#this is obv from the other day now but 🤷🏻‍♀️

[bluesprng]

What is your least favorite trope? Or writing style that youve seen? or like your least favorite type of anything when it comes to fic writing? I see a lot of people ruin characters i like so im curious about writings pov!! + could i get txt reacting to you being in love with someone else?

♡ if you get offended by this, just remember, you don't have to interact. scroll away, don't cause shit for someone else, etc etc. be kind and all that fun stuff! ♡

1. My least favorite trope is one that gets so over used and for no reason. It's the 'I apparently didn't know what I signed up for when I began dating an idol so now I'm going to be angry/upset with him when he doesn't spend time with me because he has this excessive job that I KNEW he had going into this/ I cheated because he doesn't give me enough attention.' It's so annoying. Like - it's always the excuse of 'I thought I could handle it' - no, you didn't. When you got into this relationship you knew the schedules, you knew the sacrifice, etc etc. You wanted to think you could handle it, I'm sure we've all been in the situation of 'I thought I could' but at the end of the day, you really didn't, you just wanted to hope you could. But, I've seen it so many times when the idol is on tour or busy or doing some other things and the reader gets super angry with them and I'm like: you willingly got into this relationship, they probably feel bad enough and you're going to have the AUDACITY to get ANGRY at them? No. Control your emotions, discuss it like civil adults and either stick it out or move on. This trope is annoying as hell to me. Others may love it! It's totally opinion based, I'm aware of that.

2. I don't think there's really a style I don't like? Everyone writes differently. I mean, I don't know if it counts but I don't like people who don't seperate paragraphs. Like, I'm not the best at it but when the ENTIRE scenario is one whole paragraph with zero breaks, I can't read it. Or, the people who write without quotes, so you can't actually tell when anyone is talking. Or, scene changes and timeskips with zero indication. And, I'm not trying to be rude at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ there are people who probably sit and criticize my writing but I'm pretty sure everyone has at least something they don't like. I know several people who can't stand intentional lowercase writing.

3. I don't know if this would be a style or a personal preference? But, I have a weird thing with 'he's so hot when he's jealous' type of comments or 'his jealousy is so sexy' - it really isn't. Jealousy is not sexy or hot, etc etc. Jealousy turns into death, assault and a lot of other shit very fast. Plus, generally jealousy is based off of distrust, insecurities or being overly possessive; none of those things are supposed to be romanticized or found sexy. If your s/o is doing it because of distrust or insecurities, it's time to sit and talk and try to help them or find the cause of it. If it's because of that type of possession? You are not their s/o - you are their property. In a BDSM manner, that's all fine and dandy, but outside of that.. you are not property to be owned ( like I said, unless it's in certain manners. If it's a consensual thing, obv it's different. ). Now, if you find it attractive that your s/o is getting bent out of shape for someone else touching you - hopefully that isn't jealousy, that should be the sheer understanding of 'hey, maybe you shouldn't touch people without asking' or 'they look uncomfortable, knock it off.' Cause if your s/o is getting 'jealous' and raging over a friend touching your shoulder, you need to leave. Take it from someone who knows a lot of narcissistic, jealous people who can go from jealous to angry and violent very, very fast. And yes, there's a difference in possessive 'they belong to me' and loving 'this person is mine ♡'. Once again, personal opinion - everyone will do as they will with their lives. It's just something that's a bit of a pet peeve for me.

♡ As someone who also runs a Tokyo Revengers page and a DC page, I can totally agree that I've seen people ruin characters but it's all perspective. Even on my page, I'm sure people have questions on how I write people because I over analyze. Like my issue with 'Beomgyu is the annoying boyfriend' - hate it, this type of writing ruins his written, fic persona for me. Because watching them, I don't consider him annoying and clingy - I consider him someone who needs reassurance and if you watch, the members often notice and give him that assurance. But, everyone who has ever read fics has had an idol, actor, character, etc. ruined for them by someone.

+ I will absolutely get on that, dearest! Thank you for the request! ♡

++ my inbox is still open for requests, theories, questions. pretty much anything ♡ I lost all my anons when I went on hiatus so friends and anons are also welcome.

[larringiscaring]

I did not watch My Policeman, it just didn’t really interest me all that much. I did see Don’t Worry Darling, though, which was a lot better than I was expecting it to be! I really enjoyed that one. I’ve seen so many movies though that it’s hard for me to truly choose a favorite one. One that I could probably watch every day of my life and not get tired of is the movie Primal Fear. Amazing actors, amazing plot twists, I love it.

Gosh, I think my favorite Louis songs right now are Written All Over Your Face and Angels Fly. I mostly just listen to him and 5SOS. I obvi have a bunch of other artists on my liked songs but those two and Harry are the only ones that I’ll really listen to their whole albums on repeat (and Heartbreak Weather, of course, because that’s an amazing album).

