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Xiao Wen Ju | © Leslie Zhang

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I really do want all of your dreams to come true. I love you girls in my phone

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her genes really took over

Brazilian actress Maria Gladys, Mia Goth's grandmother 1975

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good night keys

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i understand why carrie bradshaw spent so much money on blahnik, these are gorgeous

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Me, still insane: I used to be sooo crazy

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early 20th century France

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one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

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Getting older is fun i love to inch closer 2 the girl i dreamed of being at 14

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Vintage 70s Victorian Style Hands Belt from SHOPPOMPOMVINTAGE

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i'm just like a haunted house but a girl.

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Taylor Russell the goddess you are

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babe i am so frightened by your indecision to let love in