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Well he dumped his boyfriend in Vietnam

So a few days ago, when I logged in Tinder, I saw Quân's profile popped up among my matches. And guess what? He is now already looking for a new boy in Taiwan despite the fact that recently he was still posting pictures with his boyfriend in Vietnam and continuously saying that he was "missing" him. Wow, now that I can see clearly he is a total jerk and asshole. Just around a week after coming to a new country, he already dumped his bf in Vietnam (they had dated probably for like over 1 month) and logged in Tinder almost immediately.

I captured Quân's new profile (looking for a Taiwanese bf) on Tinder and sent the pic to the ex that he just dumped and told him that Quân is already looking for a new boy and he is going to unfriend or block him soon. Well, this is truly Quân's pattern and I guess I'm not the only victim. He's not an "ordinary" fuckboy who fucks and dumps you but he also tries to make you believe you and him are going to be in a long-term relationship, which sucks because he literally abuses you emotionally and it hurts you more than just the "fuck and dump" way. Anyway, now that I can see his true colors, I can feel a sense of relief because it will definitely never work for me and him.

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Why Friends With Benefits Are the Best Relationships

Just a nice article to read. It seems true to me though.

In a few days, I’m going to Cuba on vacation with a guy I’ve been sleeping with for eight years, but whom I've never once called my boyfriend. We live on different continents, but inevitably, a few times a year, we find each other somewhere in the world, have a few days of romance, and then go our separate ways. This arrangement would generally be called a friend with benefits, or a fuck buddy, or a romantic friendship, or perhaps even a relationship—with “no strings attached.” But let’s be real: There are always strings, aren’t there?

It was while planning this vacation that it hit me: The two longest relationships of my life have both been with men who I was never officially dating. Boyfriends and girlfriends have come and gone, but my friends with benefits have stood the test of time. I mean, eight years. That’s longer than I predict my first marriage will last. And while I can’t imagine being with my Cuba date “for real”—I mean, he’s a low-key homeless anarchist who once took me on date to his Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting; there are red flags—I still value our relationship immensely. And he actually knows me better than a lot of my partners ever did. So what is it about the friends with benefits dynamic that is more sustainable, and often more transparent, than an actual relationship?

People are skeptical of fuck buddies. They’re like: How can you have sex with the same person, again and again, without falling in love? Or at least, without getting super-jealous and Fatal Attraction–esque? Some assume that one of the “buddies” is always being strung along, secretly hoping that the fucking leads to something more serious. Others dismiss fuck-buddy dynamics as just being compulsive sex that’s devoid of emotion. But why do things have to be so black and white? Surely it’s possible to find a middle ground between eternal love and zombie-fucking a stranger: a place where you can care about someone, have good sex, and yet not want to literally implode at the thought of them sleeping with someone else. Right?Case in point: The most significant romantic friendship of my life was with an ex-editor of mine, whom I’ll call Malcolm. We started “a thing” five years ago and have yet to end it. When I met him, he was 45 and charmingly grumpy, and he would always tell me: “Sex is so perfect. Why destroy it with a relationship?” I’d go over to his apartment for a couple hours in the afternoons, we’d have sex (soberly, which meant I could actually cum), and then afterward we’d drink tea and complain about stuff. It was the best.

