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Moon in the 8th Synastry ‧₊˚🕯️🖤❀‧₊ ---------------------------------------- The Plight of Obsession <3

Today, Tumblrerians I will start this series off with THE INFAMOUS moon in the 8th house synastry... 🍷

(this is also my first post, so I hope you enjoy it, and please give me recommendations in the comments on what I should post next! now enjoy this lengthy post I have awaiting you❣️)

I have had this synastry placement a few times in my life. From my observations, the romantic interactions pertaining to this synastry tend to be more intense than the platonic. But let’s be honest, all 8th house synastry is insane and will drive you to the looney bin😍 unless both people express themselves in healthy ways, but like still. Upon meeting this person, something about them will intrigue you, and something about you will intrigue them. This kind of energy wraps tightly around your heart before you can even realize what is occurring. After you notice these feelings, it is often too late and now you are in for a ride of emotions that honestly is really no longer your choice.

This kind of situation can drive you mad because just one interaction with someone who shares this synastry with you, and it will pull at your heart strings. You sit there wondering why you are so riled up about someone that you don't even know that well. Why you hitch your breath after just one glance from them; and it has only been a week since you've met them you tell yourself. But in that one week that goes by, the thought of them has fully gripped your mind for those seven days. And the nightmare that occurs after you are separated from each other, their energy lingers and you begin to miss them deeply even though you don't even consciously know who they are. Subconsciously however, you know exactly who they are, what they need and desire.

On the other hand, there can also at the same time exist an energy of deep anger and hatred for this person because they trigger suppressed resentment and issues that deeply imbedded within you. Whether it is love or hatred, a common occurrence can be an energy of mutual obsession. Where the both of you are so enamored by each other because you both are experiencing a one of a kind event with one another. Intentional or unintentional, they will trigger everything that you want to hide and keep hidden away from the world. If you had a painful emotional experience from the past, whether or not you addressed it, their presence will remind you of those times. They might not be putting intentional effort to trigger you either, most of the time they’re not even aware, it just happens because their moon (a luminary) illuminates that area of your chart. You’re not the only one who feels it though. They feel it as well. Once again, if you have any dormant emotions, painful experiences from the past that you've overlooked and elements that you haven't processed, if you are suppressing anything, then this can become a painful situation with an obsessive and ruminative energy. Yet, through the pain you will certainly grow. Over time, you will find yourself wanting to dump your trauma on them.

The 8th house is also the house of intense emotions such as deep hatred, but in that space there also exists deep love and devotion. Loyalty is a big theme in this house. However, being around this person can be a mirror in which you see your pain and you are forced to tend to these internal scars. This kind of synastry permanently alters you. You are not the same person as you were before you met them. The beauty of the synastry is the level of vulnerability you could reach with the other person. Yet it is terrifying because that means this person has the same power to hurt you at your most vulnerable.

This synastry is known for creating that hidden hush hush element where you have to hide this connection, and most times there is a forbidden aspect to the connection. I was in a situation like this where I couldn't tell anyone about this connection. There is a mutual obsession and both parties are very highly likely to stalk each other through social media, location tracking, etc. You just have an addiction to stalking each other to be frank. Emotions, obsession, they want to pry into your life, figure out everything about you, they want to know everything you are hiding. They might even have an idea of what you are feeling/hiding since this house is also telepathic. For example, if you left a journal at their house, they 100% would read it because they get so nosy about you haha. Or let's say you're working on your laptop they're gonna stand behind you and try to see what you're doing. It reminds me of the line from Wait a Minute! by WILLOW that says:

You left your diary at my house And I read those pages Do you really love me, baby?

lastly, Hey Boy by Kali Uchis and Omar Apollo

I wonder how you really feel about me  I love those feelings that you bottle you should pour them on me Baby I can't believe you had to live a life without me Come here and show me how you feel I wanna see if it's real

Extra observations:

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This tends to be a telepathic connection. You will feel them at all times. Whether you want to or not, you will feel their presence. If they are around, you will feel it. If they enter the room, you will feel it. Your heart will start beating really fast, nausea (just a bit hopefully??), hands will shake, you get into fight or flight mode basically. And when they leave, you will feel it the most because their presence is adjacent to a high. When they're gone, the high you get from them is gone too. If the relationship is sexual, they want to feel your core emotions they want to destroy your emotional walls and feel the most center parts of you.

There's a kind of sexual obsession that both parties get entangled into with each other. You'll have a desire to connect extremely deeply with them. There's this feeling of wanting to absorb all of them and give yourself to them in return. It's such a down bad feeling lol, like pure desperation and dedication. Like you need them or else you'll die. It's truly a situation where you'll always come back to each other. Now there are instances where this synastry can become negative such as situations of abuse or lack of trust where you definitely should cut them off, it may be gut wrenching and painful that is also one of the lessons of 8th house synastry; to have the courage to move on even though it is extremely hard to do so.

There's this idea of masochism associated with this synastry. Where both parties enjoy suffering at the hands of each other. There is an energy of pleasurable torture that could take place. There is suffering and torture but as long as the two members of the party do it together, they accept it. This is the toxic side of 8th house synastry.

There is extreme possessiveness involved with this synastry that one cannot avoid. You both will never want the other to be with anyone else. The energy of another person's property and ownership gets involved since the 8th house is opposite to and aspecting the 2nd house which is related to personal property and assets; but with the 8th house, it becomes a matter of the property of someone else. You get involved in each other's deep emotions and rich inner life. To put it simply, you feel like you own each other. There is also a blurring of boundaries in all areas of life. You don't know what ends or starts in relation to each other. The planet person might also desire to spoil you with their money and assets. They want to give you nice things.

You both WILL DEFINITELY CRYYYY over each other. Like this synastry is no joke. You can try to avoid it by holding it down in the depths of your soul but this is just something ur ass cannot avoid aajsshhahsjdjjdjdjdjfjfkkfkdjd. Most of the time, you both won't even know that you're crying over each other because you want to keep your feelings hidden to protect yourself. Anyways, the sexual tension you can cut with a knife. I think I will make a whole separate post about that. But yall this will kinda take over your whole life. The intense eye contact WILL happen as well, there's no way around it. You both are going to love staring in each other's eyes too, there's a rush that comes with the eye contact. You can only dream of touching each other. To put it simply 8th house synastry is all about deep care, deep devotion, deep intimacy, money, ownership, other people's resources, painful emotions, intense sexual energy, tears, binding love, eye contact, gifts, suffering, intense attachment, possession of each other, undying obsession, sacrifice for each other, and "I'll never forget you". Think MORTICIA AND GOMEZ OMGGG

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Here is a collage that is a visual representation of 8th house synastry:

Here's a guide to let you know if you have 8th house synastry:

House Person Planet Person

Aries rising — Scorpio moon

Taurus rising — Sagittarius moon

Gemini rising — Capricorn moon

Cancer rising — Aquarius moon

Leo rising — Pisces moon

Virgo rising — Aries moon

Libra rising — Taurus moon

Scorpio rising — Gemini moon

Sagittarius rising — Cancer moon

Capricorn rising — Leo moon

Aquarius rising — Virgo moon

Pisces rising — Libra moon

Bye for now, my loves <3 please give me any requests in the comments. I will definitely be doing more posts on 8th house synastry and have no intention to stop either.

Drink your water, take a breath, and eat your fruits.

I love you !!!!!

Best,

prettyygirllover <3

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Sexual Astrology: The 8th House | What is your sexual style?

The 8th house in astrology is the house most closely related to the sexual experience. So, the sign located on your 8th house cusp (in addition to its ruler and Mars) will give you a glimpse into your own unique sexual style. The intention of this post is to explore each style according to the signs which are cusping the 8th house. Please note that this deals purely with sex and has nothing to do with romance or dating. If you want insight into that, check the sign and planet on your 5th house cusp. The ascendants are based on the Equal House system.

Aries on the 8th house cusp: Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet that rules over sexual impulse in the natal chart. The Aries sexual style is very passionate and spontaneous. These people tend to prefer shorter sessions of lovemaking. They are more inclined towards sex with no foreplay and things such as the quickie. Sex with these people is short-lived but much more frequent. [Virgo Ascendant]

Taurus on the 8th house cusp: Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet that rules over sensuality in the natal chart. The Taurean sexual style is very much connected to the physical body. The sexual experience for these people is more in the body than in the emotions. They will, however, attempt to engage as many senses as possible during the act itself and can easily go on for hours at a time. They tend to veer more towards things such as neck play or the full body massage. [Libra Ascendant]

Gemini on the 8th house cusp: Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet that rules over communication in the natal chart. So, sex for these people is completely in the mind. They enjoy the experimentation aspect of the sexual experience and are always up for trying new things. They love to play games with your head, as this is highly erotic for them. These people are also drawn to things of a youthful or intellectual nature, such as teacher/student roleplaying. [Scorpio Ascendant]

Cancer on the 8th house cusp: Cancer is ruled by the moon, the planet that rules over the emotional state in the natal chart. Sex and emotions are impossible for these people to separate, and feelings play an integral part in the sexual experience for them. Their style usually tends to be more on the traditional side of the sexual spectrum, so don’t ask them to do anything extreme with you unless their chart indicates otherwise. 8th house Cancerians, both men and women, enjoy things such as breast play. [Sagittarius Ascendant]

Leo on the 8th house cusp: Leo is ruled by the sun, the center of our solar system, and is the centerpiece of the natal chart. Their sexual style is very theatrical and dramatic no matter what they’re doing. These people are ruled by passion, so you can bet that their sexual apetite is ravenous. When their flames of lust have been ignited, watch closely as the kitty transforms into a lion right before your eyes. These people often need reassurance of their skills, so don’t be surprised if they keep asking you if you like it. Exhibitionism is the name of their game whether they are out in public or in the privacy of their bedroom. [Capricorn Ascendant]

Virgo on the 8th house cusp: Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and intellect in the natal chart. But here it takes a bit of a different flavor than with a sign like Gemini. Here, the sexual experience is redirected towards the pleasure of the other person, with Virgo being the sign of physical self-sacrifice. So, the person with this placement aims to please sexually in every sense of the word. These people don’t have any particular kinks, but instead focus most of their sexual energy into what the other person likes. [Aquarius Ascendant]

Libra on the 8th house cusp: Libra is ruled by Venus in the natal chart, but here Venus has to do with relationship. The selflessness is carried over from Virgo into Libra, as these people thoroughly enjoy pleasing their partners. Libra is a very others-focused sign, and the sexual experience for them is all about the other person. However, their actions in the bedroom are driven more by romance as opposed to the need to be of service to their partner physically. Be forewarned. These people know how to literally charm the pants off of you. [Pisces Ascendant]

Scorpio on the 8th house cusp: Scorpio is ruled in equal parts by both Mars and Pluto in the natal chart, and is the sign associated with the 8th house and the sexual experience on the whole. The Scorpionic approach to the sexual experience is different from any other sign. It is very deep, dark, intense and all about the intimacy with their partner. These people will go to places that not everyone may be comfortable going (think BDSM or any other kind of extreme sexual act), so if you’re going to involve yourself with someone with this placement, you should make sure you’re comfortable with going there with them first. Sexuality is the core of the Scorpionic experience, so nothing is taboo for them. [Aries Ascendant]

Sagittarius on the 8th house cusp: Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion in the natal chart. So, sex with these people is often larger than life. Sagittarius is the sign associated with excess, and this often parlays over into their own sense of the sexual experience. This energy is also half beast and half human, and their beastial half always comes out during the sexual act. They tend to prefer it a bit more rugged than other placements, as they view sex more as a sport. They are animalistic to their very cores. Because of their rough and rugged outlook on sex, they are very much into sexual positions such as cowgirl or any variation thereof. [Taurus Ascendant]

Capricorn on the 8th house cusp: Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the planet of restriction in the natal chart. Capricorn sexuality is often depicted as lack-luster and boring, but make no mistake, Capricorn energy is highly sensual. Because it is an earth sign, they are much more in the physical body than the feelings and they know how to prolong the sexual act itself. Its association with restriction lends itself to things such as light bondage all the way up to hardcore BDSM. It all depends on their other placements. These people do however take a very matter-of-fact approach to sex, so they know what they want out of it, and you can be certain that it will be something you won’t soon forget. [Gemini Ascendant]

