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i sincerely apologize for the person i’ll become when ‘glaciator 2’ comes out. i will not stop talking about marichat and i will go fucking feral.

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What state do you live in?

constant stress

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If youre mad at Adrien for being reasonably upset for being left out of the loop by someone he sees as his partner and best friend, fuck you.

His fears of being replaced and his displeasure/hate for being kept out of the loop is happening again like it did in Syren. He doesnt understand why Ladybug is doing everything with Rena Rouge, he just sees her running off with a new hero and their doing plans together without him and its been happening for some time now where he isnt particularly needed and its starting to weigh on him.

Like fr. Marinette shouldnt be the only one allowed to be upset with shit. Cuz everytime she is its always 'Marinette needs a break, Marinette deserves better! And yes she needs a break obviously but whenever Adrien feels negative emotions, gets angry its always 'Hes being selfish and terrible, he doesnt deserve marinette or to be chat noir, hes such a terrible hero' etc.

Get a different fandom since you wanna suck the joy out of everything.

Salters are lame and boring, I said what I said.

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Ngl I'm getting kinda tired of how much people are blaming Ladybug/Marinette for Chat Noirs/Adrians issues. It's like she's expected to be some mind reader. People act like she just completely dumps him but she has expressed her trust in him so much and asked about his well-being.

You can't just fault one character for a heap of miscommunication.

It's kind of messy, because on the one hand, Chat Noir isn't telling Ladybug that he's upset. She'll ask him if he's okay, and he'll say he's fine, and she trusts him. I also think it's important to note that Ladybug has been very kind to Chat Noir in the few interactions they've had this season— apologizing to him in Optigami (because on some level she knew that defeating the akuma without him would upset him, even without him expressing it), telling him he's the best partner she could've asked for in Guiltrip, Marinette validating Chat Noir with a "that's a great idea!" when he told her his plan to help out during Sentibubbler, and as discussed genuinely asking him if he's okay when he seemed a little upset in Rocketear.

But I also think.... on some level, this kindness to him is coming from a place of guilt, too. I mean, none of this stuff is necessarily strange for Ladybug (she's typically always nice to him, unless he's actively being annoying or they're teasing/bantering), but the fact that Marinette is having nightmares about Chat Blanc and emphasizing to Alya "not even Chat Noir can know!" signals to me that Marinette knows she's betraying Chat Noir, and she knows that the moment he finds out, he's going to be very hurt. Because.... there's no other reason to keep Rena Rouge a secret from him other than his feelings.

I think Marinette knows that what she's doing could hurt Chat Noir, she just doesn't realize that it already has. She doesn't realize that empty words of "I trust you" aren't enough when her actions imply otherwise. And she certainly doesn't realize the extent to which it'll hurt him. I think she's aware that Chat Noir can be insecure about his place on the team, but she doesn't know the extent of it or that a lot of those insecurities come from his awful home life. And she doesn't fully realize how much he relies on her and their relationship because of it.

But also, to be clear....... Marinette is so fucking stressed this season, like she has had so much dumped on her with the Guardian stuff and she's only 14! She's traumatized by a vision of the apocalypse, her crying partner in white, and her own corpse turned to ash.... and she has NO IDEA what lead to that event beyond a vague "we were in love and knew each other's identities" (she doesn't know the actual cause was just. child abuse. but that's another story). She's terrified! She doesn't know what she's doing! She can only do so much!

What's so sad about the Ladynoir conflict is that it's basically Ladybug and Chat Noir's traumas tripping over each other. Chat Noir is sensitive and bad at expressing his feelings because he fears abandonment and was raised by a neglectful father. He's so scared of losing her that he's scared telling her such will push her away even more. Ladybug is stressed out and traumatized by Chat Blanc and feels like she needs to carry the burden of everything, and in fearing hurting Chat Noir's feelings, she further pushes him away to "protect" him...... unknowingly hurting him in the process.

Like.... these poor kids.... someone just get them therapy please...........

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I have one (1) fear, and that is the moment Adrien finally breaks. As Chat, as Adrien, whatever. He can't keep going like this. And when it becomes too much, it is going to hurt, my friends.

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reblog to punch gabriel agreste in the face

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Chat noir can’t even confront ladybug about how carapace and Rena rouge know each other’s identities, because he found out as as Adrien. He can’t bring up this identity rule breaking without giving away his own identity

Nino hasn’t told alya he gave away her identity, alya hasn’t told ladybug she betrayed her trust and told nino about her undercover role, and ladybug hasn’t told chat noir that Rena rouge knows her real identity, and chat hasn’t told anyone he knows about Rena and carapace

Basically this group is gonna fall apart under the weight of all the secrets and lies

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The way Adrien gets hurt, some way somehow in every episode y'all. I can't- 😭

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w8 y'all chat can't even ask ladybug about this because Nino told ADRIEN not CHAT NOIR about his superhero identity & alya's i-

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adrien is PISSED alya and nino know each other’s identities… just wait until he finds out alya knows ladybug’s identity too

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the title card with chat noir in the shadowy corner….

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Rocketear, Miraculous Ladybug (2021)

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I’m sure Adrien knows Nino is only saying this because he’s very upset

But that really got to him

And you can SEE it

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It's 4 am and i REALLY need to go to bed but i jolted awake bc Nino asked Alya why she told him a secret that was between Ladybug and her and then she said because I love you and I can't keep secrets from you but HAVE WE CONSIDERED WHETHER NINO WILL ACTUALLY TELL ALYA THAT HE TOLD ADRIEN ABOUT THEIR IDENTITIES?

If he doesn't and Alya finds out, shit's gonna go down.

If he does, then Alya tells Mari, and shit's gonna go down.

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ladynoir fans every new episode:

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Me realizing that at this point the LadyNoir breakdown is basically inevitable because there's no communication and too much built up stress and anxiety between everyone and YOU NEED TO STOP YOU'RE TEARING THIS FAMILY APART-