Do you listen to the other boys from 1D? If you don’t, who’s your favorite artist that isn’t Harry or Louis? Have an amazing day lovely!

— ur secret santa 🤶🏻❤️

Omg angels fly is a top for me too! And ofc written all over ur face is soo good too.

I don’t listen to any of the other boys besides Harry 🤷🏻‍♀️🤭🫢. I honestly haven’t rly looked into them but also I’m not sure it’s my type of music but at the same time, if it’s good I’ll obv like it anyway. But ya I’m just lazy and haven’t checked it out. What songs/albums would u recommend I try ?

And omg my fav artist other then them 😬😬. I’m too cliche it’s embarrasing, but Taylor. Like I don’t know listening to her songs is like satisfying idek. But at the same time I also like the band tv girl, I would say them and t swift are 3rd. :)))

talk to u tmrw !

[bpdeadd]

open day was awkward bc I was the first one in to talk to the japanese language students + no other ppl had showed up to see the other language ones around me either yet so every other student was just staring at me listening to me talk to the japanese language students so ajdksh also I can’t ask questions 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I did not come prepared lmao - never gone to an open day on my own + also last time I went to an open day there was no students to talk to it was just presentations about the courses etc sooo lol, also BIG campus lit got lost a few times lmao, tho the cafes around are nice, went into one + got vegan sushi + an Arizona green tea (my fav but since i’m in the uk its hard to find???) for lunch, + also a pumpkin spice latte from there too for my morning coffee which was nice uwu, also went to a taster lecture for the japanese studies course soo that was interesting too, def like the course + the opportunity to live + study in Japan for 3rd year also interests me - tho I wanna go to Kyoto so lol, but not sure about the city the uni is based in yet, never been here before, lots of shops/cafes/restaurants around, + they do have alot of vegetarian/vegan options which is good, I mean I do eat fish but I can’t eat meat cuz it makes me ill so 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ tho always go for veggie/vegan options tbh but they have alot of japanese, and asian restaurants/cafes around too which is nice, I haven’t really explored alot since I'm a/ on my own, and b/ its massive here, kinda reminds me of London tbh, but wanted to stay here so I could see if I felt like I saw myself living here - since its like 4 years anyways, + uni is big commitment + a lot of money soo, I kinda have to be sure its smth I wanna do anyways obv especially since I'm now a lot older + don’t want to waste a few years doing this, never been to uni bc I didn’t know what I wanted to do when I finished school but yh.. also since I want to one day live in Japan I kinda have to go to uni??? bc I think Japan in general you have to have a uni degree to live + work there sooo if I wanted to live there in the future I'd have to do some kind of degree course soo I have to see if my ambition to live + work in Japan is sort of ‘strong’ enough to study for 4 years so... I'm not overly sure yet tho - plus if I do end up applying + don’t get in then 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ ig thats a sign its not meant to be lol???? 😩

also have to wake up early tomorrow - gon get a Starbucks on my way back/walk to the station + I've got a 5 hour train ride back home so fml 😩😩😩😩 

[magdasabs]

Hello, I'm flop anon who was at the match tonight, reporting back!

I wore my home 21-22 shirt (with the yellow trim), but let's face it I had to wear a big coat over it so no one can even see it 😄

Game was a bit meh for a while, the subs brought great energy on. Loved Gios runs, Benni obvs saved the day. My other stand out would be Lucy Graham, she was working so hard the whole second half (couldn't see her very well during 1st half)

I couldn't really see the goal, BUT a couple of friends who stood by the goal said it was going in anyway even if the leicester keeper didn't touch it, and they announced it as bennis goal in the stadium, who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️ friends are also flop fans so maybe they're biased.

Also fun that I locked eyes with Toni duggan in the stands for some reason and we both just smiled at each other randomly for a few seconds 😄 Also I went through the turnstile behind Fern Whelan and also saw her in the toilets and smiled at her, she must have been there to support her wife playing for Leicester but she's also from Liverpool so prob good opp to see family.

All in all a good evening out! Thank god for the win. Really enjoyed reading your commentary now I'm back home.

omg hello thank you for the report!! I love that shirt, I was going to get it with anvegård on the back but you know what happened 😭😭

your friends are def biased but I love the spirit! in my mind it shall also be a benni goal even though it def wasn't going anywhere near it

aww that is very cool you kind of saw some footballers! did you get to meet any of the ones who were on the pitch? also I can get him not being there but did you see fern and aileen's baby because he is the most adorable ever, I saw him at a game last season and I just melted

I'm glad you enjoyed my commentary even if it was quite chaotic 😅 also so nice to find a flops fan! hope you get to go to many more games and they bring you loads of joy like tonight