Aquarius on the 8th house cusp: Aquarius is ruled in equal parts by both Uranus and Saturn, the planets of sudden change and restriction respectively, in the natal chart. Aquarian sexuality doesn’t necessarily stem from a physical need but a mental need. Much like Gemini, this placement is highly experimental in the bedroom. Because of their ability to detach themselves emotionally, they usually aren’t ones to linger after the fact. 8th house Aquarians aren’t into any one particular thing, but love to try out new things. It’s like thunder. It’s electrifying but it’s over as quickly as it started and you’re left wondering what just happened. [Cancer Ascendant]

Pisces on the 8th house cusp: Pisces is ruled by Neptune, the planet of spirituality in the natal chart. Pisces sexuality is entirely emotional. These people view sex as a means to completely merge with their partner: mind, body and soul. They might enjoy such activities near (or even in) water due to its association with the sea. The Piscean 8th houser will want the sex for they and their partner to be an out of body experience. This placement, much like 8th house Librans, will more than likely take a much more romantic approach to the sexual experience, but with strong feelings attached. These people want you to drown in them. [Leo Ascendant]

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Mars Through The Houses : El chico Romantico

Mars In The First House : el Bulldog

(Gunna - Car Sick ft. NAV & Metro Boomin)

They can be Heavy, Domineering, and powerfully sexual and raw. something like a volcanic eruption, and it’s searing steam and smoke burning threw your esophagus as it works it’s way down your intestines. these men can be rough. they aren’t the sweet ones or the ones with those soft hands. they carry themselves self protected and can seem as if they are irritated or enraged when they’re actually in the best mood. the men and women here can loathe people being too close, or two overly familiar with them especially if you seem shady or superficial. the men and women don’t know how to hide their feelings or disdain so often they can make some pretty blatant or genuine reactions to things that can at times hurt your feelings if your skin isn’t thick. these natives aren’t cold hearted, rather they are and have grown up in environments that pushed them to be tough, strong and conflict ready. they like honesty and usually dislike being directed or bullied into choices & can often lash out or react to people on sight making them seem unapproachable. romantically the men are direct and INTENSE. when they see something they like you best believe they’ll be eating. they don’t beat around the bush and can be very impulsive about getting things started. the women on the other hand are a bit more subtle and chill about their approach. they often use their beauty and sensuality to mend situations in their favor, but once they’ve booked their love interest they can be very sexually direct and often fall in the role of the initiator. women with this placement in their early years can feel a bit out of line with their femininity and might be insecure about this for sometimes until they claim their sexuality. once claimed these women are HOT, sensual and very intimidating, both physically and emotionally. mars in this house adds a level of strength and resolve in many women often pushing them in more traditionally masculine roles and also making them far more comfortable with aggression and volatile environments. the men can be strongly sexually driven but they often have a strong love for balance and strength In their partners. the love nature is often soooo passionate and these boys aren’t on the hunt as other fire houses, usually preferring one lover. that being said for both sexes, once the bridge is crossed and they’re betrayed or left they often have no issue moving on. the face and eyes tend to be fixed and tense, the face is often sporting a couple of scars or small acne here and there. the hair can be set set in it’s color. they can have a sort of arian look and may even seem like an aries rising but, the energy is far more raw. the first house gives more cardinal and even far more aggression to the natal mars. they can seem far more fiery and independent then their fellow mars and the sexuality seems to ooze of the native. can seem aggressive and mysterious. 

Mars In The Second House : El niño Senual 

(Jungle - Beat 54)

They can be slow, sensual and bullheaded. something like a candle lit room, all the windows open as you feel the cool breezing wind blowing the rosemary scented candle scent around. these men are perplexing to say the least. sometimes they are all in, so interested and so decided and the next moment they have no opinion, no feeling or perspective on the matter. they can seem aloof or rather doe eyed at the feeling of contentment they’re are feeling. these men send mixed signals but make no mistake they’re as stable as they come. the mixed signals comes from their fear of being hurt and wasting time. they need and crave stability and oneness but often more than not people never are ready for the long-term. they are very patient and often tend to be amazing listeners and even finer gentlemen as they often had a strong foundation of their upbringing based om being courteous and respectable. they have a monstrous level of self control and this is how they seduce you in silence. they coil around you and wave their expressive eyes as they touch you in all the right places. they hate people that rush them and tend to do things in steps or phases rather than day by day; so you could be waiting a little while if you’re waiting for one to admit how he feels to you. women with this placement are stubborn as hell, the devil himself with god as his right hand wouldn’t be able to sway her mind. these women tend to be creatures of comfort and pleasure and normally you’ll notice in the way they present themselves that quite a bit of effort goes into hygiene, upkeep, and we can not forget clothes. both sexes love the lavish life and tend to be very business savvy, so you’ll often see them with everything they dreamt of and more due to how hard of workers they are. the women tend to be very sensitive at heart but the male version of this placement is not only moody but they’re veryyyy emotional. the women usually approach things slowly but know when to speed things up while the men will go as slow as molasses even as the deadline is approaching. the sexual nature is tender and sensual and these natives tend to like the build up and anticipation to sex, involving all 6 of the senses. unlike their 8th house counterpart they tend to like intimacy and sex in a large quantity, ever tiring of it due to their love of consistency. the throat can have scars or a more muscular veiny look for men and women. mars in this house is given lower sun venus traits and can make a natives mars seem more slow, steady and passive. 

Mars In The Third House : El chico Flighty 

(Billy Idol - White wedding) 

They can be tantric, racing, and completely exhilarating. something like those nights you snuck out to go to that party you knew that special boy would be at. they often can leave you wondering, or leave you asking. these men seem like they are only here for the moment, waiting for the next mental highway. their sexuality is like a current and often what they want and need is unfamiliar. they just chase the tracks and end up in a new place, new people, new love, new sex, new feelings. they don’t get mad per say, they just have spurts of aggression that can come from nowhere. you see the third house makes emotions bounce about yet never does it confront them at the moment in time they should’ve been dealt with which is why everything can seem so intense during these spurts. these natives could be angry about something that happened years ago, yet because they never dealt with it that emotion upon return comes back far darker and far more wild than it was at the moment in time. They can love sex or be completely unmoved about it. everything is a psychological and often mental experience for them so in many ways it’s sort of like they take things as they go and never really waste to much time on the moment. the women sport the same energy here. They can be flighty and even a bit unattainable as they often actively pursue dead end situations as a means of maintain their freedom. they tend to adore communication and cerebral banter and honestly for both sexes, the mind is an aphrodisiac. one must be able to traverse the mind with them, and strip it’s layers to really rile them up sexually. the men and women can have strong arms and or arms that are rather well defined or muscular in it’s shape. men tend to have visible veins or even just very hairy or alpha looking hands and arms with this placement. and the manner of speech for both sexes can run from abrasive, to direct and blunt. the mind is often pretty restless and childlike, making these natives easily bored or irritable when stuck in a retentive space or situation. the women with this placement tend to be social chameleons and can easily charm their way through a crowd. the thing here is that mars in the third house women tend to be intimidating both mentally and spiritually as the mercurial energy allows their divine feminine a further reach in the world of the living. men can range from domineering or arrogant with this placement of mars. the thing to be said is that the men can be provocative and deeply magnetic with their charismatic gender neutral sensuality. although astrology doesn’t tell sexuality, I will say that this placement for mars gives many a very free attitude to sex. third house gives mars a rather detached and whimsical energy. the mars is covered in a more mercurial, buzzy energy making them seem anxious, restless and distressed. 

Mars In The Fourth House : Mommas Boy

(Shanice - It’s for you)

They can be emotive, aloof, and a whirlpool of feeling. something between what we speak without words and something that we speak threw touch. they often need and crave touch. men with this position can be soulful and unpredictable. you never really see them coming, mainly because so much of what they feel behind the actions and stunts they pull is swimming somewhere in their heart. much of their motivation and reaction is all from their gut, deep in their soft bellies or rock hard abs lay the reason why they left you on read, or haven’t talked to you for 8 months after that one date you had at carabaos. you wont ever understand these men because they don’t really understand the waters either. these men tend to be ones to jump into physical intimacy as opposed to be communicative right away. it’s easier for them to convey through closeness and “heat.” many tend to be passive and rather side - to side with how they pursue love interest, sometimes being more bold one day and then ghosting days following. they don’t lack confidence, rather they just lack consistency so often times it can seem like they’re shyer then they actually are. These men tend to have emotional bonds with their home life that are rather aggressive or passionate in it’s building. and even more so they can be rather protective of their family and loved ones. the family is often one that has either a military, police, FBI, government, Doctor/hospital work, and or sports background. The women here tend to sport the above mentioned home traits and both men and women here can be far more blunt and assertive when at home than any where else. women with this placement can be strongly divine, often choosing reason above outright action unlike their male counterpart. the reactions are dealt with openly though which often causes the women of this placement to retreat into their shell more often than not due to wanting to maintain privacy. they often need an emotional connection before initiating any form of deeper contact and tend to for better or worse have a strong tie to the father in such a way that he shapes who and what she attracts and does in her life regarding more masculine types in her life. she can often be musically inclined and have quite the warm energy, women and or feminine men of this placement tend to be like honey sickle for masculine types. they often crave the nurturing and warm glow of these natives and can often grow very obsessive appetites for these natives. The chest region can either be more on the smaller side or more muscular shaped for both women and men here. parents where either too childish or too impulsive and self centered during childhood. that being said parents where passionate, intense and deeply protective. a more emotional/ watery nature can be added to the natal mars when in this house so it’ll often make the mars far more touchy/sensitive and cautious. 

Mars In The fifth House : El chico apasionado 

(Zedd, Katy Perry - 365) 

They can be cunning, amorous and dubious. something in-between fast and ecstatic. Speed is the name of the attraction and it’s only second to how long they can wane and purr while the courting stage is starting. they adore the chase but also adore the moments of heartening longing. in most cases they can be overrun by their more impulsive desires and wants, often confusing these with things they actually need. The backs can be muscular and more roughly hewn for both men and women of this placement. in women this can show a women who is naturally full of radiant energy albeit in a more subtle way. she’s magnetic but joyful almost like a fairy. women here can often find themselves being a slave to the passion of the chase, often taking on more aggressive actions and personalities when getting what they want be it romantic or otherwise. men and women here tend to adore competition and the idea of feeling like they “might” have an equal even though deep down they crave the “idea” of it more than it’s “actuality” they can be passionate and deeply fixed sexually and tend to be deeply intertwined with their sexual partners. the fixed nature of this house adds an almost brick like level of concentration on romance and the pursuit of sex. they love to have it but even more so they can be extremely possessive and loyal once they’ve been cooed. the anger can run calm, and then become evasive much like a lion but once pushed beyond the nicking and scratching they can get VERY volatile. The children can be very Arian in their nature and either have a high concentration of mars or Scorpio In their own charts. domineering, wild and often hard to manage behavior is common in the child’s early stages. all I can recommend is to make sure you keep a firm grip and remain steady otherwise those kids will run you over. relationships with the kids are often passionate and physically involved. these natives have a strong love for sports or physical activity and many can take up dancing or boxing as hobbies as they need to release that overabundance of energy. The sexual nature is dynamic and insatiable and these natives tend to need sex quite a bit. These men can be easy to spot, the smile is always cocky and smooth, they feel like they can have you, like you just can’t do without them. the women seem passive, yet behind the veil, their meticulous strokes of the hair, the low glare and glowing smile…they’re seducing you.  both men and women here are famous for falling out of love when they feel as though they aren’t your main focus or obsession. they want to feel desired, in many ways they can confuse sexual chemistry with love but above all else they want to feel like two people can’t get enough of one another so often they live in a more romantic state of mind which often clouds their energies. they love hard but can often have turbulent love unions because of how “ON THE HUNT” they can be about love. adds a very dramatic, passionate, and dynamic attitude to the natal mars. often adds a fiery nature to the mars.

