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[thekaratcake-blog]

Literally what you said the other day hon

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[thekaratcake-blog]

Awww yemmmms, I love chu toooo

Trans relationships really do have those kind of role reversals.

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This @sentient-marshmallow-woman ^

This

Fucking "cistranssexual"

No it doesn't, that means nothing and gets nothing across to anyone other than people already fucking head deep in the sand that is this nonsense

What the fuck does that even mean

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.

[thekaratcake-blog]

There is no reason what you are doing would be making it "positive" you are an afterthought because you are the ones yet to be actively targetted

No I've never seen a trans person say they want to transition to be intersex

No I've never heard a trans person say you have it easier

Yes you kinda actually are, literally explain in any other way what else you want people to do when the ybring you up to make it better

I'm seeing you're trying to be genuine, I just think you're wrong and deeply misguided,

Now I'm done for tonight, if you can give me an explanation of "transmascfem" that does't erase someone else, I will apologize, if you can explain how people using you as a counterexample to transphobic nonsense is not okay, and how to fix it in aw ay that isn't "make it all about us" go ahead

The reason you aren't actively focused on is right now you are not being publically dragged across the coals, so far you haven't at all as a community been publically dragged across the coals the way trans people are, you don't have billions of people incredibly vocally calling every intersex person mentally ill sexual predators, the reason you aren't being focused on in posters like the one you seem to have hated, is because right now it's not intersexism that's being used as a political wedge in the majority of the world

There aren't billions of proud intersexists who call you a "ssexually perverted mentally ill monstrositiy", and are currently, and this is a rela thing, celebrating the idea of intersex people about to be raped in prisons

The reason you're an "afterthought" right now is because you're not the ones being targetted by the entire goddamn planet, and you will be defended when you are, but right now it is just deeply shitty to me that you sit here and complain that trans people have the absolute audacity to try and use your existence to help transphobes understand that their view is too narrow, y'know, while said trans person is trying to defend themselves from a level of verbal hell that intersex people just don't face at the moment

A target has been painted on our back, not yours, that is the reason you aren't in the spotlight, that is the reason you aren't being focused on, that is the reason that trans people use intersex people as a counterexample but don't feel the need to detail their entire history or the complexities of their entire life

But please, if a transphobe says to me "there are only two sexes and they're determined by chromosomes" and I say "Actually intersex people exist, they show that this is an inaccurate representation of science and you should abandon it" what else should I add to that? Clearly that's intersexist to you, right? This is what that "gotcha" moment you're talking about looks like

Please do tell me what else I should add to that, because it realy feels like the only thing you wanted added to it is just a diatribe about your entire existence

Now I'm done for the night, I don't think you're a bad person, or malicious, I think you're deeply misguided and harboring a hate and predjudice you don't even realize your harboring, while failing to see the big picture, that you've fallen for stuff liek the "transmasfem" shit without realizing it's actual implications and how it reflects on actual trans identities, I think you have to take a seriously look at this shit and what you actually think would need to be done to those posters and to the "gotcha" moments and if what you're asking for is even fucking feasible

Now goodnight

Starting to think you just don't like trans people

You seem to be actively looking for posts trying to call them out for intersexism, yet I see very view posts about non trans intersexism

As well as the slur in your bio it's definitely making me wonder if the reason you're giving @sentient-marshmallow-woman shit is because you just have something against trans people and have been trained to believe all trans people are bigoted and intersexist by default

Also why tf do intersex people seem to feel the need to punch down on a smaller community in the weirdest ways, some of it is warranted, some of this shit is just deeply unjustified

Because intersexism is often tied into trans activism, and it is painful to see. Often times perisex trans people will use us as a "gotcha!" to transphobes, and it hurts. I have many posts calling out perisex people in general, not just trans perisex people.

I have nothing against trans people, and my decision to reclaim a slur means nothing. I am also a cripple. And I do not believe trans people are intersexist by default. I find it interesting how you came to this conclusion.

