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Tumblr is good for creative types because the tag system lets you be truly deranged about how much you like it without feeling as Exposed as a Comment Section

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Sys culture is someone asking your age, you nearly say that you're 3 years younger and then go. "Holy shit, we're 23..." And lowkey have an existential crisis.

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sys culture is "that happened the other day (6 years ago)"

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Problematic alter culture is having to be held back from spewing out the most horrific shit to people who aggravate you just to see their face drop in horror. Maybe then you'd finally fucking shut up and leave me alone

It worked last time, they left me alone. Why can't I do it again?

Can I claim 🍣?

See, that's why I'm not allowed to talk during confrontation. I have the same issue, 🍣.

(you may!)

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Reblogs over likes. Like or roblog if used.

[Text ID: This user loves My Chemical Romance]

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"OSDD / DID must be so fun!!" i am trying to drive to work and i can hear another part of myself screaming.

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Christian Scharfetter, Ego‐fragmentation in Schizophrenia: A Severe Dissociation of Self‐experience

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Trauma culture is smelling a similar fragrance to what your ex used to wear and mow being unable to do anything but lay in bed and shake

[dni non traumagenic systems]

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[Text ID: This system reminds you: Thought crimes DON'T exist. Kill the cop in your head.]

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Speaking as a survivor of child sex abuse: the world would be a lot better if yall spent less time talking about the ways in which pedophiles should be punished and more time supporting survivors and preventing abuse

I get it, punishment can feel cathartic. I’ve certainly spent time imagining all the ways in which my own abuser might be punished. But ultimately, him dying, or being jailed, or publicly shamed, isn’t actually going to help me nor will it stop more kids from getting hurt in the future.

I don’t want more prisoners. I want free therapy with trauma informed counselors. I want better sex education for young children that teaches them about consent and body autonomy. And I want a society in which I can openly discuss my trauma, or at least as openly as yall discuss the evils of pedophiles

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[Text ID: This system loves their partner system more than there are stars in the night sky.]

Like/reblog if you save or use!!

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“fake disorder cringe” has us losing our mind so we're going to just say a few things:

systems can have alters younger (and older) than their bodily age.

systems can have nonhuman alters and introjects from controversial or modern-day medias.

systems can have alters that aren't the same gender as the body or use different labels.

systems can have high alter counts.

systems can want to change their appearance (using wigs, makeup, fake piercings, etc) depending on who is fronting.

systems can post about their personal experiences with their disorder and be open about having the disorder.

systems can have a complex headspace or no headspace at all.

systems can have varying degrees of dissociation and memory loss.

systems are not always aware of who is fronting or who they are.

systems can refer to their alters as anything they feel comfortable with, whether it be alters, headmates, parts, or even something like rats.

systems can realize they're a system at an early age or be unaware/in denial for a long time.

systems can go to parties, drink, smoke, and do “normal” things that singlets do.

system alters can have positive triggers.

systems can have times where their alters rapidly switch or their fronting room is crowded/overwhelming.

system alters can have varying levels of communication with other alters.

i shouldn't even have to say this one, but systems can have dyed hair??

tldr: if you don't have the disorder, don't speak on it. fake-claiming does more harm than good.

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Still find it wild that people dont forget me the second im not talking to them. What do you mean things remind you of me and you think about me when im not there?

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[Text ID: This system is proud of how far you've come!]

art is by an unknown creator

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learning how to accept the fact you're disabled and try and function as a normal person is harder then one would think

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[Text ID: This system is going through its evil arc /hj]

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"The gap between high-functioning and low-functioning Autistic people is too wide. This is why they need to be two separate diagnoses."

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

There is no gap, there are people there.

THERE IS NO GAP, THERE ARE PEOPLE THERE!

MSN Autistic people exist. Separating the spectrum is to leave us behind. Stop forgetting about us.