Mars In The Sixth House : El chico perfecto

(PJ Harvey - One Line)

They can be attentive, earthy and dangerous. something so sweetly wrapped and decorated, with a very dubious and bare inside. They often seem so neatly packaged, the perfect smile, the most down to earth persona, soft eyes and that sweet compassionate hand. the thing is many men with this placement have two sides to them, MR. perfect and The darker lost boy. they don’t like to reveal anything messy so soon and in most ways they are so good at hiding their “human” qualities that you’ll almost feel lied to wants they start to shed their meticulous skin. they can often be strongly attached to the world and the trees, and nature itself for that matter. they truly are nature boys and take quite a bit of care to live healthy and well mannered lifestyles. that being said they maintain a barrier between the short and sweet and the deep and personal. they normally love things to be paced rather than all at once, so you’ll likely notice that they keep things very simple, especially in the beginning. they don’t do this to be sexy or seductive either, they just like to wear their mask as long as possible before the real them pops in. these men are hot, an aphrodisiac if you will. they can be very disarming with their innocent and genuine nature but they can also keep you on edge with how intense and sharp their real nature is. The women can be the lovely and sweet rose budding quietly alone away from all the flowers. these women don’t share the double nature of their male counterpart but can often give off a very virgin, innocent, pure energy whilst masking a deeper more earthy sensuality and sexuality underneath. they often are worker bees, both men and women of this placement. the women are often straight to the point and maintain a fair amount of distance. unlike their male counterpart being cordial or social for the sake of doing so isn’t their forte so in most cases you’ll notice these women isolating themselves or deeply focused in the newest mental gymnastic that’s caught their attention. cleanliness for both men and women here comes naturally and very rarely will you see them looking unkempt, that being said the boys and women here have a natural earthy look that can at times seem very old school or late 70′s. the girls often prefer longer hair styles and more relaxed on makeup. they tend to like masking or darker makeup as opposed to bright and sunny. the men tend to dress meticulously but also loathe sticking out to much. Both men and women here run the same on sex and tend to be the types who can go without it for years, but they do masturbate, and BOY do they love “self love” the girls and boys here tend to like sexual consistency and usually prefer it constantly when in a committed relationship. they both are very sexually open and can be quite kinky, but this is usually with people they’ve developed a routine with. in men or women that are homosexual this can show up as a strong turn on to anal play and even in straight women and men this can be a strong g-spot. the stomach and lower pelvis region can often be roughly defined or well muscular in it’s appearance. this house adds an earthy and rather mercurial nature to the mars sign. the native will be grounded and cerebral about how they go about reacting to things. the anger is often dealt with most at work or in work settings. office sexual encounters are common ground for those with Pluto, Uranus aspecting mars from this house. 

Mars In The Seventh House : El chico encantador

(Sir Sly - High)

They can be Shy, Dominate, and a walking bag of contradictions. Something so romantic and magnetically so as if it were prom night all over again. These men can be sooooo charming, the grin, the small glimmer in their eyes when you’re around, the lighthearted charisma and the soft toned tone of their voice as they work your blood pressure. They tend to be far more observant and patient then they’re given credit for. some speculate mars in the 7th to make a native actively more aggressive in personal dealings but I must disagree. these natives are forceful and can be quite the aggressor in some situations but in many ways they prefer to be more passive and polite if anything. their charm lays in the fact that they can cater to ones sexual and most primal self without little to no effort. they bring out such an open and vibrant energy in others. They can be very secretive though and many of these men carry themselves in two ways, one for the camera and another behind the curtain. they can be sweet and the boy next door, but they are also domineering and insatiable. see mars in the 7th is about mirrors so as you can imagine men with this are constantly reverbing their good and bad side. they love innocent lovers and many tend to marry the sweet boy or gal that seems so “pure” the irony of this placement is that boy here tend to bring out aggression in their environment because they refuse to acknowledge the intensity within their own personality. Men here and women have a STRONG sex drive and need a physical expression of desire and intimacy often otherwise they can get very irritable and dismissive. the women here are similar to their male counter part but can seem like more of a Lilith than an eve. these women don’ t play submissive roles well and tend to need to be the top or the one in control in both her life and in her environment. these women have a sharp tongue and have an easy time turning a situation in her favor. many fall victim to her incredible sexual charisma and most people are often overwhelmed by this women’s sexual prowess and even more so her level of self confidence and deep built understanding of human nature. many of these women make brilliant detectives and do well in forensic work. Many of these women are very physically active and blessed with wonderful figures. mars in this house gives both men and women very strong glutes and a tight pelvic region. The marriages or partnerships for both sexes tend to BE intense. they normally rush into relationships fast unless mars is afflicted by Pluto/Saturn or Uranus or the 7th house is occupied by other planets. the energy goes into pursuing love and because of this these natives can sometimes confuse being “lonely” with being in “love” or confusing “good sex” with meaning that a person is good for you. These natives are very passionate almost second to mars in the 1st house natives, but they are normally VERY shy when they truly have feelings for someone. they unconsciously know the difference between a relationship they are chasing solely because of sex and one that is touching them on a deeper level and in those cases they become indecisive, escape artist or downright pulling a ghosting act. mars here in the 7th house is given a more Venusian sensuality, a calmer more passive disposition but also a more dynamic attitude in regards to one on ones. these natives love to argue, and they can often flirt via aggression, clowning or just by downright acting like school children. their aggressive nature comes out when they want someone, the can be hard to stop and be remarkably driven. for them love is worth all the haste and more 

Mars In The Eighth House : El chico peligroso

(The Neighbourhood - Heaven) 

They can be dark, spiritual and full of vehemence. something like a horror movie, all the characters have met their maker and only one quiet beaker of hope remains, full of endless scars and turmoil yet thy prevail and survive the ruthlessness of life. These men are very sexy, let be honest they could make you sign away your soul without doing so much as a one motion stroke of their hips. they live intensely and carry a shoulder of burdens that most people would never be able to see unless they make it so. the energy is often so potent and powerful with this placement that these natives can seem unnerving or even a bit frightening to be around. the desire of sciences and even surgery is strong here for both sexes but since this is the house of death, run in’s with malefic spirits or sideways mediums can pose constant danger to these natives. sadly in some cases these natives might’ve experienced or might experience sexual violence of some kind or be the one inflicting it.( this is not the norm and this is only in very extreme cases) the soul is constantly dying of with this placement so often these natives can seem brand new every day. sex can often be a catharsis or a deeply soul shaking thing for these natives so most times they don’t have one night stands and usually have a average libido. they are very sexual and have a strong desire for it but they tend to burn out after one or two goes as sex is such a deep and soul transferring thing for them. the women are often sleek and hidden. they prefer to withhold themselves so they stand a better chance at escaping or distancing from a situation if need be. they’re often very guarded and carry themselves with a stark intensity and seriousness. both sexes crave a spiritual union more than a sexual one and normally remain celibate for years at a time until they meet a lover or person who truly can match their intensity. the genitallia can be veiny for men and either very tight for women or more natural looking(more hair and so on) both men and women here may have piercings around the area or just darker looking gentallia all together. the money matters can be hard fought and their may be some difficulty with shady money dealings with men in general. the death can be of Martian nature and could possibly be violent if other planets aren’t in the house offsetting this.(sign cusps matters as well) cars, electrical appliances and robbers/ fights should be looked out for as these all are the realm of mars. these natives are fighters and normally fight death to the very end, if they do pass it’s likely because they felt it was there time. mars here adds plutonian energies making the native intense, secretive and emotionally overwhelming. both sexes tend to be hard to read and usually don’t readily open up to people no matter the circumstance, you can be with them for 100 years and only know 20% of the entire story. These natives want you at your worst, your most vulnerable and your most bare. they can be scary and might even scare you off at first with their blatant Tartarus like energy but they are used to it, not everyone can handle their energy or it’s weight. these natives tend to have a high libido in their longer committed relationships and can crave sex everyday and every moment once you’ve passed all their testing. 

Mars In The ninth House : El chico sin límites

(Artic Monkeys - Knee Socks) 

They can be intellectual. Far out, and extremely grandeur. something like a waterfall that never stops pouring it’s blue gold. The men here can be VERY in love with anything unique, new or diverse. in many cases this can mean someone who’s physically different from them in any way, be it color, weight, lifestyles, age difference, and so on. These men are so sexy due to how expressive and authentic they are. in many ways they’ re more blunt and even more reckless than a mars in Sagittarius would normally be. they want it all and can sometimes express this in a selfish rather cool hearted way. they seem rude at first glance and might even give you the vibe that they’re snobbish or above you in some way. ironically this Is all an act as they deep down do value perspective and people who are “different” so because of that they normally try to remain as open and understanding to others as they can. They are super big on intelligence and can wow you with how deep their thought process is. men here are often conspiracy theorist with an ugly sexual appetite. Women here are opposite, sex for them is more for the experience and the feeling of triumph rather than the act itself. they love to see the world, from every view and every perspective so they naturally seek all sorts of emotional and physically stimulating interactions. they are like researchers always seeking to “understand” more than they did before. this placement in women can make them highly ambitious and bullheaded. for both sexes the thighs can either be large or muscular in size. often religion for better or worse is either loved with a passion or hated with a unnatural fury their isn’t an in-between. these natives can be flighty when in relationships where to much of their desire is reciprocated back, so often their most memorable love unions consist of the lovers who either didn’t love them back or who can live without them. not to say men and women of this position can’t “love” fully, merely that they are complicated souls who yearn for passion that’s grand but on terms that their love is almost hitting a wall. they want you to want them, but not so much all at once. they want the kind of love that grows and fluctuates up and down as it feels like they’ re truly growing that way. sexually these natives are gluttons, the women can drain their lovers dry depending on their moods and how “explorative” they’re feeling. men here can be a slave to their sex drive but for both  sexes the more they feel like you’re out of their reach or focused on other things the Crazier their desire for you gets. Mars in the 9th house is given a Jupiter like expansiveness, an open an ardent nature a carefree and rather flighty way of being. 

Mars In The tenth House : El chico serio

(Ex: re New York) 

They can be Intimidating, Serious and sensual. Something like the cold leaves glossing your skin on the cloudy autumn evening, it’s running late but you’re still laying on the moist soil watching the winds spiral and howl in lament. These men can be heavy, heavier than any rock or building. they feel so sad and so somber even if they wear the mightiest smile. they have a smug nature to them, as if they are beyond the moment of time and have already deemed it to be an insufficient use of their day. they are so moving, yet so deeply disengaged with everyone around them. they’re often so aggressive and active publicly that they may seem immature or more youthful then they actually are in person. they can be earnest and steady but withholding. these men have a tendency to obsess on a person, especially when they find that their is a chemistry. undenounced to most people these men are so emotional and so sexually driven behind the stoic and flat facial expression. they want you, they crave you but they wont ever show you until they are safe, hidden in the den of your sheets, the blanket of your open arms. Only then will you see their raw and earthy sexuality bloom like the deadliest rose bud. They have very strong desires to build and form their careers often putting love and physical activity in the back burner. the men here can gain weight as their extreme focus on their work can often cause them to neglect the physical body(mars). they aren’t self conscious per say but they are self aware of how their actions or someone else actions might mean. these boys will likely seem unmoved or unbothered by you in person, only stealing intense glances and stares at you here and there but trust me behind the quiet they are deeply and intensely craving you, desiring you. even more than mars in the 8th these men can be a very serious and intense man to get involved with, so if they set their sights on you, get ready for the deepest love you’ve ever experienced. women with this placement are often gentle and caring, usually taking on a very private and secluded internet persona. they can seem warm and easy to get to know but you’ll soon realize that they wont hesitate to place work, school and family above you. they are often very observant and watchful souls who notice everything often reacting in silence as not to draw any attention to themselves. these women can attract unstable men or men who are often lost in some way, relying on the women to create foundation for their broken selves. as they get older the men they attract are more self secure and more mature but for both men and women here I warn you not to marry before your Saturn return and I also encourage you to take time jumping into sexual involvements as Saturn will punish you greatly if you have sex just for the sake of sex. the bones can be rather shaped in an athletic way, or the bone structure itself can just be very nicely built and sexual in it’s creation. this house adds Capricorn and Saturn/hades like attributes to mars often making the mars more cautious, slow moving and serious. sexual nature is heard to read. 