Also, we aren't punching down on trans people. If you think exposing bigotry in a community is punching down, then you are very mistaken.

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See that's what I thought at first, until I asked, turns out no and its actually just erasure of that too, go ask

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.

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That's not true btw, that's not the only people the r slur have been used for and it's wild you've even suggest that, like that is actual erasure, you are not both transfem and transmasc, again that doesn't make any sense, my issue with the label is th ere is literally no way to explain it that either a. is completely self contradictory and doesn't make even an iota of sense or b. erases someone else's identities

Like I will actually pay you if you can explain "transmascfemme" in a coherent way that isn't blatant erasure of an existing identity

Also you realize using those words isn't "spiting the people who use them to hurt you" why the hell would they care? You're just spreading the words and hurting people who don't want to hear it for whatever reason, often becasue it's been used to hurt htem

Also you just have been so vague in your complaints about her that even I can't figure out what you're mad at her for, apparentlly there's something new but until then you've literally jsut been vaguely calling her bigoted without any reasl justification

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.

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It doesn't matter if it applies to you, and that's the whole point, you're not claiming it back, you're not making it a positive thing, you're literally just using it

And, okay so we're back to the same thing, you have an issue with intersex people being mentioned at all if the conversation isn't made about them, your issue is that people will bring up intersex people as a counterexample to a claim and then... what, not go into their entire history?

That's what I mean, a lot of what you call intersexism is just being upset that a post not about intersex people.... isn't about intersex people

That people would dare mention intersex people in any way without mentioning every last one of their struggles, that's not intersexism, no one does that, trans people are brought up in plenty of contexts as a passing point of a counter example, gay people, lesbians, asexuals, no one else demands that they can't even be mentioned without giving the other person a primer on their history or whatever you actually want from them, why is it so different for you?

Starting to think you just don't like trans people

You seem to be actively looking for posts trying to call them out for intersexism, yet I see very view posts about non trans intersexism

As well as the slur in your bio it's definitely making me wonder if the reason you're giving @sentient-marshmallow-woman shit is because you just have something against trans people and have been trained to believe all trans people are bigoted and intersexist by default

Also why tf do intersex people seem to feel the need to punch down on a smaller community in the weirdest ways, some of it is warranted, some of this shit is just deeply unjustified

Because intersexism is often tied into trans activism, and it is painful to see. Often times perisex trans people will use us as a "gotcha!" to transphobes, and it hurts. I have many posts calling out perisex people in general, not just trans perisex people.

I have nothing against trans people, and my decision to reclaim a slur means nothing. I am also a cripple. And I do not believe trans people are intersexist by default. I find it interesting how you came to this conclusion.

Also, we aren't punching down on trans people. If you think exposing bigotry in a community is punching down, then you are very mistaken.

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I feel like if she wanted to spare you a panic attack she wouldn't hav mentioned it at all, I don't think this is her fault though, I think this is her just regurigatating what other religious leaders told her

Also if she is leaving the bad shit out while trying to frame it as "better" that's still just whitewashing her religion to make it seem better than others and ignoring it's extremely glaring and harmful flaws

Opinion on chritsians or religion in general?

religion is bullshit. it's the coward's way out of taking responsibility for the actions of your fellow human, it's famously intolerant, it's caused and continues to cause multiple genocides, and keeps fucking trying to fuck with science. Christianity is especially bullshit because it's just an overgrown cult. it has ritualistic cannibalism, threatens people with "eternal damnation" if they don't follow the rules of some bullshit book, tears families apart, and fuckin dehumanises anyone who doesn't want to live without changing their body. Christians can be good people, but their religion is a cult too big for people to criticize.

