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missbiddle · 2 years

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Getting accused of being an aphobe, despite being ace/aro myself, because I'm critical of consistent wlw ships being considered QPR, is a new one.

This just in - sometimes, asexuals don't want QPR in their media and just want to see sapphic relationships that actually allow attraction because female attraction, and especially lesbian attraction, is either hypersexualised, made puritan, or just doesn't exist. Let ladies wanna be with ladies.

I'm asexual. I don't have interest in sex, at all. In fact, I don't have interest in romantic relationships for myself either. But, not wanting a romantic/sexual sapphic relationship as a QPR and being critical of the vitriol being spat at sapphics for being critical of wlw ships constantly being considered QPR but het or mlm not getting that treatment, does not make me a fucking aphobe.

#anyway im done with this fucking discourse #romantic/sexual relationship is not 'better' than qpr #and qpr is not better than romantic/sexual #calling ppl aphobes because they question and criticise the pattern of wlw ships consistently being better as qpr is bad #lesbophobia is incredibly rampant in the cr fandom and has been #for ages #let lesbians want a ficking romantic relationship without calling them aphobes #fuck me dead #couldnt even be bothered tagging this for the fucking ship tbh #but to those out there; its okay to shop imogen and laudna romantically #youre not an aphobe for not seeing them as qpr or wanting them to be in a traditional romantic partnership #this is comijg from an aro/ace

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