There were times when we saw each other frequently, and other times when things dropped off for a while, usually because one of us had a partner. And sure, when he would get a girlfriend I would be a little bummed out—I’m (unfortunately) not a sociopath—but it didn’t cause me to spiral into an emotional cyclone the way I would have if I’d been cheated on by a boyfriend. After all, disappointment comes from expectation.Over time, Malcolm and I became really close. It felt like we had entered this secretive bubble of transparency—we were emotionally intimate, yet free of the burden of jealousy and ownership. We could spill our guts to each other because we didn’t have anything to lose. I told Malcolm about my previous relationships, my fantasies, my heartbreak. Once, he told me this long, complicated story about an affair he had with his cousin, adding, “That’s not something I tell most people.” Probably wise on his part, but I loved that story, as problematic as it may be, because I loved knowing something about him that no one else did. Sometimes it feels like we are more honest with our friends with benefits than we are with our partners.This paradox always makes me think of that Mad Men episode when Betty seduced Don at their kid’s summer camp, well after they had both remarried. Afterward, when they’re lying in bed together, Betty says of Don’s new wife, “That poor girl. She doesn’t know that loving you is the worst way to get to you.” Harsh. But sometimes, romantic friendships can offer a type of intimacy that committed relationships can’t.I was curious to know if Malcolm felt the same way I did about all of this, so last week (for strictly journalistic purposes), I paid him a visit. “Having a friend with benefits is great because it’s just—it’s just less annoying,” he said, smoking a cigar and dressed in an inexplicable beige silk onesie. “It’s more of a low-intensity intimacy. It’s not encumbered by obligations, which just lead to resentment.”He then gave me that look—the one that means he’s about to admit to something despicable and blame it on humanity. “We are all selfish—we all live in this Ayn Rand–ish self-centered world, whether we like it or not,” he said. “When you’re in a friends with benefits situation, you don’t have go to the other person’s awful friend’s birthday party. But if you behave like that within a conventional relationship, it causes problems.

“With [FWB] there’s no illusion about the carnal aspect,” he went on, “so you can be really literal about it: You are two people who like and respect each other—and you like to fuck. There’s beauty and freedom in that honestly. And you can be playful. You can have your sex-power persona, or you can play the super-misogynist pig, or the bimbo, and it’s okay, because you’re not being judged. But if you change that dynamic into being a real relationship, then those games might not seem so sexy anymore.”In other words, your fuck buddy gets all the good stuff about being in a relationship—the wild sex, the cuddles, the juicy dark secrets—minus all of the boring, would-rather-die activities that go hand in hand with commitment, like having to help assemble your boyfriend’s IKEA bed, or having to watch your girlfriend stab at the ingrown hairs on her bikini line while she watches the Kardashians. (That’s me—I’m the girlfriend who does that.)Essentially, you’re taking a relationship and removing the creepy ownership of another human being, which leaves more room for hedonism and sexual exploration. Like, who do you want to bring to the sex party—your boyfriend or your fuck buddy? It’s a no-brainer. I’ve done so many things with fuck buddies that I never would have tried with partners, because I was too much of a jealous monster. (Like once I let Malcolm tie me to a dresser while I watched him have sex with my best friend. Unsurprisingly, it was literally awful, but now at least I can say I’ve done it?)One of the most masterful fuck friends I know is my friend Casey, a 26-year-old Ph.D. candidate in English, who until recently had a FWB for 12 years. It started when she was 13, with a boy whose family spent every summer in the same beach town as she did. (Cute alert.)Over martinis at Cafe Mogador, Casey told me, “When I’m dating someone, my immediate impulse is to be like, ‘Let’s lock shit down! My anxiety will decrease if I know you want to marry me in six years from now!’ Which is crazy and not hot or sustainable. But my longer romantic friendships have been a safe space. They’ve helped me figure out how to relate to someone romantically without the immediate trigger of, Where is this going?” In other words, having a fuck buddy is a great exercise in non-possessiveness.

