#this is prob why i gravitate to partner-dynamics than family dynamics; or a focus on the [character-partner] as parent rather than-
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Always fascinated by family dynamics where there's actual respect and grandparents and/or parents who are admirable.
#mine weren't terrible but they were meh on a meh scale there's isn't a meh scale for it#while young they did *astonishing* things all so smart etc but were smacked with the trauma+chronic pain+dementia stick hard#and i was a really late-born child in all instances so they sort of housed me and paid for schooling and were otherwise-#-things I mostly ignored#even my brother and sister were so much older than me they were just kinda people who were around for a bit then left#i do think my 'young' self eg pre 8yo got the true benefit because I had stability and a 10+ person family#but by 10yo they were all away with the fairies or gone and i just learned not to expect anything outside of minimum life-safety-net duties#this is prob why i gravitate to partner-dynamics than family dynamics; or a focus on the [character-partner] as parent rather than-#-character as child or character inter-family relationship#mostly because man i have no idea what family dynamics *are* forget healthy/unhealthy just what the fuck *are* they?
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