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Poor is he who works with a negligent hand, But the hand of the diligent makes rich.

Proverbs 10:4

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The “Wanna be grown” 9-year-old and her girlfriend momma

Let’s start with this dim-witted mother of hers; I am tired of the “bickering”. Bickering as in arguing or back and forth. You are the lady who bickers and pacifies your daughter. I do NOT! When she does not get her way with me, due to lack of “mothering” skills you claim you possess, you are the jelly back punk! I have told me friend about things that happens within this apartment, they ALL ask me one question. Is this lady white? I am not going to excuse African Americans or Black families. However, it seems these issues seem to follow more white families that any other families in the country.

This little girl enjoys talking back with her mother or until the mother looks asinine is when she wants to start screaming and cussing at her daughter, but you deem me as “too hard”. First off, if I did not mandate church today, then you would be still making excuses on why you do not feel like going and other things. Second, you wanted to leave early knowing that you needed to stay at the service, and then as we were leaving the church grounds lighting your cigarette, you forgot to give the offering to the ministry. I know many things stated are skewed by my personal opinions and experiences, but you cannot place me remotely in any classes connected to the people you have produced lady. In addition, you WILL not place me into any of the categories of the people you associate yourself with after my interaction with them.

 I am a graduate holding certified professional Black male, whom you have contracted for assistance with your disoriented life. I just simply needed an opportunity to clear debt, better myself, and fund my business. You are the one who needs a complete overhaul with your life. You are currently STILL married to a man who is living with his pregnant girlfriend. You are seeking and looking for men on dating websites. You are the one who can’t walk for 20 minutes without stopping every 15 seconds to take a picture of your face and boobs. You are the one who leaves your 9-year-old consistently with your 1-year old. Lady!  You open your mouth to class me with the girl who can’t wipe her own butt, calm through her hair, complete simple math homework, turn off the oven or stove, and brush her teeth without reminders.

 Please try someone without intelligence. Your entire family is either some swingers, degenerates, liars, thieves, con-artists, felons, weed heads, and the list continues, and you class me with this raccoon little child. NOOOOO one in this apartment can NOT complete or function with ME. I, AGAIN, thank GOD for this role and the opportunity. However, CAN YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF?

 You cannot make up your own bed. You cannot find your deodorant without assistance. You cannot put ANYTHING BACK YOU RETRIEVE. You cannot cook for yourself. You cannot take out your trash. You cannot even take the trash to the trashcan. You demand respect, but you lack personal respect and integrity. You lie by omitting information. You withhold information from others and demand the truth to be told to you. You are clearly confused people! You create massive messes, and then run to the man who left you to fix them. If not him, then you running to me to advise you out of self-inflicted issues. Where do these people come from in the world? You have the audacity to class me with this child? Are you serious, lady?

 Let me be quiet for a few hours or a few days, and you can seek her advice. You can request her assistance. She knows everything! The 9-year-old is well-travelled and studied. She knows current events, DIYs and she can predict the future. Seek her assistance. Why do you CONSTANTLY come and disturb my peace for your confusion? Why do you want my friend to bail you out of your irresponsibility?

 Lessons to learn from this blog…

·       If you are not familiar with a subject, then either research it or shut up until you know all the information required to respond.

·       Do not request for services if you do NOT have the funds to pay for them.

·       Children needs to remain in children’s world and places.

·       Sometimes to teach immature parents lessons, then one must let them fall into them without assistance. Basically, let them run into a storm without a safety net. Let them fall and see for themselves.

·       When the immature or illegitimate people learn their lesson, don’t say anything. Keep moving. Don’t even mention you were right months ago. Let them get the picture alone!

·       Learn to say NO and refer them to the individual that knows everything. I.E. The 9-year-old!

·       Spend the time one would correct to teach yourself. Develop your product and your business.

·       Establish boundaries and re-establish boundaries!

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...for whatsoever a man soweth THAT shall he also reap

Galatians 6:7

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Another 5 to 7 business or calendar days

I have been working as a Manny for almost a year, and I have never been so ready to take a vacation. I have never sat and watched someone self-destruct their own lives in several ways before noon in my life. How does someone make kneejerk plans and becoming befuddled when they fall apart? How are you surprised when people do not believe you when you consistently lie by omitting information?

Just a few instances, the mother was recently I guess dumped by a 21-year-old boy she has known since he was 13. The husband soon to be ex-husband had an issue with it. The crazy part about it is, his current girlfriend just turned 24 years old, and she is pregnant. She was upset with him getting this chick pregnant, when she was pregnant less than three months ago and got it aborted by her lovely father. We will address him later, maybe not in this blog, but he will be addressed.