“The thought of my boyfriend fucking someone else makes me want to wear his skin like a goddamned wetsuit,” she said, eyes bulging. “But with my fuck buddies it’s been like, ‘Oh, my God, tell me more.’ There’s almost a level of titillation to sex stories when it’s somebody who’s not your boyfriend. But why is that? I wish I knew, so I could bottle it and never be possessive ever again.”For all the benefits of fuck friendery, it’s still possible for this dynamic to screw with your emotions. “At different points in our relationship,” Casey recalled, “it was hard to respect the line between friendship and flirting when he started dating someone, because I’d known him more intimately than his new partner. It’s like my morals were thrown out the window, and I felt this gross egotistical sense that I should come first, because I’ve been around longer, like, ‘Girlfriends come and go, but I’m forever.’” Sometimes it’s hard to accept that these dynamics usually have an expiration date, which tends to be when one person gets into a committed relationship. And, unfortunately, not only do you lose the benefits, but you sometimes lose the friend, too.We are taught that all relationships that don’t end up in marriage are failures (because, ya know, hetero-normativity and patriarchal narratives or whatever). But subscribing to that belief ignores the fact that romantic friendships can be extremely fulfilling, enlightening, and straight-up fun. Of course, I’m not dismissing the benefits of committed, long-term, loving relationships. But both dynamics are valuable in their own right. And perhaps the reason romantic friendships are often so sustainable is they lack the soul-baring vulnerability and intense emotional investment.Maybe the coolest thing about the fuck-buddy economy is that it allows women to actually enjoy sex in a casual way, without having to enter an old-fashioned ownership contract. It celebrates female sexual autonomy. It’s a chance to explore ourselves and other people. And in the interim, we can discover who we are and what we like, instead of committing to a pseudo-marriage we aren’t ready for.

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He was a fuckboy afterall

So after months of being constantly reminiscent of Quân, I finally came to the realization that he WAS a fuckboy after all. I mean, I was probably not a perfect boyfriend, either, but the way he broke up with me so quickly and did not care about my emotions showed that he was not the “good" person I thought he was. Also, the way he lied about giving my Facebook account to his friend who then asked me to sleep with him proved that he was an asshole (just like what my friends had always told me).

I found this article online which shows that Quân is 90% this type of fuckboy.

https://survivingthefuckboy.wordpress.com/2018/07/18/ten-types-of-fuckboy/

No.1: The Narcissistic Fuckboy

Now this type of fuckboy I have had the most experience with, as I was in a relationship with one for just over a year. Thankfully, he is now out of my life and I can truly see just how abusive he was, how badly he treated me and how truly fucked up he is. The Narcissistic Fuckboy is a walking contradiction; he is obsessed with himself, yet deep down is incredibly insecure. He demands excessive attention and expects special treatment for doing the norm/expected, e.g. planning a date. The Narcissistic Fuckboy sees nothing wrong with belittling, intimidating, bullying and demeaning others, while thinking highly of themselves. He is deep down, very insecure and so will take this out on you, trying to bring you down to his level of insecurity.

The Narcissistic Fuckboy is manipulative, he knows how to play you. He will be an expert at ‘love bombing’, which is showing someone extreme love and affection, demonstrations of love and confessing feelings very early on, trapping you and making you think he is a wonderful man, without him even showing his true self (which is exactly what happened to me). You may find yourself in a relationship with this fuckboy very quickly and having strong feelings for him, only for him to leave soon after displaying red flags.

Surviving the Narcissistic Fuckboy is extremely hard. Usually the relationship is emotionally abusive. I realised my ex was a bully about 6 months into our relationship. I had researched into emotional bullying and when I confronted him, he promised me he’d change, as he went on to say, every time we broke up or argued over the next year or so. You cannot change a narcissist. No matter how forgiving, understanding, communicative, supportive, encouraging or loving you are, the narcissistic fuckboy will not change his ways unless he wants to. My ex told me “we both know I wouldn’t have ever changed my behaviour towards you”, which infuriated me because 1) if I had known he wouldn’t change, I wouldn’t have given the dickhead so many chances and truly believed that my love for him would change him and 2) he was admitting that he knew how he was behaving was hurting me, that he knew he should have changed and yet he still decided not to.

To survive a narcissist you have to cut off all communication. That is the only way they can stop getting at you. The Narcissistic Fuckboy craves attention, admiration, support and needs someone to belittle to make themselves feel better. If you cut off that source, they will become uninterested and move on to their next victim. Block, unfollow and delete him. Do not check his social media. It will be hard because he will have emotionally traumatised you, but live your life as if he doesn’t exist. Let yourself feel the pain he caused, but at the end of the day, remember that you’re a boss ass bitch who was living life before him and will sure as hell live a better life after him. I promise you, the pain fades. Cut that fuckboy off.

