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NSFW plural culture is someone accidentally popping in during sex and the absolute embarrassment for everyone involved

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Your trauma is valid if it came from having to act like the adult in the family when you were a child.

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guy who has the doesn't-feel-real disorder: idk why but i don't feel real :-(

guy who has the major-memory-loss disorder: idk it just feels like there's a gap where yesterday is supposed to be :-( weiird

guy who has the different-person-every-hour disorder: woa h guys idk why i said that yesterday that doesn't rly sound like me :-(

DID: the disorder you know you have but it still surprises you every time! only $9,99 (childhood not included)

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DID culture is being more interested in your internal world/headspace than the external world. Just totally and genuinely being uninterested in anyone or anything outside of your system.

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i think our funniest fakeclaiming experience is when someone said we’re not a system because we’re not transmasc 💀 the did leaving our body when we use she/it

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Bingo!

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being a system is so funny like. oh something really shitty happened. well time to not know who i am for like a week lol!!!!!!

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Oh btw if you say you support introjects but are weird about factives of bad people you actually don't support introjects thanks for coming to my ted talk. Don't be assholes thanks

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We did slay tho

Demonia pushed the body a little to far today. Our feet hurt so bad from her wearing our massive 7 inch heels

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Demonia pushed the body a little to far today. Our feet hurt so bad from her wearing our massive 7 inch heels

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guys please we need consistent fronts please im begging on my hands and knees guy guys stop fronting and then dipping for months

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i think an issue with the obsession with parts in DID spaces is how much it made us overcomplicate ourselves and not treat our parts the way they deserve

a triggered part would come to front, and all we could focus on was "who are you?" then feel like we're faking DID when we didn't get an answer

instead of offering that part support and compassion like they needed, they'd be shut down for not being able to come out with an identity in their triggered state of mind

like they somehow had to earn the right to exist by first stating a name and intention

they are a part. maybe they have a name. maybe they dont. a lot of our parts are mere fragments. and thats ok. nothing is required for them to be allowed a space to exist. they don't have to be mapped out to have the right to simply be.

for so long, our focus was on "do i really have did? am i faking? do i have alters or is it just cptsd? am i faking this disorder for validation of my trauma? am i the host or this alter? am i anyone at all?"

when really we needed to focus on "what do i need right now? what do we need right now? how can we calm down and find a middle ground together? how can i offer this scared and angry part of me the support they need?"

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plural culture is being a fictive, and feeling intense amounts of shame because youre completely debilitated by pseudomemories. and you feel like they shouldnt effect you because it “didnt really happen”

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can you tell i was emotionally neglected as a child through my posts

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We run a 21+ system discord! It's pretty active and had a static blacklist.

Feel free to join and make new friends!

how does one (or several in our case) even go about finding system friends :( it’s so difficult to meet anyone that isn’t through discord which in itself is a bit difficult