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I thoroughly doubt that now that you've pointed out that one lil thing, like it suddenly makes a whole lot more sense

hey karat. I'm being attacked again. it's getting annoying at this point. more importantly how's your day going? oh right uh I have a question about NZ.

is it true y'all don't have any consistent elevation? like, is your country just lots of hills on hills or something idk why I think this

My day’s going fine yeah, and sorta? Depends where you go, I live in auckland, which is a relatively small area on top of about 60 volcanoes, if you’re above a handful of em you get that, I’m on like a hill on a hill on a hill on a hill, but other places can be decently flat

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I'm not interested in having a civil conversation now that I know they're just appropriating trans terms and attacking trans people out of some sort of weird spite

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.

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That's not reclamation still, what evidence should she give? Do you need to give evidence that you're trans and disabled then? You haven't done that, that's deeply stupid

Oh god a "transmascfem" okay, right that checks out

Yeah no I'm done here, that's not a thing, you're just taking actual trans terms and mashing them together, I don't care if you're intersex, that doesn't make any sense, I've asked people to explain that to me several times and the best I get is "no but I've kinda experienced both" but all you're doing is actually erasing nonbinary identities, it doesn't even actually have an agreed upon definition

And those aren't reasons lol, those are entirely unrelated to your choice to continue using the slur, I have no idea what those have to do at all with the slur actually

But yeah no I get it now, you're upset with the trans community for not taking your label seriously despite it not making any sense, and because you don't want to try and attack people for not taking that shit seriously, you attack them for percieved intersexism instead, that makes a lot of sense

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.

[thekaratcake-blog]

Don't worry about me, I'm not out of control of my anger and I'm here with my lovely partner on call, I'm perfectly okay

I just know a lot of people, I have more than one friend who after trying to leave the mormon church had attempts on their life by the members of their ex-church

I do not take people trying to whitewash one of the most infamous cults lightly, and ignore the horrific shit it does

Opinion on chritsians or religion in general?

religion is bullshit. it's the coward's way out of taking responsibility for the actions of your fellow human, it's famously intolerant, it's caused and continues to cause multiple genocides, and keeps fucking trying to fuck with science. Christianity is especially bullshit because it's just an overgrown cult. it has ritualistic cannibalism, threatens people with "eternal damnation" if they don't follow the rules of some bullshit book, tears families apart, and fuckin dehumanises anyone who doesn't want to live without changing their body. Christians can be good people, but their religion is a cult too big for people to criticize.

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Right except it is even more often times used by cis people and you seem not to call that out at even a tiny bit of the rate

You seem to explicitly and only target trans people with your callouts

Also you do know there's a difference between a gotcha and an example, right?

And finally, yeah some of the shit you "expose" just isn't bigotry, like the on I recently reblogged was you trying to "expose" bigotry when in reality it was just you complaiing that a thing not primarily about intersex people didn't go into detail about their struggles

That just comes across to me as you being upset it wasn't made about you too

Also great I'm a "cripple" too, that's still not reclamation, reclamation is like with the word queer, where we changed it's use and took away it's power, you're not doing that, your usage of slurs is just helping to perpetuate them, you're literally just using them for their intended purpose

This is most unrelated but fuck the "reclamation" nonsense, it's not reclamation if you're just using your identity as an excuse to use them, that's just using them

Starting to think you just don't like trans people

You seem to be actively looking for posts trying to call them out for intersexism, yet I see very view posts about non trans intersexism

As well as the slur in your bio it's definitely making me wonder if the reason you're giving @sentient-marshmallow-woman shit is because you just have something against trans people and have been trained to believe all trans people are bigoted and intersexist by default

Also why tf do intersex people seem to feel the need to punch down on a smaller community in the weirdest ways, some of it is warranted, some of this shit is just deeply unjustified

Because intersexism is often tied into trans activism, and it is painful to see. Often times perisex trans people will use us as a "gotcha!" to transphobes, and it hurts. I have many posts calling out perisex people in general, not just trans perisex people.