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Men that I have had sex with

so this is the list...

- Trương Gia Hào: April 2021. I had oral sex with him but after that, he didn't seem interested in having sex with me again even though I want to. It's weird because he still agreed to meet me for a lunch or a drink.

- Cao Phúc Vinh, March 2021. We had oral sex only at his home. This douche didn't have the courtesy to reply my messages several times. He still watches my story recently, probably still wants to fuck me.

- Vũ Trần, March 2021. I asked him to go swimming with me and had no intention at the beginning. But then I got a bit horny looking at his biceps and he gave me a blowjob in the shower, I also sucked his dick but only for a short while.

- Trần Phạm Đăng Huy: 2021, third boyfriend who is 2 years younger than me.

- Lý Minh Quân: 12/2020, second boyfriend, lasted for 3 weeks. He said he was born in 1996 but his ID card said he was born in 1993.

- Patrick Wong Mui: 10/2020, a French-Hongkong guy living in HCMC. We actually slept together once in 2019 but did not have intercourse until 2020.

- Huỳnh Văn Lâm: 2020. We met on Tinder and he just wanted to fuck me instead of having any serious relationship.

- Pat, December 2019. He was a Thai-Chinese man I met in a sauna in Bangkok. We had sex there and then he took me out to eat. On the following day, he rented a hotel room near to the hostel I stayed and asked me to come over, so we had sex the second and third time there. I have no pic of him and don't really remember his face now lol. He was just okay looking.

- Jõññy SurferTea: 4/2019, a British living in Cambodia. We met at de.soi sauna in HCMC. His dick was too big so we did not penetrate.

- Danny Huynh (or Tam Huynh), December 11, 2018. I think we met on Tinder. We had sex once and he didnt use a condom. He cummed on my face eventually. Funny thing is one year later, he already forgot about the sex we had and asked me to hook up again but I haven't done it.

- Charlie Hathaway: 12/2018, British boy from London, 1 year younger than me

- Manuel G Dehesa, a Mexican living in HCMC, maybe somewhere in 2018. He gave me the greatest rimming ever. He did not penetrate me though.

- Ganja Wachdini: 9/2018, an Indonesian, we had sex once at a cruise club in Singapore. It was so dark that I had no idea what he looked like.

- Duy Nguyễn: I think the first time we had sex was around 2017, since then we had sex occasionally, like once every several months. He had a nice body. We had some good sex though his dick was small and he was pretty short for my taste. However, he was pretty cheap and would not pay for the hotel rent so I blocked him and he blocked me.

- Phùng Xuân Trung: 2015, he was a friend of Minh's. After the break up with Minh, I went to the hotels with Trung twice but we did not penetrate as I wasn't feeling it. However, he turned out to be an asshole and told other people about how he got to sleep with his friend's boyfriend (even though I broke up with Minh when we hooked up).

- Nguyễn Đình Minh: 2014, first serious boyfriend, lasted for 6 months

- First guy ever whose name and face I forgot. I think it was 2014. He took my virginity and dumped me. He even asked me to join a threesome afterward. What an asshole! Wait, I just searched for old messages on messenger and found the messages between him and me again. His name is Le Anh Tuan, which is also his facebook. And the night when I lost my virginity was October 13, 2014.

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Red flags about Quân

Okay, some I just did some reflection to figure out the reasons why I should move on from my ex and stop being obsessed about him.

- He fell for me to quickly. He said he he “fell in love at first sight" after just seeing my pictures on Facebook. Yep, he “loved” me without even meeting me. Before we actually met, he sometimes said that he “missed" me. Well, I guess this is weird and it shows that he craved for love and romance in a strange way.