Mars In The Eleventh house : El chico separado

(Aaliyah Feat. Drake Enough said)

They Can be separated, stoic, and profound. something cosmic but with a sadness inside their stars. these natives tend to be complicated to say the least. Mars here tends to make men seem like a closed folder, as much of what they do and how they do it seems almost as if it’s a robotic mannerism rather than an emotionally driven response. these men can be compassionate and deeply sincere but they often get uncomfortable by to much personal interaction. they prefer an ambiguous expression of sexuality and can often carry a very open, and ardent sexual nature. these men can seem flamboyant one moment and masculine the next, they’re in every sense of the word gender fluid and sexually fluid according to what and who catches their eye in the moment. these men tend to swim in a unique electric current and often move, and act in ways completely reverse or opposed to the natural flow of the world around them. Women with this placement tend to attract men or masculine women who are scientist types, or those whom have a more detached and rather impersonal physical and spiritual expression. women with this placement can be highly rational no matter how watery their natal mars and tend to prefer to keep and maintain a certain level of space and objectiveness in their dealing with the world around them. many women with this placement are strong activist and have passionate views about society as a whole. these women are enchanting due to their minds and their creative nature. Mars in this house adds a plethora of musical talent for women here in my personal experience, but for both men and women here friends with benefits situations tend to be more preferred as immediately jumping into romance tends to make them feel uneasy. the love nature is VERY deep. and these people tend to become very private and reclusive when in love, preferring to keep their romance to themselves. both men and women with this placement hate crowds and tend to be extremely to themselves. mars in this house can give strong calf muscles as well as strong ankles. there might also be scars on these areas as well. Mars here is given Aquarian/ uranian energy so often the natives are given more cerebral, detached and high to low physical energy. the friends are often masculine or more aggressor types. friendships are often passionate and can start and end very quickly. 

Mars In The Twelfth House : el niño ilegible 

(Lana Del Rey - Freak) 

They can be innocent, blurry and intangible. Something like a cloudy sky, grand and encompassing, raindrops and cold winter air flowing across the brittle frozen grass as it makes a ominous wail. These men can be so intoxicating, their gentle and rather subdued nature, the hidden and rather quiet nature of their actions and expressions. they often are evasive, yet present. missing in action yet heavily felt. these men tend to be on the softer side of things no matter how masculine they are. that being said their aggression and anger is just around the corner and when it comes out these men can be VERY dangerous. the darkness in them is hidden amongst the clouds, and years upon years of repent trauma can come bursting from the scenes like a pool of molten lava. these men are very honest but are sexually ambiguous. they detach themselves constantly during sexual intercourse and can be very guarded sexually unless their is a deep spiritual and emotional connection reached. they don’t have the heart to tell you they aren’t in love any more so they’ll likely keep playing the role you need them to if it makes you feel safe and happy. these men sacrifice quite a bit and struggle with putting their foot down when there kindness is being taken for granted. they have a strong passion and universal love for everyone deep down and are very spiritually motivated by everything they do. women with this placement don’t share as dark of a temper but can find themselves playing a more passive or subdued role around men as they can feel uncomfortable claiming their more masculine side. so for women this causes their masculine shadow to be present in their actions making them seem more aggressive or more dynamic then they intend to at random moments. the women with this placement are very giving and loving, normally drawn deeply to children and the wildlife. men and women with this placement get burned out by interacting with people over long periods of time and tend to go into hibernation or disappear to regain their energy. when younger these natives can be blamed for a lot for things they don’t do but this is mostly due to them not mastering their more masculine side expressing itself unconsciously. the sexuality is deeply sensitive and lots of times a divine force keeps these natives sexually celibate for a very long time until they meet a lover who is more safe and kind to them and their soul. their earlier sexual encounters may be uncomfortable or sort of late blooming as mars is in the 12th house meaning it didn’t get to grow the same way the other kids(planets) did. the dreams can often be very vivid and physically involved. this can mean wet dreams that persist into adulthood, fighting and or war dreams, rape dreams, domination dreams or even just dreams involving death. mars in the 12th is indicative of past life trauma so often the dreams are fragmented happenings of previous lives which is why there is such a vivid representation. the feet can be veiny and or strong, activities like dancing and or martial arts can be a great outlet. these natives don’ t lack energy rather they just lack an outlet for their intensity and as a result they rely on being lethargic as opposed to actively burning their intense energy reserves. The bodies are often naturally muscular and well built without much effort as the natives carry their past life’s physical prowess. a strong attraction to work in hospitals or jails is common and in many cases deep physical bonds with inmates or patients is common. mars in this house is given watery and very diluted qualities, the traits of the natal mars are amplified if a water mars and the traits of fire, air and earth mars are softened and made more hard to see or not readily available to the person. 

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Moon in the composite chart

🤎Moon in Aries🤎

They express their emotions in a spontaneous, fun and very intense way. For you it is very important that your relationship is more personal, you do not let anyone get into it. They can have a lot of inside jokes and can be much more expressive and authentic with their displays of affection. Even if one or both of you are very reserved or "cold", in this relationship it will not be like that to be very warm with the other. They will let the other have their space, they will love that the other is who they really are and they will love each other intensely precisely for that. They feel the need to be more passionate with the other, the need to make the other happy and to motivate him to do what his heart excites. There is a lot of flirting and teasing between you, the atmosphere between you is very dynamic, entertaining and the tension is felt from miles away. They may have a tendency to debate playfully, and they should try to remain calm, as they both have a hot temper and it can lead them to have arguments.

🤎Moon in Taurus🤎

Here we find a reliable couple, who know a lot about each other and give their hearts to each other. The relationship progresses little by little and both are amazed at the beauty of the other, they know perfectly how to make the other feel comfortable. Both are more sensual with the other and dedicated to the relationship, they will always seek that both give the same in a fair way. This couple sees the long term with each other, they make a lot of plans together and work hard to make their ideas a reality. They fully trust each other and know that their partner feels that same trust with them. They love spending time together doing quiet activities like watching movies, eating together, sleeping together or cuddling on any given afternoon. They are very constant with their expressions of affection and are very romantic, they have many significant details with each other. One of the possible problems that they may have could be due to jealousy or a lot of protection from one or both parties.

🤎Moon in Gemini🤎

This couple is characterized by being very funny, and both can be very smart people, which makes them connect intellectually like no other person. These two can spend hours and hours talking without getting tired, about any topic that comes to mind. It is very likely that this couple knows what the other is thinking, and completes their words as they speak. Both feel the need to share everything with their partner, from experiences to free time, people may not see them spend as much time alone as they used to. Both feel very comfortable with each other's presence and can become inseparable. They feel the need to express what their emotional needs are so that the other knows them, in the same way they take the time to know the other's to do everything possible to fulfill them. Here there is not one cold and one warm, both are capable of being equally warm and demonstrative in the same way. They may look a lot alike and have too many interests/hobbies in common.

🤎Moon in Cancer🤎

Sweetness and care will abound in this relationship, they will be very receptive and understanding of each other's needs and it is likely that without much effort they will be what the other feels they need or want from a partner. Both the other and the relationship will be protected a lot. They will see in the other someone very caring and attentive and they will not be willing to put up with others speaking ill of them or of the relationship. Both may be more emotional, affectionate or open after meeting the other. They will be very empathic with each other and may no longer be as individualistic as before, since the emotions or mood of the other will greatly affect their own emotional world. Both will be eager and willing to care and be warm with the other, but deep down they will be even more so knowing that the other also has that desire. They may become more of a homebody once they are in this relationship, they will value your privacy as a couple and may prefer to make plans or dates indoors.

🤎Moon in Leo🤎

At the beginning of the relationship they may feel that the other is hard to get, they may feel a deep admiration but feel they are out of their league or that they are difficult people to conquer, but as they get to know each other more and more, both will be delighted with the other and their relationship. personality. They may see on the other side of themselves that they are not as open with others. Both of you will be more confident, fun, social or creative after being with the other person. They will feel excited just knowing that they will see each other soon, they will be playful, a bit teasing with each other but above all very generous and warm. Behind that joking environment, there will be two people very attracted to each other. Both of you will be very creative when it comes to getting each other's attention, and it won't be surprising to find the other looking at you with a smile on their face. They will feel that their life takes color when being with the other and they will feel happier in their company.

🤎Moon in Virgo🤎

They may be somewhat shy at first with their displays of affection or take a lot of time before opening up, but after that time the union will be a fact. Both want and need to understand in detail the emotional needs of their partner, to know how to love them in their own way, they are not afraid to adapt to the other, and they are willing to do a lot for the other person, the best thing about this is that the other party is the same of willing. This couple is sweet and attentive, a couple that is full of support and love, that understands each other deeply and listens to each other. There is a high probability that the relationship will be long-lasting and stable. They have a relaxing and healing quality in the other. They do not want the other to worry or carry their sorrows alone, they will seek to serve and support their partner in an honest and devoted way. Both will take great care of their words so as not to hurt the other. Both can be seen more focused or grounded after meeting the other. 

🤎Moon in Libra🤎

They will be mesmerized by the presence of the other person, the desire to have a romantic relationship with the other may quickly develop, they may feel that the other person is the ideal person, which they have always been looking for. Amos can be seen as more graceful, kind or sociable after they meet, since both will make each other want to be the most lovable and charming version of themselves. Speaking of charm, they will be very romantic and pampering with each other, they will often talk about their emotions and they will love to share everything with each other. They may like to wear accessories or couple clothes, they would like to do many activities together and they can have enough details with each other. There will be a lot of tenderness between the two, they will give you a lot of security and they will satisfy both their mental and emotional needs. You will feel that you two connect very well with the other on many levels and that you have the same tastes in terms of style.

🤎Moon in Scorpio🤎

Everything else will seem to be very superficial once they meet the other, both will bring out the most intense and deep emotions of the other, they feel that they can finally have a connection of the type ride or die. For both it will be everything or nothing in this relationship, trust will be the main and key point in this relationship. Both will feel very drawn to the other and see in the other differences that they find very attractive, there would be nothing they would not do for the other. They will express honestly, directly and passionately what they feel for each other. Both will protect each other to the death and will not let anyone intervene in the dynamics of their relationship or offend the other, no matter who opposes, both will be very sure that what they want is to be with the other. It is likely that at first they feel a bit intimidated by the other at first or that they see each other as very reserved people, but that mystery will be precisely what attracts their attention. They will feel a need to be one, to connect in a meaningful way with the other.

🤎Moon in Sagittarius🤎

This relationship makes them deeply happy, it is a kind of joy that they had not felt before, because being with the other is fun and very gratifying since they allow themselves to connect deeply, to know the private side of the other, they get to share their dreams, goals and desires. Both become more enthusiastic, optimistic, cheerful and spontaneous when being with the other. You may be very different, have had a different education or culture, but that will not prevent you from connecting, since you will see in the other an open-minded person with whom you can be yourself. It can feel like a dream or it can be a relationship that you never thought to live in. It will fill you with learning and invade your heart with the joy of living and being with the other. Spending time with each other will be an adventure on its own, spending time with each other will be very important and communication can happen easily, even in the first stages of the relationship.

🤎Moon in Capricorn🤎

Both can be somewhat reserved with their emotions at first, but they will quickly see how valuable they are and will know how to identify the deep admiration they feel for the other. Both will want to be enough for the other without realizing that just as they are they already enchanted the other, they will feel a deep loyalty to the other and will never see the need to hide things, thus being very honest and upright with the other. You will give each other the necessary confidence to begin to open up little by little, and you will be very direct with what you want in a relationship from the beginning, because you don't want to waste time. You’ll invest a lot of their time in the relationship and they will see it as one of the most important investments of their life, the relationship will be something they will fight hard for and something they will want to achieve. Once you are a couple, you won’t stop impressing the other person, on the contrary, you will be more frequent with your demonstrations of affection.

