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[bells-of-black-sunday]

imma hit you with a A-Z for Tarhos bc I’m unhinged and I know you are too

A-Z smut headcannons | Accepting

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A - Affection: How affectionate are they during sex? Is it different with people they're romantically involved with? Can they sleep with people they aren't?

Tarhos is absurdly affectionate during sex if he's dating the person, he likes feeling his skin on theirs and kissing them, telling them sweet things even when he's the one on top. He's not teasing, but he is blunt in that he will directly say what he's going to do to Haru or ask what he wants him to do. But: during the act he is "Tell me how good it feels", "You're so beautiful", etc. he's quick to give praise and try to make him feel as good as possible especially in his base verse where he knows the relationship Haru has with sex isn't the best.

That being said, he absolutely has and will sleep with people he's not romantically involved with. With it just being the nature of a bunch of people being kept in close quarters he definitely has had a few flings with others he was kept with. Whether it be one of the three or someone else it doesn't matter, it's just happened. Sometimes your both horny and just want to get off.

B - Body: Are they into a specific physique? Why or why not? Are they just preferences or complete turn offs?

Not particularly? If he finds someone attractive he finds them attractive their physique has nothing to do with it for the most part. He's mainly attracted to people romantically that he can bounce off of easily, but for purely sexual encounters he does prefer a more athletic body as opposed to someone overly muscular or so on. But again it's not mandatory nor it is a turn off.

C - Chatter: Do they like to talk during the act? If so what do they like to talk about? Is it just dirty talk or something different?

Oh absolutely, as stated in A he likes to talk and give compliments, ask how they're feeling or have them describe how good it feels. He and Haru have absolutely just carried normal conversations during sex too, it's just something casual to them. A "we're both horny so why not get off together" type thing rather than a sacred act only meant for one thing.

D - Dominance: Are they into those types of power dynamics? Or do they like to stick to whose topping and bottoming? If they are into it why? If they aren't why not?

Both yes and no, I don't think him or Haru really pay attention to dom/sub power dynamics even if some of their sex does fall into it. They don't really discuss scenes beyond knowing what their safe word is and a lot of their sex is just spur of the moment. Like Tar wearing those sweatpants that he knows drives Haru wild or when they're so tangled up and their skin is pressed against each other and they start getting a little too handsy.

E - Erotica: Do they read or watch it? Does it get them in the mood? Do they create it themselves?

Not particularly in any verse, modern he used to when he was deployed, but normal definitely not.

F - Food: Do they believe certain foods can be aphrodisiacs? If so what foods are like that for them? Do they like using food in the bedroom or is it too messy?

Another one where it's like not really, he doesn't have any foods that really get him in the mood and he would never use food in the bedroom, because of the mess.

G - Group sex: Have they ever tried it? Would they ever want to try it if they haven't? If they don't enjoy it why not?

Yes once or twice, not extremely often, but one every blue moon it comes up. He much prefers just being with Haru and keeping him for himself, he also knows it's what Haru's most comfortable with too so that helps.

H - Humiliation: Are they into it? Why or why not? How far will they go? Do they enjoy being de-humanized or is it more being made fun of?

Yes to an extent. He likes the pet names Haru gives him even if they are kind of demeaning sometimes, but he says them in such a way where he doesn't feel like he's being talked down to. He's not so into it that he wants to be dehumanized or made fun of, but he does enjoy it minorly and probably only with Haru.

He's his baby boy, whore, slut, etc. and he's more than fine with it.

I - Intensity: Do they like intense scenes? Or are they more a slow and take their time kind of person?

It really depends again because a lot of their sex is very spur of the moment, sometimes they both just want to not think for a while and especially in the joust au we have if someone comes knocking they're not going to stop. And especially darkin Tar where he wants to carve his name in Haru's bones and consume him in everything he has ever been.

J - Jousting: Do they like having more than one object or person inside of them? If so do they prefer toys or just multiple partners? Are they curious about it?

I'ma be blunt: yes. Yes he does. Objects or people it doesn't matter, the rare occasions it does happen he does enjoy it quite a bit, not enough to where it's like "this should happen more often", but enough to where he does enjoy himself on the rare occasion it does.

K - Kiss and Tell: Do they talk about their sex life to others? If they do do they go into detail or are they more casual about it? Do they share photos with other people or are those private?

Base verse he's more open to joking about his sex life even if he doesn't talk about it in detail, but in modern he's very stuck in his very ingrained ideals where he thinks sex is something to be kept private not that he cares when Haru brings it up. If Robin brings it up he gets flustered and is jus "Robin-" in a really low voice.

L - Licking: Do they enjoy using their tongue on their partners or is it too gross? If so what are their favorite places to use their tongue?

Yes absolutely, he loves giving head. He's also the kind of person to run his tongue down someone's body, he really loves worshipping anyone he's romantically involved with, but especially Haru. Because he knows how much he enjoys it and gets flustered by it, he way he tugs his hair and pulls him closer too is always a plus.

M - Masturbation: Is it a part of sex for your muse? Or is it something completely different? Do they enjoy watching their partner or being watched?

It can be a part of their sexual habits, but usually it's just a "I want to get off you're not in the mood" thing I imagine. There are times especially in modern where Haru has wanted to watch Tar touch himself and tell him what to do usually forcing him to make eye contact, because he knows how hard it is for him to do it, but Haru loves his pretty eyes so much.

He also enjoys watching Haru when they're in the mood, but he doesn't usually give him instructions he just again falls into his same habits of telling him how pretty he looks, how good of a boy he is, asks him how it feels, asks him if he wants anything more, etc. Tarhos has always been a soft dom when he does.

