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there's a post where someone said "can you respect trans women who look like men" and someone responded something like "hell yeah I love people who fuck with gender!" and like... yeah that's cool, but in a lot of spaces "trans woman who looks like a man" is a lot less likely to be someone who is intentionally comfortably presenting masculine, and a lot more likely to be a girl who hasn't started transition, or can't safely, or just didn't or couldn't put in the effort to pass as fem today, and a lot of them will just look like schlubby dudes and not a radically presenting queer person. and you should be able to respect that.

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Tumblr just because I like that one male actor and sometimes like posts that mention him does not mean I want to see posts of fangirls shitting on his girlfriend. I literally do not care about his personal romantic life at all, I just want to see his work. Videos of him promoting his work? sure! Him talking about how his past personal experiences effected him and how that influenced his character and his career decisions? sure. Creepy stalker-y posts about his relationships and conspiracy theories about his girlfriend only dating him to promote her movies? fuck no.

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trans and intersex people in my phone, please tell me about the little pleasures of your life right now. anything from something sweet your partner did to a delicious snack to seeing a cool bug. humans tend to be good at remembering the bad and bad at remembering the good so we need to put effort into making the happy moments feel as real as the sad ones.

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bush was lucky as fuck 9/11 happened while he was doing something nice could you imagine him locked up in the oval bathroom with e621 pulled up

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Imagine being a healthcare professional and telling a patient who has been waiting for said healthcare for 9 fucking years to "stop being so impatient". Literally kill yourself

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this randomly blew up on twitter so i figured i’d post it here bc lord knows everyone on this app is neurodivergent

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Damn psytrans heeft me echt keihard geneukt. Hoop dat ze allemaal de tering krijgen echt wat de hell. En niet een sorry zeggen ofzo. Alleen maar mij de schuld geven terwijl ZIJ hun werk niet doen. Jezus christus hoe moeilijk is het om iemand een email te sturen. Ik lig al weken wakker in angst en onzekerheid maar nee we gaan je niet zeggen wat er aan de hand is. Want ja natuurlijk gaan ze niet zeggen dag ze mij vergeten zijn, dat ze nu pas doen wat ze 5 maanden geleden hadden moeten doen. En ik moet maar geduld hebben. Want wat ik wil maakt niet uit natuurlijk, mijn planning boeit ze niet, hoe ik me voel boeit niet, zolang ze mijn geld maar krijgen.

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Pizza Index strikes again.

Trump is trying to play this like he and his administration had no knowledge of Israel's attack on Iran, but the Index never lies.

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When I was younger and researching the autism diagnosis criteria and symptoms, I thought “oh I couldn’t POSSIBLY be autistic.” Because when I read “takes everything literally” I thought it literally meant EVERYTHING and I was like “I don’t take EVERYTHING literally, just most things!” And I just realized the other day that it didn’t actually mean EVERYTHING and that was an overstatement.

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i don’t think there’s anything funnier than saying “god forbid women do anything” in response to women doing the most objectively horrifying actions possible.

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Anthony Mackie: *Talks about raising his kids to be masculine which to him means respect, compassion, responsibility, protecting your family etc.*

Anthony Mackie: *Talks about how growing up in the 80s and 90s in the south you grow up misogynistic sexist and homophobic*

Anthony Mackie: My roommate was gay. I didn't know how to deal with that. My brother is gay. I didn't know how to deal with that. So being a MAN I used my art to better myself. I played Perry so that I could understand my brother better

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A bunch of people online: He is clearly a homophobe alpha male type

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Look. I get seeing a headline and taking it a certain way. I get the kneejerk reaction to not read what someone says in good faith. But Mackie has been pretty open about a lot of things in his life. So you can find out pretty quickly how he feels about things and that he is teaching his kids non toxic masculinity.

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"there should be some kind of test you have to take before having kids" -> wrong, extremely dangerous and highkey eugenicist and racist "the youth should have safe and effective legal pathways at their disposal to make sure their human rights are constantly protected and upheld" -> based, centers the youth, gives minors more power to fight inequality and does not reinforce the idea that parents are immune to scrutiny from their kids