- His ex

- His past

- He fell out fast.

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Self awareness

What can be described about myself:

amiable

Crave peace, balance, and harmony in every aspect of your life

not fans of confrontation / try to keep the peace within their social circles and want everyone to get along

only feel good in a harmonious environment

people pleasers at heart / put other people before themselves

facial features are calm and relaxed

have a hard time expressing negative feelings (sadness or anger) and will act out in passive-aggressive, manipulative manners.

Holds grudges / If someone wronged them in the past, they will still tell the stories years later. They never feel like they deserve any of the poor treatment they receive since they have such huge, kind hearts. Unfortunately, this can lead to them drowning in their own self-pity. Once they start feeling sorry for themselves, it’s hard for them to bounce back.

often insecure in making decisions

superficial / A Libra sign cares deeply about appearances

They are much shallower than they lead others to believe. They have a certain type that they are drawn to and would never settle for less than they believe they deserve, physically or emotionally.  

love self-care

Libra individuals like luxurious, beautiful things and they will oftentimes put themselves in an environment with those things, that just because it’s so ideal for them

lazy

gullible / easily influenced

must realize that not everyone is your friend. Some people will take advantage of you and your kind spirit.

daydreaming / have strong, vivid imaginations

The Libra energy is to have fun — and they like to watch other people having fun

Libras care a great deal about what other people think about them. Being in a happy relationship is not enough for them. They want others to know they are in a happy relationship. It’s the same when it comes to their friendships. They post a lot of smiling, group pictures on social media because they want the world to think of them in a positive light.

it‘s not always easy for you to make a friend. But when you do, it‘s generally a lasting relationship.

you don’t like doing manual labor, but you are instrumental when it comes to handling details or paperwork

very careful with your money but sometimes spontaneous

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New Year

Well hey, it's the first day of 2021! Many things have happened since my last post, including my second romance relationship, so I guess this is the perfect time to have a reflection on everything that has happened during the previous year.

One of my most memorable experiences in 2020 was possibly my relationship with Lý Quân, a guy I met on Tinder. Even though it lasted for only 3 weeks, I still want to relive every moment that I had with him. So, we met sometime mid-November. At first, I thought he was just a fuckboy since he posted lots of revealing pictures of himself on Tinder and Facebook. However, he said he looked for a serious relationship and what he did proved that. OMG he was probably the sweetest guy ever that I have dated. When we were on Nguyen Hue Pedestrian street, his hands were always on my shoulder and he was always so close to me to make sure everyone know we were a couple. When we crossed the streets, he stood between me and the vehicles coming towards us. He said he probably couldn't post pictures about our relationship on Facebook because of some homophobic guys that he had to work with, but later on he still did (which completely melted my heart). In short, he treated me so well and I could feel that he was totally enamoured with me.

Unfortunately, we had a fight over a problem that I thought was very small. On the following, he said he wanted to stop the relationship. My friends thought he was just bored of me because the relationship moved too quickly. Now I’m still missing him even though I'm chatting with several new guys.

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September 17, 2020

Wow, it has been nine months since my last post. A LOT of stuff has happened during that period. Well, I have got the band 8 IELTS certificate and I am working as an IELTS teacher as I wished.

However, as for my life right now, I kind of still feel empty. I don't feel REALLY passionate about anything. What should I do? What should I really pursue at the moment?

Career aside, sexually and emotionally I don't truly FEEL anything anymore. A few years ago, I really enjoyed looking at shirtless hot hunks and was actually aroused. Now? I am like ‘meh!’ when I see them. I mean, I would still sleep with them, but the feeling is not so hot and wild as it used to be back then. It is like I have no passion and life purpose and hobby at the moment.

Anyway, I had some stupid experiences with the guys on Tinder again lol. I met this guy named Vũ on Tinder in February and he made me feel like he was really be into me and could be my new boyfriend. Well, stupid me fell for that, but a few weeks later, he “decided” that he wanted no relationship at that moment. Well, I was pretty upset for a while, but it is okay now. We still chat sometimes but i don't really give a fuck about him or have have any feeling anymore.