N - Nope: Do they enjoy orgasm denial or do they want to see how many times they can make their partner cum? Somewhere in-between?

As much as he huffs and calls Haru a nightmare over it, he actually does. Though to be fair he isn't one to think about sex beyond the context of what feels good, so he tends to absorb a lot of his boyfriend's kinks. Though when he's in control he does enjoy overstimulation and he's sure Haru enjoys it too.

O - Open: Do they enjoy having things in their mouth? If so what are their favorite oral fixations? (fingers, toys, giving oral, etc.)

Yes he does, he enjoys fingers for the most part it helps keep him quiet and especially if it's Haru getting him to taste himself he'll be so calm placid. He's just so into the maiden in every verse they have. Though I imagine with darkin Tarhos it's quite a bit harder to put anything in his mouth.

P - Preference: Does size really matter to your muse? Whether it be for others or toys in general. Do they have a favorite type of toy they like to use? If so is it the same to use on other people?

Not usually, but with toys he tends to fall on the bigger size, because well- he is a large man. He's 6'10 and 300 something pounds, of course he's going to have a preference for things like that. With actual people he doesn't care, he knows where to touch that gets him off and how to guide people to it. And as far as favorite toys go he doesn't have many to begin with like maybe one or two, so it's entirely on his mood. Same with using either of them on Haru, I don't think it comes up a lot.

Q - Quiet: Do they enjoy trying to see how long their partner can last without making a sound? Do they enjoy loud or quiet partners?

I don't think Tarhos would survive if he didn't hear Haru moan his name at least once and they're not typically ones to have sex in public unless its in his base verse where it's just whatever's secluded enough that people won't immediately see them.

R - Risk: Are they into some risky kinks? (breath play, exhibitionism, blood play, etc.) If so what are their favorites? Do they practice them safely?

Not really....? Unless you count above as exhibitionism, but it's not really a kink for either of them it's just how their life is when they live around a lot of other people in close quarters. They've shared a tent with the faithful three more than enough times for one of them to probably throw a pillow at the back of Tarhos's head. Though if he was he would be more on the safer side.

S - Suspension: Are they into being suspended like on a swing or during rope play? Or if not, what's the highest place they've ever had sex?

They don't really do bondage in any verse besides probably league? And even then it's already a challenge trying to find a tree that can support Tarhos's weight, so if it does happen it probably doesn't happen often. Though I imagine Haru loves the sight of his God barely having enough self control to not just snap the rope even if he probably inevitably does just to claw trenches into the ground because he has so much pent up energy.

T - TMI: Your opportunity to talk about any dirty thing you want to talk about with your muse. Could be kinks they like or just facts.

I feel like at a certain point with how often Tarhos compares Catholic/Christian gospel to Haruko in medieval, it probably will eventually become something so deeply sexual to him. Like he's in on something no one else knows and he'll refuse to talk about. Like forget about priest/nun kinks, he's fetishizing an entire religion and turning it away from something he hates into mocking it with something he loves.

U - Underwear: Do they enjoy lingerie or dressing up for their partner? Or is it too much of a hassle? Favorite garments to wear? Do they ever go without underwear?

He doesn't very often and not really in his base verse, it's mostly a modern thing. Even then it's rarely anything traditional like lace or jock straps, it's just him wearing clothes he knows drive Haru wild and when he's like that he doesn't wear underwear. Though I feel like one day Haru will convince him to wear actual lingerie one time and then it's all over.

V - Violation: Are there any kinks your muse flat out won't do or even people they know? Are bringing them up enough to turn your muse away from a potential partner for good? Any pet names get them like that?

Aside from the obvious ones, you're hard pressed to find any version of Tarhos I write that enjoys bondage or being talked down to like they're an animal for obvious reasons. Bringing them up isn't enough to turn him away, but he will be very blunt about it. Pet names are the same, he hates being compared to an animal and being dehumanized like that when he's spent so much of his life fighting to prove he is a person.

W - Water: Do they enjoy shower sex or anywhere else that's wet like a pool or hot tub? Is it too awkward?

Yes and it is awkward, so it doesn't happen often, but maybe one in a while he'll give Haru head when they're bathing together or vice versa.

X - X Ray: What's going on under your muse's clothes? Do they have any special scars or places they like to be touched or avoided? Describe their physique and anything else you'd like to expand on.

Tarhos in medieval is littered in scars some small and some large, but he doesn't mind Haruko touching them. Neither of them really like being touched by people they don't know, so just for Tarhos to even let Haru trace his scars is a big sign of trust already. On top of that, he was afab though raised male as soon as puberty hit and his hormones didn't make him look traditionally feminine in the slightest, he builds muscle really easily especially with all the work he does. He is a wall, but there's no where he really hates being touched by people he's close too.

Yes - Yes: Do they have any specific turn ons? Things that will automatically make your muse say yes to sleeping with someone else. If not what are some other things that get them in a more romantic mood? Lighting? Dinner?

Oh absolutely, there's just certain looks and things Haruko calls him that instantly get him in the mood. Sometimes he'll be laying his head in his lap and he'll say one thing and he'll immediately want to bury his face between his thighs. Other than that not really, he's not a person for romantic dinners mostly because he's never had the opportunity for it.

Z - Zones: Favorite places they like to be touched? Are some less obvious than others? Any places they absolutely hate being touched?

All the obvious inner thighs and neck kisses, but also: his chest is particularly sensitive and he gets very flustered every time Haru bites it. I know I joked about it with Egg, but if Haru ever asked even jokingly to hold his tits he'd immediately tell him no and make up some excuse like his hands are too cold or something.