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The inner-thighs are such a sensitive spot

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[BDSM] REMINDER

When someone has to give, it should always be you. By keeping your partner happy, they will return that devotion. The better you are to them, the better they are to you.

Domme‘s need love too. Just because you don't need after care doesn't mean your Domme doesn't. Domme drop is a thing!

A Sub is not your Sub. She is not yours until she gives herself to you. You must earn respect. Do not touch what is not yours.

Do not compromise on your own safety and comfort. If your Domme is not putting your safety first, he is dangerous. Do not play.

Communication is key. Check in. Be sensitive and listen. Sometimes your Sub will need your kindness and gentleness, and others your cruelty. Find out her needs.

Know your limits. Speak your limits. A Domme should push your limits, not break them. You should never feel unheard or used.

Be specific, be clear, be consistent, be fair. If your Sub has to think about what your order means, or if it is unreasonable to perform, you have failed.

Know what you want and need out of a relationship. Prioritize. Know what can be pushed and what is a dealbreaker.

The first Beast a Domme must master is herself. If you do not have control of yourself, you cannot control another.

The best Sub works solely to please their Domme, and fulfill their tasks to the best of their ability. This is how you grow.

The best Domme works solely to satisfy her Sub‘s needs, and push her Sub to their greatest potential. Help them grow.

There is no wrong way to play. What you do in your kink is between you and your partner. Don't let others tell you that you are sick and wrong for wanting this. It's not their business.

You can't play with your toys if you break them. Know her limits. Push where it is safe, and build up to stretching her boundaries. Do not take what is a limit for good reason.

You have a safeword. Use it. By not using it, you have given your Domme implicit consent. If you're uncomfortable, say so. If you are not communicating, you are also failing.

The Domme is here to push limits. Not break them. Do not rush this. Take your time to to earn your Sub‘s trust first.

Tell your Domme what your needs are. Ask for things you want. Beg sweetly, and a good Domme will give them to you.

Do your homework. Know her anatony, know the tools you are using practice these techniques on yourself before you touch them. Be safe.

A Domme is not your Domme. She must earn that respect. Do not allow another person to touch you when they haven't earned it.

The difference between BDSM and abuse is consent and aftercare. Tread carefully and err on the side of caution.

She is your Domme, not your God. If she is not serving your needs, find another Domme.

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