🤎Moon in Aquarius🤎

They will feel very intrigued by the other and wanting to know each other more deeply because they will make a unique first impression on the other, they may want to connect in a more personal way with the other from the first time they look into each other's eyes. Your affinity will be something undeniable but something surprising because there will be many differences between you. You may feel like you've never met such a person before, and you'll love the idea of ​​sharing your thoughts on everything, especially relationships. Both can become more independent, authentic, charismatic and original after meeting the other. You will love each other's quirks and see each other as the most interesting people the other has ever met in their lives. They can change their way of perceiving the world a lot when they meet. Emotional expressions will not be intense and overwhelming, rather they will love to share how they feel.

🤎Moon in Pisces🤎

You both feel the need to show support for your partner, to make them feel like they can really count on you, and to create an environment where you both feel safe with each other. Very sentimental and may notice that they express their emotions more frequently with the other, even if it is through subtle actions. They feel what their partner feels, there is a high level of understanding between them. Both heal each other's emotional wounds, both are the other person's sanctuary and comfy place, they endow each other with a lot of love and tranquility, they can feel that this relationship was taken from a fairy-tale. They bring out the most attentive, sweet and dreamy side of the other, in fact they could often dream of the other, it seems that they communicate telepathically. They make the other feel that it is safe to be them, that they are safe and that they finally found that sense of home that they had lost. They believe that everything is possible next to this person. A need to be close to the other. 

Moon in the houses

🖤Moon in the 1st house🖤

Both of you may feel that you are quite similar, that you have similar hobbies and a similar lifestyle which can make you think that this person is the ideal one for a long-term relationship. The basis of this relationship is emotions and can be very emotional from the beginning, even in the first interactions. You can both be what the other feels you need, there is a very high level of comfort between you and you feel good about being yourself with each other. They both care deeply about each other and put a lot of energy and attention into the relationship. They may find it difficult to be without each other for a long time. It is very likely that after meeting each other there may be a subconscious need to be the best version of themselves, both can become more authentic, emotional and confident after being in a relationship with each other. The relationship will be the highest priority for both of them and they will fight hard to nurture it and make it a safe space for both of them.

🖤Moon in the 2nd house🖤

A desire to be able to provide the other with everything they need, both emotionally and economically, being with this person will give you a lot of security, your feelings for the other can be very lasting no matter what happens. Both feel that they want to be very loyal to the other and be there whether they are needed or not, with this person you will feel the true support, through significant promises and that they will fight to fulfill. They can be somewhat reserved with their affective displays in public, but in private they have no doubt about the other person's feelings, since it will be crucial for both of them to always be constant. Physical affection is something very important for this couple, as well as aftercare or simply feeling close to the other person. They will be experts at showing each other passion and affection through touch. They will feel that the other person knows exactly what to get them and that they take the time to make meaningful gifts.

🖤Moon in the 3rd house🖤

The fluidity of communication between you will not seem very normal to you, you will feel that you connected quickly, that you finally found someone who understands you in such a beautiful way that no other person has done. They feel that they can finally open their hearts, unite them and have a soul-to-soul conversation, something deep and truly meaningful. They will feel the need to talk to each other constantly, to talk and know about each other, even if they only do the most trivial things. They will keep each other in mind and will not avoid feeling a warmth that surrounds their being when thinking of the other, a smile will be drawn on their faces just by talking about the other. Spending time with each other can help them learn many things that they did not know, they will feel a lot of love, sweetness as well as admiration and fun thinking about the other. They will both daydream about what it will be like the next time they see each other, go out or hug.

🖤Moon in the 4th house🖤

A feeling of familiarity will invade both of you, you can feel very comfortable with this person and you might even think that you have known them for a long time. They will give each other that feeling of security and warmth, that tenderness and support that will make their inner children jump. They will see in this person someone with whom they want to commit, someone with whom they assure a stable future or have a family with. Both will be very demonstrative with the other, most likely more demonstrative than they have been with others in their lives, the other will be their soft spot. They will feel the confidence of sharing childhood memories, and not only the happy ones, they will find a lot of care in the other person and the relationship will be something difficult for both of them to forget, since they will hardly feel such a genuine and lovely connection with others. They will be very similar both emotionally and intellectually. You feel the need to be close to the other. 

🖤Moon in the 5th house🖤

A rush will cross your veins when you see this person, an emotion and joy that you will not be able to hide from anyone, they will become more cheerful and expressive once you meet this person. They can be inspired and more creative by seeing this person and can help themselves to bring out their romantic, playful and lighthearted side. Both will feel very good with each other, they will feel that they can be more genuine and that they can feel proud of who they are when they are with this person, they feel the need to adore and make the other feel better about themselves. They both think that life with the other is something happy and full of fun, they may even see the other person as someone to have children with. Happy memories will abound in this relationship, both can be very witty and creative in letting each other know how much matters to them in their lives. They will never try to hide what they feel from the other, they will always be constant and warm with the other, but always maintaining the fun touch.

🖤Moon in the 6th house🖤

A desire to be there for each other, through thick and thin, will grow considerably as time goes by, they will see in each other an ideal partner, someone to support who will return the same support. This couple will see a lot for the health and well-being of the other, not only physically, but also emotionally and mentally, they will love helping each other and will have the need to help each other improve, improve as people and constantly improve the relationship. Shows of affection will be something usual, through actions more than words, a silent hug on those gray days, cooking your favorite dish to celebrate some achievement. You can do activities together like cooking, taking care of animals or doing a hobby that you used to do alone before. Both can quickly open up to each other. They will see in their partner a counselor and someone who understands their emotions like no one else. Long and emotional conversations will become usual.

🖤Moon in the 7th house🖤

The company of the other is what they need to feel much better, the other seems to be that perfect partner for a long-term relationship, for something stable, it gives them a lot of peace, it gives them balance and understanding. They know perfectly well that they will receive what they give in return, and they will know without a doubt that the other is delighted and moved by the other. They will feel the need to spend a lot of time together, to do many things together, they will find their home next to each other, they will love each other too much even in difficult moments. Intimacy is something very important in their relationship, however, they only need a caress, a conversation or things that others consider simple to be happy. They instinctively know what makes the other happy. Regardless of how tough they are on the outside, with each other they will be very vulnerable and open, as expressive as they always wanted to be. Both can be more balanced and romantic after meeting the other.

🖤Moon in the 8th house🖤

They will feel the need to know every detail of the other person, both good and bad, and the more they know the depths of the other, the more fascinated they will be by the other person. They will feel an enormous attraction towards each other and an immense desire to protect them from anything. You may find yourself feeling the most intense emotions for each other from the earliest stages of the relationship. Both of you may want to get intimate much more quickly, you may find yourself strangely attracted to the other and you may not like that too much at first, but as the relationship progresses you will see each other as an extremely trustworthy person that you can totally rely on. Both can be very changed after the other enters their lives. This position of the Moon favors feelings that last a long time and that, as it passes, are more intensified. They can feel that they are very appreciated by the other and that someone finally loves them with all their being.

🖤Moon in the 9th house🖤

This relationship has very lighthearted tones, both will share their emotions in an honest and meaningful way, they will always have a touch of friendship and fun. They will give each other the space they need and seek to establish and respect each other's emotional boundaries. They will love to know how the other thinks and they can find many similarities in their philosophy of life, in their beliefs or even in their interests.  Both will expand their lives and that will help them to make their connection closer, they will make the other feel so many positive emotions in such a short time. They may seek to travel or discover new places together, it is very likely that they will decide to live far from their hometown. Likewise, traveling and seeking to experience new things together can give you a great sense of emotional security. Both of them can feel that life is better for them after meeting each other, and they can easily cheer each other up.

🖤Moon in the 10th house🖤

You will be very emotional and open people in the relationship, you two will not be bothered by public displays of affection and they will never hide their feelings for each other, it is even more likely that it will be something more visible to others than to yourselves at the beginning of the relationship. Both of you will want a future with each other and can quickly seek to include them in your life and in your lifestyle, both of you will set goals together and you will be a couple that will love the idea of ​​having a life together, just for the two of you. They will dislike the idea of ​​having fights that do not make any sense, they will both be very balanced and emotionally mature when it comes to having differences. They know how to listen before they speak. This overlay is favorable if you want to have a business together or start something together, since it gives a lot of commitment and seriousness to the relationship. You’ll support each other a lot at the work level and the achievements of one will be of both.

🖤Moon in the 11th house🖤

Acceptance is what will make the union stronger and longer lasting, they will feel that they can finally express their emotions without being judged or frowned upon, in fact they will love the unique way in which they will express what they feel to the other, they will be inspired deeply and they will see themselves in a long-term relationship with this person, they see a future with the other person because of how good they will feel in the relationship. The relationship may begin with a friendship. However it begins, they will see in each other the best friend, someone with whom they can talk about anything. They are very compassionate with each other and love to be there to help each other, they will be the most united and known duo. They feel that the other person completely changed their life and their emotional world, they could feel that they have a deeper meaning of life after meaning the other. It’s very likely that they have mutual friends or get along very well with each other's friends.

🖤Moon in the 12th house🖤

At the beginning of the relationship or when you are getting to know each other, it will not be very evident to you that the other has feelings for you. They will be very private with their feelings but that will not detract from the intensity, they will find themselves constantly thinking about the other, and it is likely that without even meeting them, they will find them everywhere they go. Both of you will feel very drawn to the other and this relationship will lead you to know sides of your personality that you had forgotten or repressed, this relationship will make you reconcile with yourselves, since both of you will show a lot of approval and love for each side of you, even if those sides you are embarrassed or don't like at all. This relationship is karmic, which is not all bad, but it will teach you a very special lesson. They will feel that the other understands them immediately, that the other loves them unconditionally and that being with the other is all they need after a difficult day.

-Small message: What is the 8th house and 12th house synastry/composite is usually very judged, in particular with the luminaries [Sun and Moon], however let’s take into consideration that the sign it is in, the aspects it makes with other planets and how well the ruler of the respective houses is positioned and aspected have to do with it too. Just as relationships can have positive things [influenced by positive aspects with the rest of the factors of the composite chart] they can also be somewhat tense [also because of the rest of factors in the chart. Remember that there is nothing that good communication and an open and healthy mindset can achieve.-

[theladyalchemist]

Moon nakshatras are alluring and seductive; like they invite you to come enjoy life and play with them. “Let’s create our own inner world and get lost in it extensively.” They bond through things like that, and they’re very comfortable about the organic things in life, even the bad things. Like if you made a mistake or did something embarrassing, they might laugh at you but then they encourage you to brush it off & might even nourish you into feeling better in that moment. That’s what makes them so charming; they’re very down to Earth and understanding.

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Diana Ross (Vishakha Asc) Kali Uchis (Vishakha Moon, Rahu)

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😭 Mula asc conjunct Venus, very accurate

Mula core 🦇

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i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

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Seduce yourself first. Fall for your own fire. Turn your gaze inward until your soul blushes, witnessing how divinely you adore her.

Venus, mirror me.

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Very true

i feel like every person with pisces in their big 6 has a stuffed animal, toy, or blanket that they keep for comfort

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hello! Would please explain what a Mars in the 6th house would indicate? Thank-youuu

Hello love. Yes I can!

Mars in the 6th house

We find natives with a nervous and somewhat anxious temperament, they are people who like to stay active either physically or mentally. They will seek to feel active and productive and will hate the idea of ​​not taking advantage of their time doing things of value, they can feel bad when they rest too much and they can sabotage their own free time. They are people who can carry out several projects simultaneously, but can hardly finish them all as quickly as they would like. They control their anger very well but once they reach their breaking point they can be somewhat cold and direct. These natives are annoyed by the lack of commitment of other people, they are annoyed that others are irresponsible and are left with the burden of the whole project to them. It is precisely because of this that teamwork can be somewhat complicated for them. Despite this, they will always lend their support to help others improve, and not only that, but they will also be willing to defend anyone who is treated unfairly. They usually help a lot other people,

Their work environment can be noisy and competitive, they may attract many competitive colleagues with them. This is a common placement for people who travel for work or require constant movement. This position gives as a job possibility one that involves working under pressure [i.e, surgeons], leadership roles, working with machinery, it also indicates working in some highly demanded area. This is a common position in workaholic people, we have people who work hard to achieve what they want, they don't believe much in miracles, they believe more in hard work. "I don't believe in miracles, I make them happen." They have a very strong will and desire to do something useful for themselves and others. It will not be surprising to see them actively helping others, but not wanting to ask for help when they need it. They are cautious and very patient people when they want to carry out a plan.

