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love the word aforementioned. like i already said that

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Knowledge is stagnant unless it’s embodied—no one is coming to save you

We live in an era where knowledge is everywhere. A single scroll through social media can expose you to life changing advice, yet most people remain stuck. Why? Because knowledge alone changes nothing—it’s stagnant unless it’s embodied

Reading self help books, watching motivational videos and saving wellness posts might feel productive, but unless you integrate those lessons into your life, they remain just ideas. Transformation happens when knowledge moves from something you intellectually understand to something you become

You can know that boundaries are important, but if you keep saying yes when you want to say no, that knowledge is useless. You can know that self care is essential, but if you continue running on burnout, the knowledge means nothing. You can know that confidence attracts success, but if you shrink yourself in every room you enter, your mindset hasn’t shifted

The harsh truth is that no one is going to swoop in and force you to apply what you know for you. No coach, no book, no relationship, no life changing moment will fix you. The only person who can save you is you

Waiting for the right time, the right motivation, or the right circumstances is just another form of self sabotage. The difference between those who succeed and those who stay stuck isn’t knowledge—it’s action

To embody what you learn, you have to live it

Want to be disciplined? Start showing up for yourself even when you don’t feel like it

Want to be more feminine? Slow down, receive, and practice self respect

Want to stop over giving? Set boundaries and enforce them

Want to attract better relationships? Become the person who naturally aligns with what you want

If your words don’t match your actions, you look like you’re pretending to be someone you are not. People feel misalignment. The only way to change? Stop talking—start living

BE X DO = HAVE

Knowledge without action is just wasted potential. If you’re waiting for a sign, this is it. Stop intellectualizing your growth and start embodying it—because no one is coming to do it for you

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I am totally willing to accept unexplained light sources in movies if that means those movies won't be dark as fuck for the 90+ minutes they run

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“Say it before you run out of time. Say it before it’s too late. Say what you’re feeling. Waiting is a mistake.”

— Unknown

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So much peace to be found in realizing that social interactions are inherently “awkward.” People will always talk over each other or pause in a conversation or run dry for topics at times. It does not mean you’re uniquely horrible or that you don’t know how to socialize. I think it’s the way you react to it (either with anxiety or with nonchalance) that actually dictates how much weight it has. But even the most charming, most extroverted person on this earth has those momentary lapses that I think scares anxious (me included) people so much

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“Make the most of the best and the best of the worst, and keep your standards high. Never settle for anything less than you deserve or are capable of achieving.”

— Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

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cause of death: who give a shit

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Casual cruelty has become so ingrained in a lot of people because we live in a society that is structured in a cruel way. To be quite honest you are obligated to consider the harm of your words and actions no matter your personal hardships.

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Basic love is just not it!

I'll wait a lifetime for love that writes impromptu letters, brings me wildflowers from the roadside, remembers my preferences from casual conversations, and makes me feel safe and at peace in each other's presence. i'll cherish honest conversations, confiding in one another and deep soul connections.

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The amount of times I have heard how "love is not like a fairy tale". It made me realize how deeply disconnected this world is from love and romance. I dare to believe that we all deserve (both women as men) beautifully handwritten notes, romantic dates, extravagant yet raw love confessions, over the top love gestures, sensual sex, honesty, full appreciation, deep intimacy and conversations. We all deserve to experience a memorable, romantic fairy tale love. People criticize romcoms, fairy tales, love poetry, love songs yet we still continue to consume love related content. This makes me think that the collective has still a long way to go in terms of healing, I am deeply persuaded the world deeply needs pure, divine love yet has so much trauma around love.

Heal yourself from that spell and believe you deserve more than just a text every now and then, basic sex, and low quality appreciation.

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A lesson I've recently learned that changed everything is that challenges aren't appearing in your life because your manifestation isn't working. It's because your manifestation is working! You are being honed and polished into that higher version of you. You asked for more, now the universe is removing all the excess and forcing you to upgrade your life no matter how uncomfortable initially. That requires your mindset to change, your standards, your values, your discipline and your self-respect. Your manifestation is unfolding right now, all you have to do is keep moving forward. It's already yours.

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I worry I act too spoiled but then I wonder who I think I am performing this life correctly for