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[thatonegirl31-blog2]

“Okay, so I’d just to take a moment to address a few things. This is not a forum to Shame anyone. This is not an opportunity for you to boast your “fit life” or health shame spirals.

We are addressing a cultural stigmas that still does not benefit anyone. The culture that is the “thick girl culture, the I love me a bbw boys, the boys that are only okay with loving us under cover and in side.” The thick girl culture is a heinous insult to women, because when men speak about “thick girls” the want an hourglass, big hips, big chest, and butt. When in reality full figured women have stomachs too.

I am a plus size woman, I always have been. Yes, this has caused me a lot of pain and heartache in my life but I finally found me, and I am good with me, so please hold the pity. Now, before the people come at me with a “ fat is not pretty or healthy, blah blah blah,“ please just save it and take several seats. I am a woman that has done just about every diet, and I’ve hated myself for not looking like the models shoved in our faces on every advertisement known to man. What people don’t or refuse to understand is that there are more factors and play for a while of women that don’t come down to what we do and do not put in our mouth‘s.

The mental aspect of being a bigger woman alone is damaging because sure some of us don’t feel worthy or appreciated and some of us don’t like the way we look. However, that being said mental capacities won’t necessarily change even with things like weight-loss surgery, being skinny isn't guaranteed to make you happy.

Now to address the men in the room. Too many times nowadays we see girls on dating apps and they put in the time, and do the work to get ready for dates, and trust me it’s work. Then we get left on red blocked etc. These “men“ are the same ones that claim to “love big women” a “thick” girl and honestly that’s just bullshit. Yes we all know we come in different sizes shapes colors whatever we were not in kindergarten. How about instead of classifying us as “thick women“ or BBW’s, just treat us as a person with decency, if you even know what that is.

Women are emotional beings, we know that, that hasn’t changed since the beginning of time and we all have our preferences, sure, so have them but instead of putting us on a display like oh yeah I like a thick girl just sit back and look at the whole package being presented to you because us big women, Don’t come perfectly figured become with mental strain anguish stretch marks Tummy’s thick thighs and a whole lot of attitude, but we’re are worth it, and we don’t look to you or our satisfaction or self worth. Love us for us not for a classification, or step aside and sit the fuck down.

Love,

The pissed off “thick” girl