They are very concerned about their own well-being, so they try to do the necessary physical exercise, stay in shape and have a good diet. They tend to have very strong health but this tends to be prone to depletion due to how much the natives push themselves. With this Mars placement, headaches, muscle aches, fever, fatigue, burns, bruises are common. They are very passionate people, on the outside they seem to be very contained and reserved with their sexual energy, but it is quite the opposite. Since they have a great stamina, they have a great sexual performance. They like the idea of ​​driving their partner crazy and can focus a lot on the other person's pleasure, as this will bring them a lot of pleasure. By having a sexual partner, they may be people who want to have sex more constantly than others. They can be sexually attracted to serious, hard-working and mysterious partners on the outside, but passionate and go-getter on the inside, ambition and desire to excel are great turn on for these natives.

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🔥Synastry Aspects That Spark Intense Sexual Attraction 💫💋

Note: These are all my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. Take what resonates with you more and leave the rest. Lemme know in the comments if it hits home! Synastry works only if you both know each other. Every synastry placement/aspect has both the good and the shadow side.

Sun trine Moon - Jake & Neytiri (Avatar)

This kind of connection feels like slipping into warm water, quiet at first, then all-consuming. The Sun person brings presence and glow, not loud but undeniable, and the Moon person opens like a tide drawn in by gravity. There’s no need to force anything, it just happens. They fall into each other with the ease of something meant to be. The Moon person feels safe enough to be bare, to cry if needed, to moan without holding back. The Sun person leads with a steady hand, a knowing touch, bringing light to places that have only known shadows. Sex between them isn’t wild or messy, it’s deep. It’s sighs instead of screams. Its foreheads pressed together, hands locked, breathing shared. It’s gentle but never boring. They move like they already know each other, like they’ve done this a thousand times before in another life. The Moon person wants to be cherished in their chaos, to feel like nothing they say, or feel is too much. The Sun person wants to be that anchor, that clarity, to hold the Moon through every shift and swell. They crave closeness that’s rooted in trust, pleasure that feels like being known. But even here, in all this beauty, there’s fragility. The Moon person fears that their tenderness will become a burden. They fear being left when they’ve finally let someone all the way in. The Sun person fears being dimmed, losing their autonomy in a love that wraps too tightly. They both carry silent fears in the spaces they share most intimately. Still, the sweetness wins more often than not. The Moon person finds peace in the Sun person’s arms. The Sun person feels adored, even worshipped, in the Moon person’s gaze. They linger after sex, bodies tangled, silence saying everything. It’s not always perfect, though. If the balance tips, it stings. The Sun person might start to feel emotionally pulled, expected to always shine. The Moon person might shut down, feeling unseen or too exposed. Sex can start to feel heavy, like it’s holding more than just desire. But even then, they still want each other. They just might not know how to reach across the space. And over time, the craving softens but never fades. The Moon person still melts when touched in just the right way. The Sun person still watches them sleep and feels something quiet and full. They don’t burn out. They grow roots. If they broke up, it would be the kind of ending that lingers forever. The Moon person would feel it in waves, in the chest, in the gut. The Sun person would feel something dim and unreachable inside. No one else would feel quite the same. The memory would return in dreams, in moments of stillness, in the hush right before sleep. And deep down, they’d both know that they found something rare. Something not everyone gets to feel. Something that maybe never really ends.

Venus trine Mars - Jack & Rose (Titanic)

This is pure, magnetic heat wrapped in velvet. The Venus person doesn’t have to try. They walk into the room and the Mars person is already undone, lol. It’s chemistry that doesn’t ask permission. It just happens. The Venus person is sensual without effort, seductive in the way they move, smile, and breathe. The Mars person meets that with hunger, confident touch, a gaze that pins and undresses. Together, they move like poetry written in moans and skin. Sex is a perfect push-pull of want and worship. It’s rough when it needs to be, but never careless. It’s soft when it matters most, but never boring. The Venus person feels adored, touched like something precious and rare. The Mars person feels powerful, needed, and invited in with complete trust. They meet in this unspoken rhythm where every kiss lands exactly right, every grip, every sigh, every roll of hips feels mutual and intuitive. Venus wants to be devoured slowly, like a dessert savored. Mars wants to take, lead, mark, but only with love. Both want to be chosen, wanted, deeply desired, not just for a night, but again and again. Underneath the pleasure, though, there are hidden edges. Venus fears fading into the background, becoming a beautiful afterthought. Mars fears being shut out, rejected just when they’re ready to give everything. And that fear hums quietly beneath the passion. But when it’s good, it’s breathtaking. The Venus person glows under attention. The Mars person thrives with that softness to chase. It’s sexy and safe, passionate and playful, deep and thrilling all at once. They feel more alive together, more confident in their own skin. It’s not just physical, it’s empowering. When things slip, it’s because the dance gets off rhythm. Mars might push too hard, assume too much. Venus might give too much, hoping to keep the peace. Ego can sneak in. Passion gets sharp. But even then, the desire doesn’t die. Time doesn’t dull it. If anything, it grows. They still tease. They still fantasize. The connection matures, but it stays wild. Sex deepens with trust. Touch gets more knowing. They learn each other’s bodies like a second language. And if they ever part, that ache never quite leaves. The Venus person would remember the way they were kissed like they were the only thing that mattered. The Mars person would miss the way they were looked at like a hero/heroine. Nothing else quite compares. It’s the kind of chemistry people chase for a lifetime.

Moon trine Mars - Bella & Edward (Twilight)

This one’s the kind of connection that simmers with emotional heat and sexual gravity, the kind where you feel everything before it even happens. The Moon person draws the Mars person in without effort, soft and sensual in a way that makes Mars want to stay and explore every layer. The Mars person doesn’t just want to touch the Moon person’s body, they want to claim their emotions, tame their waves, and kiss their tears. The Moon person opens wide, emotionally and physically, letting the Mars person in with a kind of raw, trembling trust. Sex here is intense, slow, but soaked in need, full of whispered words and soft cries, eyes locking like they’re saying everything out loud without speaking. The Mars person wants to take, guide, and dominate, but not in a harsh way, in a way that feels like protection. The Moon person wants to give, to be undone and held through it. They want to be known in the dark, skin to soul. But it’s not all wet kisses and sweet surrender. The Moon person quietly fears being too much, too sensitive, too needy. They want to be loved in the chaos of emotion, not left for being messy. The Mars person secretly fears failing, not being strong enough to hold that depth or, worse, hurting the Moon person by trying too hard to control it. This mix of craving and fear makes their intimacy both electrifying and delicate. When it’s good, it’s holy. The Moon person feels safe to fall apart. The Mars person feels trusted in ways that make them rise. It’s sex that heals, sex that remembers, sex that softens both of them. But when the shadow hits, it hits like a wave. The Moon person might pull away with emotional storms or cling a little too tightly. The Mars person might lose patience or try to fix feelings with force. That’s when sex can become a way to hide instead of connecting. But even then, the pull stays. They still want each other mid-argument. Still crave each other even when mad. And over time, the love only deepens. The Moon person grows into bold sensuality. The Mars person learns to meet emotion with presence, not pressure. The sex matures but never dulls. If they part, it won’t be clean. It’ll be flashes of the sound of a laugh, the way a back arched, the look before a kiss. The Moon person would miss being seen in their softness. The Mars person would miss being needed with that kind of heat. And even if they try to forget, their bodies won’t. This is the kind of connection that stays under the skin.

Moon conjunct Mars - Tarzan & Jane (Tarzan)

This one’s a firestorm wrapped in silk sheets. The Moon person and Mars person don’t just fall into each other, they crash like waves against heat, no hesitation, no restraint. It’s instinct. It’s raw chemistry that hits like a need, not a want. The Moon person feels seen without words, touched like their emotions are being read through skin. The Mars person is ignited by that kind of softness, turned on by the vulnerability, the ache in the eyes, the way the Moon opens like a tide pulled by their gravity. Sex comes fast, wild, and full of meaning they didn’t plan to unpack. It’s the kind of energy that slips under the skin and makes both wonder what it would feel like to build a life, not just a night. The Mars person wants to lead, take, and claim in a way that says "mine" in and out of bed. The Moon person wants to be melted, emotionally cracked open by someone who doesn't just touch them but holds all of them. This is the kind of sex that makes you think about babies, future homes, shared pillows. It’s not just passion, it’s a primal soul pull. But the feelings cut deep. The Moon person fears being left wide open and abandoned. The Mars person fears losing control of their own intensity. There’s fear in the depths. But the highs are worth it. The best part is the way they make each other feel alive, needed, chosen, desired in a way that never feels performative. The Moon person glows under the Mars person’s gaze. The Mars person feels stronger, sharper, when the Moon person trusts them enough to let go. Their sex is sacred chaos, full of moans and meaning, a need to be remembered. But when it turns, it turns hot. The Moon gets clingy, the Mars gets cold. Passion becomes a power play. Love becomes tension. They fight with their bodies, try to solve feelings with sex, and try to hold each other with pressure instead of presence. And yet, even years later, they still think about each other. The Mars person remembers the exact sound of the Moon’s voice at the peak of pleasure. The Moon person still dreams of being held like that again, like it meant something cosmic. If they end it, it leaves a scar that aches in silence. The Moon person aches for emotional depth. The Mars person misses the way they were needed. No one touches them like that again. It was a collision. And neither of them ever forgets.

Sun conjunct Moon - Ariel & Eric (The Little Mermaid)

This one hits like sunlight pouring through a window you didn’t know you needed. When the Sun person finds the Moon person, something shifts in both of them. It’s not dramatic, it’s soft and earthquake-y at the same time. The Sun person feels awakened, like they finally found someone they want to show up for without holding back. The Moon person feels emotionally seen in a way that makes their whole body exhale. Together, they create this gorgeous tension between bold warmth and gentle depth. It’s fire meeting the tide, heat meeting the heart. Sex isn’t just sex, it’s a whole-body yes. It’s holding each other with laughter still on their lips, kissing like they’re saying thank you, touching like their souls are whispering secrets through skin. The Sun person wants to feel admired and trusted, they want to lead but also be a safe place. They shine harder when they know their light is softening someone else. The Moon person wants to feel emotionally safe while they fall apart in someone’s arms, and the Sun person makes them want to fall, slowly, fully, naked in every way. Their desires match perfectly - warmth, trust, connection, that deep skin-to-soul craving. But the fears creep in like fog. The Moon person starts to worry they’ll lose themselves in the Sun’s orbit. The Sun person quietly panics that the Moon’s emotional tides might drown their fire. The Moon wants reassurance. The Sun wants space to keep glowing. If they’re not careful, the emotional weight can turn sexy intimacy into quiet overwhelm. But when they get it right, it’s magic. The Moon person softens the Sun in all the right ways. The Sun person anchors the Moon without dimming them. They learn each other’s love languages in silence. Sex becomes a ritual, full of warmth, full of need, full of emotional gravity that makes everything feel more alive. If they lose the thread, the Moon retreats into silence and sadness, while the Sun quietly burns out, trying to feel appreciated again. Even if they go their separate ways, they don’t forget each other. They still feel the press of each other’s hands in the quiet. They still remember the weight of love that felt like it mattered. The Moon person will cry in secret. The Sun person will try to move on, but something will always feel just a little dimmer. No one else will fit quite like this. It’s the kind of love that’s hard to explain but impossible to forget.

