You push a little farther than you ever have. A little further than you thought you could. You do it, you grin and bear it, because you know that if this doesn’t make you quit, maybe life won’t make you quit either.
Who says judo can’t be used in a real life situation? Check out how a security officer in China uses ippon-seoi-nage to resolve a hostage crisis. It’s quite a gutsy move because the hostage taker had a meat cleaver.