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trans guy: but if transandrophobia isn’t real then how come girls trust me less as a man than they did when i was presenting as a woman?

girl who’s been trying to explain what the patriarchy is for the last two hours: Well, You See,

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flavordisk tower

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trans girl: so the patriarchy still benefits under-privileged groups relative to their social positions, for example whilst obviously oppressed, working class men obviously still have privilege over working class women, gay men still have privilege over gay women etc.

tumblr: right, that makes sense

trans girl: so naturally, trans men still have privilege over trans women, even if they are still relatively under-privileged in comparison to cis men

tumblr: shut the fuck up transphobe

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if you're an artist that regularly draws porn involving women and i can peruse your entire portfolio without seeing a transgender woman you've failed and you should give up art

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Transandro Bros trying to figure out why they don't have any transfem friends:

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I wish that yall could just care about the vitriol terfs have for trans women because it harms tma people and not just because it could possibly harm you one day down the line. I'm seeing people say shit like "Goths! You should rally against terfs! No, not because you care about trans women or trans femmes but because YOU PERSONALLY could be targeted for your gender nonconformity!" Can yall get a fucking grip, please?

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see if you THINK about it, any time a trans woman describes how the current gender binary affects them, they're BASICALLY reinforcing the gender binary.

If a trans woman isn't pretending we already live in a post-gender utopia where trans and cis people are entirely interchangeable and has no effect on how a person might be treated in society, they're doing gender essentialism, and they're HOLDING US BACK from that gender utopia.

Trans women are the ones responsible for transmisogyny, obviously!!!

and you know who are REALLY the ones most targeted by transmisogyny? well everyone EXCEPT trans women, of course.

Transmisogyny-afflicted and Transmisogyny-exempt are useless terms because we're ALL tma!!!! except trans women, who are probably tme, if you think about it.

god any time a trans woman says she might be targeted specifically for being a trans woman, while other people might not be, she's basically trying to define people by their assigned gender at birth, obviously, and so she's BASICALLY a TERF. i'm so smart

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This site anytime a trans woman opens her mouth

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Transphobic piece of media: Hello, my name is Mr. Male "The Crossdresser" Autogynephile. I love dressing in women's clothes (as a cis man!) because it gets me hard. I'm also a villain and evil because of this. My creator(s) do not have charitable views on trans women.

TMEs: OMG!!!!!! he's suuuuuch a gnc boygirl... goals! i looooove campy gay men in media! i want to be a woman in the way he is! why don't trans women like talking to me? :(

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I’m probably not the first to point this out, but like, every time trans women (rightfully) criticize transmisogynistic (and sometimes even just plainly misogynistic) trans men/transmascs and other TMEs, they always, every time, without fail, pull out the “ummmmm why are we arguing when we could be fucking you?” shit.

Maybe it’s because I’m jaded, but posts like this just read to me as “I hate it when you argue or criticize us instead of just being a passive sex object for us to use”.

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when you say you support transfems, that should mean all transfems. yes that includes the transfems that kill people. you have to let us kill people, that’s the only way some of us can get off. do you know what estradiol does to one’s sex drive?

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The freak autistic girl who rambles about her interests and has 30 billion weird kinks does exist btw, it's just that she's usually also a little fat so nobody wants to hear it.

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if you would like trans women to stop being suspicious of your intentions as a tme person you should probably take the very important step of not making it about you LOL like it actually really is not about you as an individual at all. part of having friends that are marginalized in ways you aren't - something that needs to be accepted to even get to this point - is listening to them discuss violence/oppression/control enacted on them by people in a group you belong to and accepting that they aren't fucking attacking you personally. how do you think people will come to trust you if you've positioned yourself to assume they look down on you specifically?

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Hello! I asked thyrell this but do you have any receipts of tyler being transmisogynistic?

on his old blog, neotrances, he routinely used guilt by association and outright lies about people to pad his callouts and blocklists, and the victims of this behavior have routinely been transfems; most often this was painting trans women as sexually deviant, dangerous, or pedophilic for holding differing (some would say principled and sex positive, even) views on kink and sexuality, the crime of being a trans woman accidentally reblogging a post from "one of the bad ones", or as became the case more and more before he moved blogs, baseless accusations of raceplay when other nonsense didnt stick. he has deeply reactionary views of sexuality and many kinks, such as seeing pregnancy kink as pedophilic, cnc kinks as evil, and furries as zoophilic, that he almost exclusively uses to paint trans women in sexually menacing light.

in recent history, he attempted to piggyback off the toonimal callout situation by accusing txttletale and maia nyancrimew, two outspoken transfem users, of "running in the same circles" and defending him for reblogging a post of his before the callout even dropped. like he always did during these routine transmisogyny episodes, he then doubled down, exaggerating and lying about the situation with new and equally baseless accusations of them defending "loli [...] shit". he accuses random people of being pedos or raceplayers or whatever, and then adds you to the list for asking why or where the evidence is, accusing you of defending whatever the charge today is. this was two recent examples, but i cannot stress enough that this was a many-times-repeated pattern of behavior that he consistently engaged in with no remorse or apology for years, just shitting on and slandering transfems over and over while palling around with open transmisogynists.

and this isnt even touching on how they tokenize black trans women when they constantly accuse genuine criticism of their transmisogyny as being antiblack, which is one part of this bullshit that always gets ignored, because nobody gives a shit about trans women of color and nobody listens. we say "its an unjust and shitty reach to call a trans woman a pedo for unknowingly interacting with a bad person", and he says "white trans women are evil and harassing me because they're racist". how many times will it happen...?

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