Venus conjunct Moon - Aladdin & Jasmine (Aladdin)

This is the kind of connection that slips under your skin and stays there. The Venus person is drawn in by the Moon person’s vulnerability, the way their emotions feel raw and honest, like an open palm waiting to be held. The Moon person leans into the Venus person’s softness, melts into every kiss, every slow graze of fingers that feel like poetry. There’s sweetness in how they move, but the desire underneath is rich and heavy. Sex isn’t just pleasure, it’s presence. They touch like they’re trying to memorize each other. Every moan feels like a secret, every breath a promise. The Venus person wants to be needed, wanted, cherished with affection that lingers long after the bedroom. The Moon person wants to be emotionally undressed, to be loved right down to the tender, aching parts of themselves. When it’s good, it’s like planting roses with every kiss. It’s a slow build that makes their bodies feel like home. But the deeper it gets, the more delicate it becomes. The Venus person fears giving their all and getting silence in return. They need to feel adored, not just accepted. The Moon person fears not being heard, their emotions falling into softness that only looks like love. Their sex can turn into a language of reassurance, every touch a way to say I still feel you. They crave closeness, they crave comfort, they crave the emotional echo after the climax. But when needs go unspoken, everything grows quiet. If the Moon person shuts down, the Venus person aches in silence. If Venus glosses over conflict, the Moon person begins to feel invisible. Sex turns hollow. Touches lose their meaning. It doesn’t explode, it fades. Still, the connection holds its shape. The attraction lingers in the air long after they’ve left the room. They remember the smell of each other’s skin. They remember how it felt to be seen without speaking. Years later, they’ll still think about how natural it was. If they break up, it wouldn’t be loud. It would be slow heartbreak, the kind that creeps into dreams and quiet mornings. They’d feel the absence like a missing limb. And when they touch someone new, there’d always be that question buried under the surface. Why doesn’t this feel like you?

Sun conjunct Venus - Cinderella & Prince Charming (Cinderella)

This is pure chemistry wrapped in charm. The Sun person walks in, and the Venus person already feels seen, admired, wanted in that lingering-eyes, slow-smile kind of way. It’s sexy without even trying. The air between them buzzes with flirtation, skin always a little too aware, glances a little too loaded. The Sun person brings heat, bold attention, the kind that says I want you and I’m not afraid to show it. The Venus person moves like temptation, giving softness, beauty, and just enough sweetness to make someone obsess. Sex unfolds like a slow reveal, teasing at first, lips brushing without touching, tension so thick you could wrap yourself in it. They love the build-up, the way their bodies talk before any words are said. The Sun person craves adoration, not just to be desired but to feel powerful through that desire. The Venus person wants to be treasured like a work of art, their love felt in every small gesture. Together, they melt into something addictive. They touch like they already know what the other needs. It’s not just sex. It’s seduction as intimacy, every kiss a little promise. Over time, the attraction stays steady, even if the tempo slows. They still want each other when it’s quiet, when it’s late, when no one’s watching. But when unspoken needs pile up, things can turn a little cold. If the Venus person feels unseen, they retreat. If the Sun person feels unappreciated, they pull away. The connection dims. But even then, the echo of this love stays in their bodies. If they part, it lingers like the taste of skin after a night you can’t forget. They remember each other in silence, in beds that feel too empty, in moments where no one quite matches how natural it once felt.

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Hello 🌷 Can you, please, do the moon 8th house overlay in synastry too 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Hey there Cherry! Hope you're having a good day!

MOON 8TH HOUSE OVERLAY IN SYNASTRY

(From some previous notes in my old account) This also applies to Moon conjunct Pluto because Pluto carries the same but also more intensity his house holds.

I feel like to some extent Moon ☌ Pluto manifests just as similar to the Moon in the 8th house overlay. Pluto's intensity isn't just left behind by him in his house. He carries that intensity with him. He IS that intensity. So that's why the depth of this connection is so very deep and raw.

There's nothing they both would not do to keep eachother close. Definitely possessive of eachother. This also becomes a connection that is most likely to last forever.

This also becomes a connection where you understand eachother on a soul level, feeling eachother from miles away, speaking to eachother without having to use verbal communication.

Your souls speak to eachother. Your souls cannot untangle once you've both gotten close. You both nurture eachothers wounds and feel eachother pain.

You often read eachothers eyes without having to say anything at all. Along with this usually comes a LOT of challenges to test whether the connection wavers or stands the test of time.

It is normal that there will be massive turbulences in this connection that keeps this connection on the edge till you both pass the tests put forward. Usually, this connection does stand the test of time depending upon other placements and aspects as well. Best saying to describe this aspect is "They are the proof that 'Forever' exists".

I have heard before that when Moon sits in the 8th house overlay, there is a touch of secrecy in the connection, not between the two but one of them or the both of them needing to keep the connection a secret like meeting eachother privately where no one can see them. This can even happen with strong 8th house overlays added on with this Moon-Pluto conjunction.

This aspect and/or placement works best when both the individuals have heavy intense placements in their natal charts like 8th house, 12th house, Scorpio, and/or Pisces placements.

When this is not the case, one or both the individuals cannot handle the intensity and uncomfortable depth of this connection and are stuck in Denial or running away from one another or chasing the other as well.

The Moon person feels very possessive and protective of the Pluto person while the Pluto/House person feels very emotionally impacted by the Moon person. The Pluto/House person has a lot of struggle with jealousy and wanting the Moon person all to themselves while the Moon person feels like they are under the Pluto/House person's spell. There is a lot of self-sabotaging, Jealousy, Possessiveness and emotional dependency in the connection.

Moon is a very sexually driven planet. This is why the sexual energy when Mars or Pluto aspects (mostly conjunct) Moon is off the charts in synastry. The sexual tension is extremely undeniable.

When there is a square or opposition it becomes very much an uncomfortable sexual tension at the beginning and for a while but when you begin to feel comfortable around eachother, trust me, it gets HOT🔥 It's like being in a Sauna when you're around eachother..the eye contact, the slight touch, the sweaty hands, the figitting, it's just so noticable.

I feel like with the square and opposition it's like you both are wondering why you feel such heat around eachother, like you just wanna touch eachother for the hell of it...and you wonder why you don't feel such a way with anyone else you talk to. It can be frustrating to be around eachother and not touch eachother, even if it's in the slightest way.

If I could describe the intense feeling of this connection in a song:

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How the Moon person feels towards the Pluto/House person:

How the House/Pluto person feels towards the Moon person:

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Thankyou so much for reading through this today my sweet sweet Cherries✨...I'm still responding to the other asks like the Venus and Mars 8th house overlays ❤️❤️

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Heavy on this!

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Lmao same mine is cancer and he his name is Dallas. DD-H DHALLAS is what is sounds like when you say it so I feel like this is really scary accurate

Hints about your future spouse's name

˖ㅤㅤ ֗ ㅤㅤ ࣭ ㅤ ⋆ㅤㅤ ۪ㅤ﹢ㅤ ࣪ ㅤ I just want to preface that this is not guaranteed but I have seen about 85% accuracy with this method. This is also a vedic method and can’t be found using western astrology because you need to access your D-9 chart

˖ㅤㅤ ֗ ㅤㅤ ࣭ ㅤ ⋆ㅤㅤ ۪ㅤ﹢ㅤ ࣪ ㅤ This is not my info. The following information is from plutonicdesire.net but I wanted to share it because of how accurate it is. All credits go to them for this idea

Check your D9 chart -> Check the 7h ruling planet (7h ruler) -> Then check its sign

Aries: A-L-E-I-O and M-N

Taurus: B-V-U-W and P-G-Y

Gemini: K-CH-GH-Q-C and R-SH-S

Cancer: DD-H and N-SH-M-D

Leo: M-T and Y-L-A

Virgo: P-TH and G-O-M-R

Libra: R-T and SH-S-K-GH

Scorpio: N-Y and A-N-D

Sagittarius: BH-F-DH and SH-M-H-A

Capricorn: KH-J and U-L-J-KH

Aquarius: G-S-SH and K-SH-A-R

Pisces: D-CH-Z-TH and H-N-Y

[theladyalchemist]

Astrology Observations

Capricorn Rising has a Taurus in the 5th house. Which mean they don't like to waste time in dating. They have a very serious approach to this and have values ​​that people have to approach to. They usually prefer someone who values ​​themselves and knows their worth. Especially when it comes to intimacy, they don't like people who are intimate with every person. They like privacy in their relationship.

Pisces Rising has a Aquarius in 12th house. Which means that things they do are actually very unique. People often cannot explain their personality because it is intertwined and different - mystical. They have gemini in 4th house which can mean that they could be the target of gossip many times within the family. Their circumstances were always changing. They have Leo in the 6th house, so the only time they feel seen is when they do something for others or get sick.

Sagittarius Rising has Aquarius in 3rd house. Which mean that they have very unique way of how they think and say things. Their thinking can sometimes be quite different from most people and they can often philosophize for a long time. In their 4th house is Pisces which means they grew up in a family where they may have felt alienated or unseen. They have Capricorn in 2nd house so they are good at calculating finances and have a healthy attitude towards money.

Libra Rising has a Pisces in 6th house. Therefore, at work, they can often feel that their talents are not seen and appreciated as they should be. You have a lot of knowledge that others can benefit from, it's a good idea not to tell people what you're doing because others can steal your ideas. They may feel misunderstood and sometimes even exploited at work. But they can handle a lot of pressure and usually have very good health because their mentality is not so burdened they can quickly switch off.

Leo Rising has Virgo in 2nd house. They have a very analytical approach to money and tend to work multiple jobs at once or their attitude towards money can change a lot. In 3rd house they have Libra therefore, they usually always want to express their opinions calmly and often see other people's views as well. Gemini in 11th house shows that they have many friends who are different and can change over the years. They can appear very smart in society and can quickly integrate into society. With Aquarius in 7th house they tend to choose a partner who is innovative, resourceful, different.

Mercury in 12th house-You tend to be a contemplative, self-absorbed, insightful thinker who works things out for yourself, alone or in secret. You worry over trifles and inconsequentials, and may be very shy. You will want to keep things for yourself. Neptune in 12th house- You are deep and sensitive and likely to possess a strong artistic bent. You prefer to work and live in a quiet atmosphere where you can create or meditate. There may be a mysterious or otherworldly quality to your personality. Pluto in 12th house-You have a compelling desire to understand, to see deeply into philosophical questions. There may be a secret sex involvement in your life. You are a private person and do not share your emotions easily. You might not talk openly about sex or desire, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t important to you. On the contrary — it’s often something sacred, intense, and tied to transformation.

Mars in 8th house- You are passionate about life and have a strong sex drive. You are attracted to the occult, also to medicine and the healing arts. There may be conflicts in your family over wills or legacies. You are very intense but don't show it outwardly. You really want to have a lot of things under control, even if it doesn't seem like it. Intimacy and being able to express your energy with someone is important to you. Sex is very important to you, but you only share it with those with whom you feel a real and genuine connection.

Venus in Taurus- Venus emphasizes the social side of Taurus. Although basically shy and reserved with strangers, you can be a wonderful host or hostess. You like to entertain those you are fond of. You may not indulge as freely in frivolous pleasures as, say, Leo or Libra natives, but you are renowned for enjoying good food and good wine in plush surroundings. You believe in pampering yourself with the comforts of the good life.

The difference between Taurus & Scorpio: Scorpio are secretive, they don't want to reveal things but wait for the right moment. But their intensity is visible and felt. Scorpio likes to show ugly things and likes to show their true side. Over time, they will show the person their true colors. They are not afraid of ugly things and if they want to, they will show all their sides. Taurus want control and stability and everything they do is calculated and they don't like it when things get out of control. They like emotional stability and they will always think things through before they do it.  If something is wrong or they are jealous they won't show it or say it but will withdraw. Their control is shown silently. They want things to go their way and to be in control.

Scorpios are not really that obsessed with control, they are obsessed with the truth and secrets of other people, they want to know everything about the person. They want to be prepared for anything if someone cheats on them and they want to be one step ahead of them. Taurus is obsessed with how they come out and obsessed with being able to control their emotions and actions. Scorpio will give things  and go all-or-nothing, but will use the things they know about you against you if you hurt them. Taurus has a hard time letting go until they are absolutely sure they have everything under control and that things are exactly as they imagined. With taurus in your chart  you need order in your life—you get anxious when things are out of control. And because the unfamiliar makes you feel insecure, you tend to cut yourself off from fresh experiences.

Sun energy is the energy that everyone has and where you shine and get attention because you do something that everyone loves or everyone likes. It's something that everyone wants. Classic energy. Where do you get people's attention and where are you most visible. Something you embody that people would also want you to embody or have. It is the brightest energy. Sometimes the sun's energy represents a point in you where you want to be seen and you want others to notice that you have it. So you can try harder to show it.

