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How to date turnips

It seems that I keep coming back to this blog whenever I have reason to complain – which is only a couple of times per month, coincidentally when my period is due as well. Today I want to complain about dating and the men I’ve had the chance to meet in the past few years. When I look back at my “younger” years I had no issues dating, I was actually quite successful and surprisingly, I was always…

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And then I woke up

A fair warning, this post will be a bit sensitive and personal. Every time I am ovulating my hormones start to be out of whack and I have weird dreams. Two days ago I experienced a lucid dream during my 1h nap, which I realised was a lucid dream when I was telling my roommate about it. But last night I had a dream about a person whom I loved a lot. And I want to write about him and what he…

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Fuck bad days

Venting frustrations, seeking solace, and embracing honesty, as I reflect on the chaos of modern life. Longing for simplicity, resilience amidst storms, and the power of personal retreat.

Sometimes I wish bad days wouldn’t exist. Its such a naive way of starting this post, I know, I know. You know you wake up one day and you realise that today is just not the day. You just want to crawl right back in into your bed and do nothing, stop existing. For me that day is today. I am not depressed or anything like that, I just feel tired of being inside of my head all the time. How the…

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Beginnings and other bullshit

Here goes my first blog post! Just a straightforward intro about The Candid Perspective.

Of course I’ve tried across the years to keep up a diary of sorts, handwritten and all. I failed miserably every single time I did try. I’m in my 30s and I don’t have patience to handwrite anymore, I blame that on all the technology that we have around us – not that I complain, I love technology. Anyway, so I’ve been reflecting lately, while questioning my own mortality that I need a medium…