if I was into feminine women I would run a mile from this stuff bc I dont want to be ur straight bf surrogate #they're either going for mascs and then getting mad when they aren't straight men #or going for OTHER passive feminine women with no experience who will never initiate anything #if u find this hard then find a girl who'll take the lead. they exist.

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