Uranus energy is an energy that not everyone has and is more unique and special. Not everyone understands it either. Because you do something that makes you stand out from the crowd. This is where individualism shows. How you are on inside and in what way you are different from others. People who have a lot of this energy are often misunderstood because people do not understand their energy. Because the energy is sudden and striking in a way that attracts attention. Uranus energy shows itself in the way you are special, unique in yourself in some area of ​​your life. You speak and express a language that others may never understand, but it is important that you do.

-Rebekah🧜🏻‍♀️🌙💍

[theladyalchemist]

What gifts of destiny do you have? Venus trines

Venus trine Moon

Venus trine Moon is like having a built-in emotional hot chocolate machine. Your vibes? Cozy. Your energy? Comforting. People meet you and instantly want to tell you their childhood secrets or ask if you’ve got snacks (you probably do).

This aspect makes your emotional world and your love language play nice together. The Moon handles your feelings, your instincts, your “aww I saw a puppy and now I’m crying” side. Venus handles what you love, how you show affection, and your overall vibe. When they’re in a trine? They high-five each other and go, “We got this.”

You're probably one of those people who just gets others. Not in a creepy “I know your password” way, but in that warm “I see your heart and I made banana bread” kind of way. Emotional intelligence? Check. Natural empathy? Double check. People feel safe around you—like you’d never judge them for crying over a cartoon or texting their ex (again).

In relationships, you’re nurturing but not clingy. Affectionate but not smothering. You know how to love in a way that feels like coming home. Romantic partner, friend, cat—whoever gets close to you ends up spoiled emotionally and probably also with snacks. You’re basically the human version of a warm blanket that listens.

And let’s not forget the aesthetic instincts. You probably have a knack for making spaces feel lovely and emotionally calming—like, “this room smells like vanilla and looks like Pinterest, how??” You bring sweetness into your environment and relationships without even trying. It’s your natural setting.

So yeah—Venus trine Moon = emotional harmony, effortless sweetness, the ability to cry at sunsets and make others feel like they're not weird for doing the same. You're the friend everyone wants during a breakup and the partner that people write poems about. No big deal.

Venus trine Mars

Venus trine Mars is pure cosmic chemistry—like the universe looked at you and said, “Let’s make someone who knows how to mix sweet with spicy.”

This aspect gives you that effortless charm-meets-confidence energy. You’re magnetic without being overbearing, flirtatious without being cringe, and somehow you make going after what you want look like art. People don’t just get attracted to you—they get drawn in like moths to a scented candle.

Venus is all about love, beauty, harmony. Mars is passion, action, desire. When they’re in a trine? They’re vibing. That means your inner lover and your inner go-getter are on the same page. So whether you’re trying to start a creative project, impress a crush, or pick the perfect outfit—you're guided by this smooth coordination of wanting and doing.

In relationships, you’re probably equal parts affectionate and exciting. You know when to be soft and when to bring the fire. You’re not just charming—you’re compelling. The kind of person people remember as “ugh, they were just so attractive and cool and I don’t know why.”

And in creative work? That Venus-Mars flow gives you the perfect mix of inspiration and execution. You don’t just daydream about your Pinterest-perfect life—you might actually build it. With mood boards. And maybe some dramatic eyeliner.

Also, your relationship with pleasure? Healthy. Balanced. Not too much, not too little. You know how to enjoy life, and you probably have great taste—whether it’s in people, playlists, or what snack to pair with a good movie.

So yeah—Venus trine Mars is a gift. It makes your energy feel aligned, attractive, and easy to act on. You’ve got the cosmic green light to be a little flirty, a little bold, and a whole lot of magnetic.

Venus trine Jupiter

Venus trine Jupiter is like the universe handed you a giant, glittery “YES” stamp for life. It’s the ultimate feel-good, good-vibes-only aspect. Venus is love, beauty, charm. Jupiter is luck, joy, and expansion. When they team up in a trine? You radiate warmth like a freshly baked croissant in the sun.

People with this aspect are blessed with big hearts. Like, “randomly buys coffee for the person behind them in line” energy. Your kindness isn’t performative—it’s just how you operate. Generosity is your love language. And when you love someone? Whew. They’re getting affection, encouragement, snacks, emotional support, AND possibly travel plans.

You're also probably a little lucky in love and money—even if things get rocky, Venus trine Jupiter folks tend to bounce back with style (and maybe a new haircut). The universe seems to have a soft spot for you. You attract abundance because you live in that mindset—there’s always more beauty to create, more love to give, more joy to find.

You might have a natural sense of aesthetics too—big, bold, joyful beauty. Venus-Jupiter doesn’t do minimalism unless it’s “Italian villa minimalism.” Think lush colors, dramatic earrings, and laughing at your own jokes while wearing fabulous shoes.

In relationships, you bring sunshine. You’re romantic, optimistic, and probably the type who plans cute dates with themes. You don’t love small—you love out loud. And people feel good around you because your energy says, “You’re safe, loved, and we’re probably going to brunch after this.”

And honestly? You make people believe in good things again. You're the human version of finding twenty bucks in your coat pocket and someone telling you your aura looks amazing today.

So yeah—Venus trine Jupiter is the gift of a joyful heart, big love, and the kind of sparkle that makes life feel a little more magical. ✨

Venus trine Saturn

Venus trine Saturn is like the cosmic version of "loyal with taste." It’s the aspect that says, “Sure, I can fall in love—but only if it has emotional maturity, long-term potential, and maybe a five-year plan.” And somehow, you make that sound hot.

While Venus is out here flirting, curating playlists, and swooning over aesthetics, Saturn strolls in like, “Okay, but can we build something real?” And when they’re in a trine? Boom—magic. You get that beautiful balance of heart and structure, softness and stability. You're the person who brings flowers and remembers to pay the bills.

In love, this aspect makes you steady, loyal, and probably way more romantic than you let on. You might not write love poems in public (unless other parts of your chart say otherwise), but your actions? Speak volumes. You show love through commitment, support, and actually showing up—consistently. You’re the “I’ll help you move apartments and won’t complain once” type. And honestly, that’s rare and wildly attractive.

You're also really good at knowing your worth. Venus brings the charm and Saturn brings the standards. So you can enjoy romance without losing your head (or your dignity). You’re not likely to chase fleeting drama—you’d rather invest in something meaningful, even if it takes time. And your love? Ages like wine.

Creatively, you combine beauty with discipline. You can turn aesthetics into something practical—art that sells, style that lasts, design that works. You might even have a gift for turning hobbies into long-term projects, or making your creative side pay rent.

And money? You’re probably responsible with it. You enjoy life’s pleasures, but you’re also thinking ahead. Venus trine Saturn is the person who saves for vacation and packs snacks for the plane.

So yeah—Venus trine Saturn isn’t flashy, but it’s gold. It’s commitment, grace, and long-term glow-up energy. You don’t just love deeply—you love wisely. And that? Is beautiful.

Venus trine Uranus

Venus trine Uranus is the cosmic version of “I love you, but let’s keep it interesting.” It’s the kind of aspect that adds ✨spice✨ to sweetness—think electric charm, creative rebellion, and a love life that’s anything but boring (in the best way).

Venus is all about love, beauty, connection. Uranus is the planet of surprises, freedom, and “Wait, what if we did it completely differently?” Put them in a trine, and you get someone who loves with a twist.

You’re probably effortlessly magnetic—not in a loud or over-the-top way, but in that “who is that and why do they look like they just stepped out of a dream I didn’t know I had?” kind of way. People are drawn to you because you feel exciting, original, and genuinely yourself. You’re the cool breeze on a hot day, the plot twist in a rom-com, the person who can pull off silver eyeliner at brunch.

In relationships, you need spark—and freedom. You’re affectionate, but you’re not about that clingy life. You want connection that breathes. You’re into people who can surprise you, challenge you, or at least talk about weird science facts at 2 a.m. You might fall in love fast—but if it turns routine and stale? You’re already mentally redecorating your life.

And your sense of style? ICONIC. Venus-Uranus people often have amazing taste that���s just a little ahead of the curve. You might wear things that shouldn’t work… but totally do. Your aesthetic says, “I make my own trends,” and people follow.

Creatively, this aspect is genius. Literally. You get flashes of inspiration that feel like lightning bolts. One minute you’re folding laundry, the next you’ve invented a brand new art style or business idea. You thrive when you can innovate, experiment, and break a few rules in the name of beauty or fun.

Basically, Venus trine Uranus is the gift of loving freely, creating boldly, and dancing to your own (very catchy) beat. You don’t just think outside the box—you turn the box into a disco ball.

Venus trine Neptune

Venus trine Neptune is pure dreamboat energy. It’s the "poetry in motion" aspect—the kind of placement that makes you love like a movie, create like a muse, and daydream like it's a full-time job (with benefits).

Venus is love, beauty, art, connection. Neptune is magic, fantasy, spirituality, and soft-focus filters on everything. When these two are vibing in a trine? You’ve got a heart that floats. You don’t just feel love—you merge souls. You don’t just like pretty things—you fall in love with sunsets, songs, strangers’ handwriting, and maybe even clouds.

You radiate sweetness, compassion, and that ethereal softness that makes people think, “Are they real… or are they a character in a romantic French film?” There’s something dreamy and gentle about you, and people feel it. They might not even be able to explain why they’re drawn to you—they just are.

Love, for you, is spiritual. You're the type who writes little love notes, dreams of soulmates, and maybe secretly wants someone to slow dance with you in the kitchen at 2 a.m. You believe in love. Deeply. Even when the world gets cynical, your heart quietly insists: "No, it's still real."

Creatively? Oh, you’re a vibe. This aspect brings serious artistic potential—music, dance, painting, writing, photography, design—all of it. You create beauty that speaks to the soul. Even if you’re just decorating your living room, it probably looks like a Pinterest board made by an angel with excellent taste.

You’re also super empathetic—like, “accidentally cried watching a stranger reunite with their dog” levels of emotional openness. Your kindness isn’t performative; it’s just who you are. But that does mean you need to protect your energy, because you can absorb emotions like a sponge in a telenovela.

So yeah—Venus trine Neptune gives you the gift of beauty, love, and enchantment. You’re the heart-softener, the daydream-weaver, the cosmic reminder that love can still be tender and real. Just maybe keep your feet on the ground while your head floats in the stars. 💫

Venus trine Pluto

Venus trine Pluto? Ohhh baby. That’s the slow burn, deep soul, intense eye contact across a crowded room aspect. It’s magnetic, emotional, and just the right amount of mysterious. Like, you might not even say much, but somehow people feel like you see right into their soul—and weirdly, they kind of love it.

Venus is love, beauty, connection. Pluto is transformation, power, and everything that simmers under the surface. When they’re in a trine, you get the kind of charm that doesn’t ask for attention—it commands it. Quietly. Intensely. With raised eyebrows and smoldering vibes.

In love, you don’t do shallow. You want all of it—the passion, the soul bond, the “I’d help you bury the body” kind of loyalty. You’re not out here for flings (unless your Gemini placements are protesting)—you want to be consumed, in the best possible way. You crave real connection. None of that situationship nonsense.

People with this aspect tend to attract deep, powerful love stories—sometimes even life-changing ones. You’re the person others never quite forget. (Even if they try. Which they will. But they won’t succeed.)

There’s also this quiet confidence to you when it comes to beauty and attraction. You don’t need to follow trends or be loud about it—you just know how to work with what you’ve got. Venus trine Pluto is like wearing perfume that no one can place, but everyone keeps leaning in to smell.

Creatively, this aspect is fire. You can turn pain into art, passion into poetry, and longing into something unforgettable. You’re drawn to beauty with depth—music that aches, films that stir something, aesthetics that say “there’s more beneath the surface.”

And honestly? You’ve probably done some serious inner work in your life. You know what it means to grow through love, to heal through heartbreak, and to come out the other side even more powerful. Venus trine Pluto gives you the gift of transformational love—the kind that changes you, and the kind you give to others.

So yeah—this aspect isn’t light and fluffy. It’s rich, deep, powerful, and just the right level of “I feel things too hard but I make it look cool.” You’re the storm and the stillness after.