Another surprise that I had this year was that I got to sleep with Đạt, a popular IELTS teacher on YouTube who made a lot of videos that I watched and learned from. Well, when I signed up for the IELTS exam via his traning center, he saw my Facebook and sent a friend request. We spent 1 night at a home stay and 2 nights at his apartment. I topped him when we had sex though. After that, we never saw each other again, but I don't have any hard feeling since he already said that he only needed a sexual relationship and I am okay with that. Later on, I found out that he also actually flirted with several of his students lol.

Lately, I have met a few new guys on Tinder. One of them is Ben, who I met online yesterday (Sep 16). He seemed pretty cool but I don't think I should have any high hope because I will probably be let down again. Just let things flow naturally, I guess. He has not replied my messaged since the morning, by the way.

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December 16

Wow, it seems like after Ta He, I'm growing feelings for another guy that I should not, again! This time it is Patrick Wong Mui, an expat living in Saigon. We had some fun at his home and that's probably it to him - FUN! Well, at first I didn’t tend to have any serious feelings towards him, but it's strange that the feelings are growing now.

However, it seems like he does not care that much about me. After the time we had fun, it was always me that started the conversation. He replied but just to be polite. He also didn't reply my comment on his picture.

He agreed to meet the second time, but this time we only met to talk. I paid for his dinner (Well, cause he paid the previous time). I don't even know why I grow feelings for him, to be honest. Maybe it's because he was caring and humorous? Or maybe because I'm too lonely at the moment? I'm starting to get jealous and sad when I see he's online on Grindr so often and some gays liking his pictures.

Now, he's going to Jakarta and Malaysia and spending Christmas at Hong Kong. It means I won't see him until next year. The picture below is Patrick's, just a reminder of the guy I had a crush on.

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December 14

Wow, can't believe I haven't written anything on this blog for 9 months! Well, there have been a lot of things going on this year. A little more than a week ago, I met this guy named Patrick Wong Mui, 36, on Grindr. We had some fun at his apartment last Thursday night. I tried to think of him as a fwb but it's strange how I'm starting to grow feelings for him. Well, I hope they will stop growing because I don't want a heartbreak! :)

About my career, I'm trying to get an IELTS certificate with a high score in order to become an instructor. I want to change my job completely. That is my goal next year. However, I have not focused very well on this goal. Ah, I need to put more efforts into it!

I also just came back from a trip in Bangkok. And recently, I booked another flight to Hanoi to see the gorgeous plum flowers next February.

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March 16

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Bế tắc

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Ok, nhưng vấn đề nằm ở chỗ tuy hướng đi công việc thuận lợi sẽ là content, song bản thân mình vẫn phân vân không biết đây có phải công việc mình yêu thích. Bởi lẽ viết lách chưa bao giờ là thế mạnh hay sở thích của mình cả. Ngay từ thời đi học đã cực dở môn Văn, và vốn dĩ bản thân cũng không đam mê gì môn học này. Tuy không quá xuất sắc Toán, nhưng ít ra có thể học môn này tốt hơn và thích học hơn Văn. Sự đời thật trớ trêu khi cho mình rơi vào con đường làm báo chí haha.

