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watching sinners and i can't stop thinking about that post? letterboxd comment? that was like they finally cast michael a. jordan in something. that was so funny 😭

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in order to survive work you must have a coworker that you can just say whatever to

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i hate knowing things. and not knowing things? not a fan of that either

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KPOP DEMON HUNTERS (2025) dir. by Maggie Kang, Chris Appelhans

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Autistic spaces are getting so much more hostile towards people with low empathy, and it sucks

There was a subreddit I really liked, people were chill, and then there was a sudden influx of people making posts like ‘Autistic people have empathy! Saying we don’t makes us seem like monsters! Thats not a symptom!’ And people making posts explaining that no, actually, some of us do have low empathy got attacked and told they were wrong or ableist? And it sucks, because its just so hard to find a place to exist where you can be seen as not evil? I don’t know, it just hurts a lot to be told that

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the jury has found the defendant guilty of his crimes. this court sentences him to writing ONE THOUSAND simon fics

When you mindlessly start reading a tumblr post and halfway you realise that you don’t know these people

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Show me how unwell you are by telling me what your top song of 2025 is so far

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I plan on watching a movie at some point in the future

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@skibasyndrome explain yourself

When you mindlessly start reading a tumblr post and halfway you realise that you don’t know these people

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one of the worst parts about autism is never really knowing how big of an impact something will have on you and having to wait to find out. x thing will happen and if you think about it maybe you can sort of take a guess at how bad it will hurt based on past experiences, but you don't know when and you don't know how, so if you're not thinking about it it's very easy to make the mistake of believing hey, maybe this thing didn't affect me as bad as i expected! and then it marinates for 2-12 hours and it's like, nope. there it is. the full scope of the emotional consequences. it's like a fucked up delivery day, the package will arrive between the hours of 9am and 10pm but we won't tell you when! and also the package is a mental breakdown. and sometimes the delivery guy never even shows up! what a fun and not at all exhausting guessing game!

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Ever since I was a little gender neutral child I knew I wanted to step through a portal to another dimension/universe/world

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just wanted to share these beauties with you

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“All of us are better when we are loved.”

— Alistair MacLeod, No Great Mischief

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