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Hakuoki: Kyoto Winds [Hakuouki: Shinkai - Kaze no Shou]

PS Vita, Spring 2017

This remastered telling of the beloved visual novel Hakuoki series (first developed and released in 2008) focuses on the story set in Kyoto. The young Chizuru, determined to find her father, will romance the famous samurai of Shinsengumi through a series of engaging stories and dramatic events.

Now, experience new characters, love interests, and episodes in the world of Hakuoki: Kyoto Winds!

Official website

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FLASH SALE

Since we’re a new shop and we don’t have many followers yet I wanted to do a flash sale to move some of the mabon pouches! 

Use code SPELLCLUBFLASH10 to recieve 10% of any order over $12 at CuteandSpookyShop! 

I’ll leave the code active for a week so those of you who can’t get it just yet can still get it for after the Equinox! 

Blessed Mabon!

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Errors in Thinking that Create Anxiety

1. All-or-nothing thinking: Looking at things in black-or-white categories, with no middle ground (“If I fall short of perfection, I’m a total failure.”)

2. Overgeneralization: Generalizing from a single negative experience, expecting it to hold true forever (“I didn’t get hired for the job. I’ll never get any job.”)

3. The mental filter: Focusing on the negatives while filtering out all the positives. Noticing the one thing that went wrong, rather than all the things that went right.

4. Diminishing the positive: Coming up with reasons why positive events don’t count (“I did well on the presentation, but that was just dumb luck.”)

5. Jumping to conclusions: Making negative interpretations without actual evidence. You act like a mind reader (“I can tell she secretly hates me.”) or a fortune teller (“I just know something terrible is going to happen.”)

6. Catastrophizing: Expecting the worst-case scenario to happen (“The pilot said we’re in for some turbulence. The plane’s going to crash!”)

7. Emotional reasoning: Believing that the way you feel reflects reality (“I feel frightened right now. That must mean I’m in real physical danger.”)

8. ‘Shoulds’ and ‘should-nots’: Holding yourself to a strict list of what you should and shouldn’t do and beating yourself up if you break any of the rule

9. Labeling: Labeling yourself based on mistakes and perceived shortcomings (“I’m a failure; an idiot; a loser.”)

10. Personalization: Assuming responsibility for things that are outside your control (“It’s my fault my son got in an accident. I should have warned him to drive carefully in the rain.”)

Source: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anxiety_self_help.htm

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Toma and Jumin discusing cages, imagine that lol

I WANT TO PUNCH MYSELF FOR DRAWING THIS

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yES

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MISTA TRUST FUND KID

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i felt an obligation to draw my sign, l-lol.

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monochrome fashion study (feat. department of punishments)

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this drawing was initially gonna look a bit different, but ehH-

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This is my town!

“Someone in Florida snapped a picture of a raccoon riding a gator at the Ocala National Forest.”

(Source)

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In case no one knows

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/688648305/beastmaster-and-prince-flower-and-snow/posts/1501305

Otomate has released a kickstarter for the Beastmaster otome game. It has 10 days left! Go support the people who brought us Amnesia and Hakuouki over to this side of the world!

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If anyone says the words “Food,” “Dinner,” or “Hungry” at any time and in any context, Refurb makes this face and screams by her dish for ten minutes.

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The thing about Tumblr that probably makes me saddest is the underlying assumption that women past a certain age (which seems to be about 25?) stop having any sort of outside interests beyond family/career/kids. Like, y’all are always so shocked that grown women have lives and can fangirl as hard as we did as teenagers.

It makes me sad not because it makes me feel old (although it does), but because these younger women are constricting their own lives–they fully expect that this will happen to them someday. Y’all deserve better. Y’all deserve to EXPECT better.

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Kisses and Curses: New Voltage Entertainment USA game!

The residents of Werbury, Vermont, would like to welcome you to their city! In this pamphlet, you can find out about all the most interesting places in this little Vermont town! Maybe you’ll meet a magical stranger…?

App Store

Google Play

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Sweet Collection Hakuouki Yuugiroku 2: The Soldiers and the Festival Music

Scanned by masayume85 // Please do not repost without permission or credit!!

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S2 | Ayato Hidaka | His POV

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im serious about that “stop saving things for special occasions” bit tho like. even if u aren’t in your 20s. thats for everyone. its one of the most useful things ive learned lately

stop! just stop. eat the special snack. drink the expensive hippie tea. use the incense or the bath bomb or whatever you paid way too much for because you were feeling really bad and retail therapy makes u feel alive

when we save things for special occasions/rainy days it contributes to us feeling like A.) our day to day existence is lackluster and B.) you have to be feeling a certain level of Bad, or have to reach a certain level of Socially Accepted Achievement, to enjoy things

just give yourself stuff. there are definitely sometimes reasons to withhold things from yourself - as motivation, if it’s something you consciously want to use sparingly, etc - but at least for me half the time it just turns into self-flagellation and also cool things and cool experiences and nice treats just collect dust while i wait for some fabled day when i convince myself i finally Deserve it

just fuckin give yourself stuff dude. life’s so mindblowingly short