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Would you like to pet me?

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have to go to the hospital to check if i got scleritis (bad!) or episcleritis (not fun but ill be okay) or maybe something else. my right eye has been killing me for a while now and i have been MISERABLE i hope it ends up being something known and curable and not a medical mystery!

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Propane tank pig family

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honestly part of the reason im not posting is bc summer depresses me. like clinically. every single year. im not okay rn but i will be one day when i can wear a jacket again

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i'm officially leaving tumblr. i spend too much time over here. take care everyone. i'll be back in 5 seconds.

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also yuki has been diagnosed with constipation so we are slowly switching her food and also giving her laxative paste. i am keeping a written record of her poops. pls pray for her so i no longer have to do this

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sorry i just needed a lil internet break to prevent me from completely losing it. didnt mean to worry anyone. i am all good but probably not like Fully Back bc i still have some small life things to deal with. idk it depends. might reblog 50 posts at 3am tonight who knows ily xx

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girthy courgette oui oui

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goobnight💕

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dislike and discomfort are normal and healthy parts of the human experience actually

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they’re saying “can we please not normalise nudity” thats literally the default state babe you have to manually select clothing

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I blinked and I'm suddenly surrounded by prudes and puritans

This is the cover btw if someone hasn't seen it yet

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am having a laugh but i have been noticing more and more lately that sexual expression is seen as a (perhaps frowned upon) part of self expression for men, while being seen as completely external for women. vaguely similar to how women who dont shave or dont wear makeup are seen as Actively Doing Something Different as opposed to just..existing as they naturally are. women expressing their sexuality are also not taking any extreme actions to change something about themselves. they’re just experiencing normal sexual desire.

idk it always always comes back to the cultural idea that sexuality is something that men do and something women have done to them

interestingly ive never heard someone accuse a man of “sexualising himself”, though i think the men should try to do it anyway just to see what happens:))))