#trying to explain logic and reasoning to a transphobe is like talking to a wall

[heartual]

i hope imane khelif continues to prosper after everything these stupid fucking people have put her through

[mlm-mod-taka]

I was wondering if I can request Kiyotaka with a ftm that's been sad because someone has been saying rude stuff to him. And they are just questing if it's true or not.

COMFORT HCS • taka x ftm reader

yes, of course anon! to all my fellow trans folks out there, you are all valid and if someone tries to prove you wrong then just know that you know yourself better than anyone else could, they dont know anything. this might be a little self indulgent, so im sorry if it does come off that way. enjoy your headcanons anon!

tws/cws: transphobia, mentions of homophobia, bullying and gender dysphoria.

|| -> mod taka <3

taka knows all about trans people. once he found out that his friend, and now boyfriend is trans, he immediately did so much research. to the point where he even knows more than you do in some areas.

is very supportive! if you havent had surgery yet, then he will time the hours your binder is on, and asks the teachers to excuse you whenever theres a tiring activity in pe.

he also knows about gender dysphoria, and has helped you deal with it on many occasions. so he knows when youre feeling dysphoric, like you are right now. he notices all the tiny actions hes noted down when you get dysphoric, so he quickly asks whats going on.

when you confess that someone has been making fun of you being trans, hes livid. immediately asks a thousand questions, similar to "who are they? what class are they in? whos their teacher? what did they say to you?"

you tell him their name, and he practically has it burnt in his mind due to anger. how dare someone be so mean to such a wonderful man? what did you ever do to them?

when you even slightly propose the idea of questioning if what they were saying was true, that what you were was wrong, that you arent what you identify as, and that you are just lying to yourself, he stops you right then and there.

says so many things to get those thoughts out of your head. he knows that what you are is right, it feels right, so it is. if you werent what you are, then why would you be feeling like that? he uses logic to try and convince you that you have no reason to question yourself when youre so comfortable with the label.

youve known you were different for so long, why would you question it? you are who you are and he loves that about you, he always will. at the end of it, he does manage to convince you, hes a great debater after all.

lets you vent all your feelings out, offering to fetch you some baggy clothing to help you with your dysphoria, and does everything he can to make you feel better. he even lets you do pda if it makes you happier.

after comforting you and checking in on you, he immediately goes to the class of the person who has been bullying you. anyone who has spotted him on his way to the classroom is terrified, he looked so angry and so determined while marching to them.

he first speaks with the teacher, telling them what that person did. the teacher reassures him that there will be a strict punishment, and after that, he goes to talk one on one with them.

he. goes. off. he states every single thing they have told you and called you, explaining in depth why its offensive and what they did was wrong on so many levels.

does it extremely loudly too, everyone can hear him yelling about transgender people through the walls of the classroom. everyone can hear the horrible things theyve done to you. "as they should." he thinks.

demands that they say sorry to you, making sure its the most respectful and genuine apology possible by watching over them as they apologized profusely to you.

he educates them on trans history, practically having it all memorized. he also called the parents of them, and they agreed that they would give them a punishment as well.

the only time taka leaves them alone is when they are 100% not transphobic anymore. he'll test them on the history, he'll beat the idea of transhobia and homophobia being horrible and that theyre a terrible person for being like that in their head repeatedly so they get the message. then, and only then, will he start to back off.

luckily, no one has tried to mess with you or your gender identity after that experience. everyone agrees that taka is scary when hes figured out that someone has insulted you, so they all agree to never do so. which makes you and taka both very happy. he'll always be there to comfort you during your dysphoric days, and smile with you on your euphoric days.