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RIP yahoo answers

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Having even slightly popular mutuals is so cool. The king has bestowed upon me a like. Perhaps even a reblog

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Aromantic awareness week!!!!

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REBLOG IF YOU HAVE STRETCHMARKS

This way people can see they’re not alone. I have them and this would help me see that.

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The thing about writing is that you can always add bisexual wizards. Nobody can stop you.

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occasionally there will be a queer person whose way of living their queerness is in conflict with our expectations and definitions for their label

at those times, we remember that queerness is not about the labels, or the definitions, or the rules of expected behaviour, but about living authentically to the crooked strangeness of our human conditions

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THE TORTURED POETS DEPARTMENT 📜 And so I enter into evidence my tarnished coat of arms. My muses, acquired like bruises. My talismans and charms. The tick, tick, tick of love bombs. My veins of pitch black ink. All’s fair in love and poetry.

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a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

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Happy Caturday 🐈‍⬛🖤

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Trope: person who believes they’re unlovable and person who loves them like it’s breathing

Me: *tears in my eyes* it’s jegulus :’)

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Regulus as Juliet and James as Romeo in "Love Story" by Taylor Swift.

Just think about it, them meeting at a party Sirius hosted and immediatly falling in love. Of course, Walpurga and Orion were not okay with it AT ALL and in the end James manages to meet Regulus outside after few weeks without seeing each other and PROPOSES TO HIM.

I'm living for it right now.

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there isn't a single universe in which regulus likes girls

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In my head James always 'disliked' Regulus by extension of Sirius (before the brothers reconciled) and would absolutely have negative feelings towards Reg bc of this - but then by accident, somehow, maybe in the halls or idk JUST BY ANY CIRCUMSTANCE they speak for the first time, and James is like, fuck. Because hating him is now not so easy. And all Regulus did was call him an idiot and shove him with his shoulders as he walked past.

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As for “Who’s Afraid of Little Old Me,” Swift revealed that she wrote the tune “alone, sitting at the piano in one of those moments when I felt bitter about just all the things we do to our artists as a society and as a culture.” “There’s a lot about this particular concept on ‘The Tortured Poets Department,'” she added. “What do we do to our writers, and our artists, and our creatives? We put them through hell. We watch what they create, then we judge it. We love to watch artists in pain, often to the point where I think sometimes as a society we provoke that pain and we just watch what happens.”

Taylor on “Who’s Afraid of Little Old Me” and TTPD (Variety)

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intersex people (including myself) can say again and again and again in as clear language as we can “Please Do Not Fetishise Our Bodies” and “This Is What Fetishisation Looks Like” and there will always be some fucking dyadic person absolutely RACING to tell us how much they don’t value our opinions

“I’m not fetishising being intersex I just wish I was intersex because it would be fun to have both a penis and a vagina”

“yeah I’m normal about intersex people! they’re really attractive/interesting/fascinating!”

“isn’t it so cool how some people are just naturally nonbinary. like your body is nonbinary. which means a nonbinary intersex person is cis”

shut up shut up shut up leave us alone fucking hellllll