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Harvey showing off his belly dancing bona fides on the WWDITS set.

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Playfighting that turns into sex reblog if you agree

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REMEMBER: If you bite your partner and it breaks the skin, you need to clean it and bandage it properly as soon as possible. Human bites get infected VERY EASILY.

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cumming in your underwear for no reason is gonna be huge in 2025 you can quote me on that #trends

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i'm about to masturbate. there's a book by W.E.B. Dubois with a picture of him on the cover near my bed. i hide his face.

"don't worry, dear cofounder of the NAACP, one of the founding leaders of sociology, and proponent of Pan-Africanism, i will hide you from my debauchery."

the photos on my wall i've never covered:

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Love the idea of omorashi and orgasm denial being used as challenges/punishments for each other. You can finally have that orgasm you've been denied all week, but only if you drink this big jug of water and hold it for 2 hours plus the amount of time it takes you to reach orgasm. You can go take the pee you're desperate for, but you have to edge yourself five times first and give up the chance to orgasm for the rest of the day (or more). Wetting yourself before you have permission and being tied up, edged, and left throbbing and unsatisfied as a punishment. Coming before you were supposed to and losing your bathroom privileges for the rest of the day as a result. The tension and urgent need for release, the absolute relief when you finally get it, the flushed faces and tears threatening to spill over and little moans. Idk I just think we should put these two kinks together more often

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I know thats not the point, but have you actually ever masturbated to any of these so called "fetishes" of yours? Cause it looks like you just talk about this for the meme

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i think a major thing in regards to kink and racial aspects and dynamics is the fact that white people particularly are used to their every desire and comfort and pleasure being prioritised whether they are consciously aware of it or not.... like unfortunately the situation is that most of them believe that kink exists in some sort of bubble.

for example many would not think twice about the implications of wanting to have "taking bbc" be a necessary part of their personal humiliation or transformation or degradation kink. they already live under conditions where they have to put in active effort to be anti-racist. so ofc it never occurs to them that perhaps maybe we are asking them to think critically about the origins of their kinks and why the dynamic might be dubious if not outright racist.

to them its a matter of kink shaming because white pleasure and white comfort comes before respecting black people as humans. this is the way society has functioned for centuries. so of course why would they ever think that there might be more behind the fact that they enjoy raceplay fantasies? because to them its just that, a fantasy. they have never had to question why or how that came be.

Seriously, i implore you to all really really think critically about the way you think about black people sexually, how you want to treat your black partners, and if that may have implications or backgrounds to it that you don't recognize. you need to understand that there are very real reasons behind the fact that we want you to question why it sexually pleasures you to have racial power over us. its not at all the same as for example someone thinking its immoral or repulsive to enjoy kinky sex. we are literally just wanting you to recognise that our people have a history of sexual abuse tied with our history of racial abuse.

like if you have a kinky dynamic with a black partner, are you taking care to consider the implications of why they might not be okay *at all* with being referred to as your slave sexually regardless of the way you intend it? or being whipped? For reasons outside of the fact it doesn't turn us on, but rather that its something that for us, for our people, are things that were used to abuse us?

are you taking care to educate yourself about the history of sexual abuse in racism and slavery? do you actually know that cuckolding has racist roots? have you researched that? do you know how our people were and have been exploited and abused sexually throughout history not just with slavery but minstrely and so on? Did you ever take pause to think about the history that may lie behind raceplay and how maybe, just maybe; that us finding an issue with that kink is not us shaming anyone or trying to suppress anyone's sexuality?

learn to understand *why* we have every right to not feel okay with the fact people get off to the racial abuse and exploitation and dehumanizing of us, regardless of if its just "fantasy" or "roleplay". think about why your first reaction is to claim that your sexual freedom is being stifled, why you think your right to pleasure comes before our right to NOT be treated like this and to NOT view you as a safe person to be around for openly and proudly getting off to it.

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question. how does one practice Omorashi without getting a uti. I hear people talk about it in the tags but I have no idea of any details !!!

For context! Omorashi is the Japanese term for a piss kink, which is where people play with piss, usually [though not exclusively] during or as part of sex. [This is an article that gets into a little more details, for those interested.]

Well, it depends on the type of play you're doing! For example, I assume you're referring more to people holding their pee as part of piss play, which is the only type of piss play that definitely puts you at risk for a UTI.

Holding your pee isn't recommended, healthwise, but making sure you're both aware of the risks [Practicing Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) is very important!] and trying to do it in moderation can really help limit the risks.

You shouldn't be doing it constantly if you want to avoid a UTI. Keeping up with your water intake regularly can also really help! It's one of those things where you kinda have to figure out, through trial and error, what works best for you but hydration is key.

Most of other types of piss play aren't really a risk for a UTI, though there is a risk of things like bacterial vaginosis and the ever-consistent yeast infections depending on what you're doing.

I assumed this was the type of piss play you were talking about but if it wasn't, or you want more information, feel free to let me know.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions. <3

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are you a lolicon jm so confused by your bio

Lolicon and shotacon are my most despised art form in the world for both well thought out and personal petty reasons

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i love. tits...

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Fat culture is fearing any romantic partner is only interested in you because of a fat fetish.

Fat culture is also being indignant that if someone's attracted to your body type, it's immediately categorized as a fetish rather than having a type.

Fat sex-positive culture is mentally catching yourself by the scruff and asking, so what if it is a fetish? There's nothing wrong with that. The only issue is if they aren't treating you like a person, and that's a problem that even the most vanilla of vanilla attraction can run into.

fat culture is

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I think a lot of ppl don't realize that bottoming is like, an active role in sex, and like for lack of a better word, a skill

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got a good grade in physical therapy because i ordered a sex toy life is fun

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“biological sex is a social construct” doesn’t mean “chromosomes, anatomy, hormones, and genitalia don’t exist”. it means “these exist, but assigning roles, labels, and expectations to certain combinations of these characteristics is a social construct, and an unnecessary and pointless (actually harmful) one at that”.

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