Trở lại vấn đề đam mê, thì thật ra năm nay sắp chạm tới mốc tuổi 27 nhưng thật sự vẫn không biết mình đam mê công việc nào để có thể theo đuổi. Trong số các môn học ở trường thì mình khá nhất chính là tiếng Anh. Nghe đến đây thì hẳn bạn nghĩ giáo viên Anh văn sẽ là sự nghiệp không tồi để mình theo đuổi. Vấn đề là tuy thích English nhưng đường như mình lại không thích việc dạy cho lắm! Thật sự con người hướng nội và không thích giao tiếp với quá nhiều người! Thế nên giờ đây mình cũng không biết công việc nào mới chính xác là sở thích và đam mê mà mình đang theo đuổi. Bỗng dưng cảm thấy thật ngưỡng mộ những người biết được đam mê và mục tiêu sống của mình... Ước gì có thể chỉ cần đi du lịch chu du khắp nơi mỗi ngày và không cần phải lo lắng về chuyện kiếm tiền haha. Chợt nghĩ đến ý định làm travel blogger hoặc vlogger. Cũng có thể thử trong tương lai. Có lẽ sẽ không thành công nhưng tại sao lại không thử? :) Mặc dù mình nghĩ có lẽ mình sẽ mau chán thôi haha.

Kế hoạch là sẽ nghỉ một thời gian cho tới tận sau Tết và du lịch Đài Loan vào tháng 3. Nhưng không biết sao tâm trí cứ lo lắng về việc làm sau khi nghỉ việc và mấy hôm nay đã lo tìm kiếm job mới rồi. Đây có lẽ là một điều không nên làm. CẦN PHẢI NGƯNG APPLY JOB MỚI! - Nhắn nhủ bản thân như vậy qua bài blog này.

Anyway vừa nhận ra đây là blog post đầu tiên sau khoảng thời gian đến tận 9 THÁNG! Haha. Chợt nhớ ra mình có cái blog này sau khi lang thang tham quan blog của một travel blogger. Trong 9 tháng đó thì mình đã đi Thái Lan, Nha Trang, Singapore, Huế, Đà Nẵng, Hội An. Năm nay dự định sẽ đến Quy Nhơn và Đài Loan, có thể là sẽ đến cả Koh Rong vào tháng 2 cũng nên. :)

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Tiếc tiền

Trời ơi thật sự tiếc 22 triệu bỏ ra tập PT. Bỏ 20 triệu mua macbook còn không thấy tiếc bằng!!

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Sau mấy ngày cân nhắc, cuối cùng đã mua Macbook Air rồi.

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Trời ơi, có nên mua Macbook không, khó nghĩ quá. Chỉ sợ vài dùng mấy ngày thì đi Bangkok bị mất. Chả hiểu sao có suy nghĩ đó. :(

Mà giờ nghĩ lại thấy tiếc 22tr tập PT ghê huhu.

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Dạo này tự dưng có một đốm vàng là lạ trên bắp tay.

Anyway, hôm nay đang tranh thủ nghiên cứu về kinh nghiệm du lịch Thái Lan.

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First post

Well, đây là post đầu tiên của blog này. Tôi đã định mở 1 blog cách đây 2 ngày, nhưng lại lười quá. Giờ mới làm được. Mở blog để làm gì? Để giãi bày mọi suy nghĩ trong đầu trong ngày, có thể đọc lại vào một ngày nào đó trong tương lai. And well, một phần cải thiện khả năng viết lách nữa.

Anyway, hôm nay quan hệ lần thứ 2 với một anh quen trên Hornet (hôm qua là lần đầu tiên). Hơi lùn nhưng mặt mũi cũng dễ thương và có body. Nhưng có một vấn đề, không biết to hay nhỏ, đó là bao cao su bị rách... trong lúc xxx. Vâng, và mọi suy nghĩ lo lắng lại bắt đầu nảy sinh dồn dập. Không biết có bị sao không, có HIV không huhu. Chỉ 1 điều an ủi là anh ta có vẻ là người cẩn thận luôn dùng bao. Cái của tôi rách, anh ấy liền lấy cái của mình đeo vào. Hy vọng vì thế nên anh ấy không có bệnh gì cả. Lần sau không quan hệ bừa bãi nữa! (Không biết đây là lần thứ mấy tự nhắc rồi).

Đây là bức hình hài hước vừa gửi vào group Thiên tài trên facebook (gồm Quỳnh Anh & Thanh Thanh). Hôm 6/4 tới là đi Thái với QAnh rồi hihi.