I understand that you want to live a wonderful life, but it should not at the expense of another individual. Let me tell you the most recent foolishness, and I will bounce back from various scenarios, giving people who are in this role some advice on how to handle life and the people it brings into your path. June 26th, 2017; I politely told, Liv, the Mother when she was stressed about the rent money, to come up with a plan for the rent in July. She waits LITERALLY until the 17th of July to concern herself with the rent, when you had over 15 days. To add insult to stupidity, then you want to come and stress or attempt to stress me out with the dilemma, when I was informing you about this issue weeks ago. YOUR EMERGENCY WILL NEVER BE MY PRIORITY!

You literally whine about your friends, ex-husbands, and other people you call family griping at you for the foolishness you engage in, but you CONTINUE TO DO IT! You cannot be this slow with three children. No one should never have children if you are not able to balance a budget consistently. I am highly aware life has ways of contributing curve ball situations, but you should always have contingency plans.

 She reached out to her “husband” and naturally he was irritated with the fact that she not only invited his brother’s girlfriend to stay with her after she was allegedly kicked out the apartment, but she is not staying with us in the 2 bedroom, 2-bathroom apartment. Originally, we were looking at this 6 bedrooms 6-bathroom home and we were pursuing this, but due to the sorry financial institutions she is currently dealing with, it’s taking more time that it should to obtain what is originally belonging to her.

Initially, the goal was to help Liv get her money, get a business started and moving, get furniture, but when some obstacles presented themselves, then we had to re-route, and begin working on another project. My current issues with her is the lack of proper decision making. She will make these decisions that she does not consider the effects, and then cry when the originally plan produced does not work. For instance, you invited this mother, young mother, 22-year-old mother with two kids by two different men into your apartment with five people already in the house. Due to boredom, you allow thing young mother to bring her FIRST BABY FATHER over to spend the night and eventually move in, and you wonder why your 21-year-old boyfriend broke up with you. DECISIONS LIKE THESE made him rethink his life currently and the added responsibilities you are adding to the equation including 4 other people who operate as a separate entity in an already pressed situation.

You randomly invite people over, you allow people to spend SEVERAL nights over, you request obscene attention, you cannot occupy yourself in a manner which will produce something positive and uplifting in your life. In addition, you are fighting with lawyers to get things that originally belong to you. Lady, focus on the things that are going to yield a return and stop rocking in one spot trying to conjure excitement, and then when it gets overwhelming you want to invite other people who live peaceful lives into your madness.

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The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Proverbs 18:21

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Talk about everything but what’s important…

So…we are waiting on money to pay people, bills, and gather resources, but you want to talk about your sorry husband or soon to be ex-has been. Who cares? I have been sitting in this apartment for months waiting on promises you have made and have not fulfilled. I understand most people in my role would have left you in their dust going 90 miles per hour. You have lost friends due to this foolishness, and yet you are still rocking and talking about things that irrelevant.

Story #1

You begin telling me how your husband used to throw you in a broken floor less trailer because you wanted to leave. You kept getting on top of him to beat his face in and he kept throwing you off of him. What does that have to do with the fact that you lie and keep changing timelines about when promises will be fulfilled?

Story #2

While your daughter Rainbow is in the living room, you are telling me how sorry her father is, and how he slapped his fingerprints on your white face for calling him a B**CH, and he hates the word he acts like, but when you called him one, he slapped you like a punk in the street. I just looked at her and said, didn’t be spend the night this past Friday?

Story #3

She talked about being him being court martialed. I forgot for what reason, and the night before being taken they were all drinking, dancing, and housing an abused woman from her husband in the Army who beat the crap out of her. Your husband, friends, and three random sluts come into your home ridicule you, your decorations, children, and so much more, and then when you addressed them in the manner they were acting. Your husband tells YOU to STOP embarrassing HIM. My facial expression was BLANK. He just told your son a lie to come and get some sex from you while his son was with your PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND.

Why do you tell me these things knowing I do NOT CARE? You continue to engage conversations with this man outside of your three children. I don’t care about this foolishness because you will clown and ridicule him, but let him sleep in your bed a week later to keep some information you don’t want him to have access to getting to him.

1.     Please do not remain in an ABUSIVE relationship of any kind.

2.     Please do not create more connections with instable people.

3.     Please avoid all argument with idiots.

4.     Please do not engage conversation with insecure men or women.

5.     Please do not work for stupid people.

6.     Remain professional at all times, even WHEN they do NOT.

7.     Always stay in PRAY and YOUR BIBLE.

I am learning daily how to keep quiet and say in my own space and lane. Many times involving yourself with the purest of intentions to assist will only create a co-dependent relationship, where they will always revolve around you and your opinions, even if they do not agree.

Let’s Pray

Heavenly Father,

Thank you for another opportunity to bless your name according to Psalms 34:1. Thank you for your son, his blood, cross, resurrection, and ascension. Thank you for your Holy Ghost given to us in Acts 2. I appreciate your word and your promises made in the word.

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And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

First Thessalonians 4:11