I have nothing against trans people, and my decision to reclaim a slur means nothing. I am also a cripple. And I do not believe trans people are intersexist by default. I find it interesting how you came to this conclusion.

Also, we aren't punching down on trans people. If you think exposing bigotry in a community is punching down, then you are very mistaken.

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They made no points here?

of course I get called bigoted. nobody will say why, they just keep spouting shit I can't understand and they won't provide proof or educate me on what I'm doing wrong and they don't see what's fucking happening to me and oh god I want to kill myself now. I keep trying to help people and learn so I can help more people but I keep getting attacked for wanting to help nobody is being peaceful they're all yelling at me I feel like my parents are behind me screaming about how I'm a piece of shit who will never make a difference and doesn't matter oh god oh fuck

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I mean this is just actual fact, Mormon's are known for using manipulative and harmful tactics for indoctrination, their prophet had a 14 year old wife halfway through the 1800s, and are known for their hate of the queer community and attacks on it

Infact recently a large youtuber "Shadiversity" used his mormonism to justify his outright attacks on gay people including calling them all groomers and predators

I don't like Mormons, I've seen what they do, the damage they have caused, this is just actually all fact and you can check if you'd like

No issue with your friend but to paint their actual pedophile prophet as some sort of good person without mentioning that shit is kinda misleading

Opinion on chritsians or religion in general?

religion is bullshit. it's the coward's way out of taking responsibility for the actions of your fellow human, it's famously intolerant, it's caused and continues to cause multiple genocides, and keeps fucking trying to fuck with science. Christianity is especially bullshit because it's just an overgrown cult. it has ritualistic cannibalism, threatens people with "eternal damnation" if they don't follow the rules of some bullshit book, tears families apart, and fuckin dehumanises anyone who doesn't want to live without changing their body. Christians can be good people, but their religion is a cult too big for people to criticize.

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If you want someone to use the correct pronouns for you

You should probably put them somewhere anyone can see it lol, there was zero way for me to know that, so don't you dare try to give me shit over that

Also again, you say you don't attack trans people but literally all of your intersexism posts are talking about trans people, feels kinda weird

And yes you have actively harmed marshmallow, absolutely lol, was that not clear from her explicitly saying that?

Also yeah again that last sentence is great and all but where are all the posts about intersexist cis people? Why is it so disproportionatly about trans people? Like really disproportionatly about trans people?

hey karat. I'm being attacked again. it's getting annoying at this point. more importantly how's your day going? oh right uh I have a question about NZ.

is it true y'all don't have any consistent elevation? like, is your country just lots of hills on hills or something idk why I think this

My day’s going fine yeah, and sorta? Depends where you go, I live in auckland, which is a relatively small area on top of about 60 volcanoes, if you’re above a handful of em you get that, I’m on like a hill on a hill on a hill on a hill, but other places can be decently flat

[thekaratcake-blog]

That's not really even reclamation, you're literally just using it for it's original intended purpose

Also no the only slur she's using applies to her btw, great assupmtions tho

And it's that? Not your active choice to sex out posts attacking trans people for supposedly being intersexist? Kinda feels like it's more to do with the fact that you just don't like perisex trans people

Like I've also been assaulted for being trans, I've also been fetishized for being trans, what the hell does that have to do with literally anything? Why does that change that?

Also why are you calling @sentient-marshmallow-woman out for bigotry but you choose to use a slur in the first couple words of your bio? There is just no reason to use that word to describe that, for everyone who would look at your bio, especially if people might have sensitivities over it

Because, as a trans person, I choose to reclaim that slur. It is an integral part of my identity, same as teh fact that I am a faggot, or a hermaphrodite. If people have sensitivities over it, they can click away. It is not my job to coddle people. Marshmallow uses slurs she cannot reclaim, and that is the difference.

And there IS a reason for me to use the slur to describe myself. I have been fetishized for being trans, I can only really be out to my mother and not the rest of my family, I have been assaulted for being trans. There are so many more reasons.