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My now wife and I were talking about gender identity(because I didn't like being called cis )and she mentioned that your gender identity can be fluid and fluctuate and I shouted "You can do that !" And that's how I came out to myself and my wife

I am nervous as hell, and would appreciate as many funny coming out stories as possible from any of your followers that are willing to send them please? ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 #ANervousGayNoodle

Hey everyone! Who here can help our fellow pride knight with some funny coming out stories? We all would love to hear them!

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gamers are so fucking stupid and fascist that they seriously think that the reason the new pokemon games look rushed and devoid of content is that “the developers are lazy” and “they don’t want to work hard”, like the fucking 3d modellers and programmers are the ones making the call that sword and shield needed to be rushed for christmas season. these people literally blame a company’s workers for every bad decision their bosses make.

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@writing-prompt-s where are you? All the prompts and stories I submitted are gone and I am incredibly upset

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Lillith: Sooooo we got a kitten.... now what

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Time for

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Roses are red

Storm clouds are grey

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The Lion King: It is impossible to CGI photorealistic lions who can also emote!

Chronicles of Narnia:

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T: This is just my aesthetic goal tbh

the mini skirt + over the knee socks look is the best look ever created and no one will ever change my mind

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I don’t know where this came from but I NEEDED it

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Tressa: GAAAAAAAYYYYYY

Sooo....

LIllith: It's been a minute since I last posted and honestly I love my binder. However it has opened so many doors for me in regards to my identity as a whole. Almost everyday it seems I learn something new... what I like and what I don't. All I know for sure is I couldn't be happier with Tressa. She is absolutely perfect and the most wonderful and supportive person I have ever met. I love her with all my heart.

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Do NOT Support ‘Adam’ When The Film Comes Out

I’ve talked about this before on this blog but this is the most disgustingly transphobic and lesbophobic narrative I’ve ever come across. 

CWs: transphobia, homophobia, lesbophobia, corrective rape, voyeurism

The book Adam by Ariel Schrag is being turned into a movie which has been named as one of the most exciting LGBTQ films of the year. You should know before watching that the book is about a cis boy who pretends to be a trans man in order to persuade lesbians to sleep with him.

Yeah… you read that right.

Book plot summary: 

boy spies on his lesbian sister having sex

boy decides to pretend to be a trans man (gross)

i.e. pretends to have a vagina because he thinks lesbians will want him then (he literally wants to fuck lesbians because he watched his lesbian sister have sex wtf)

he does get a lesbian to sleep with him, he straps his penis down using ace bandages and uses a strap on.

all the actual trans dudes we meet identify as lesbians this basically implies that trans men are not real men (lesbians i.e. women)  

another time they have sex again only he uses his actual penis but tells her its a strap on. that’s literally rape, she didn’t consent to an actual penis.

he confesses that he’s been lying to her this whole time but she doesn’t break up with him. she even says its okay cause she fantasised about him being “a real boy"

that’s a direct quote. massive transphobia. huge. not to mention this is now the “lesbian is cured by dick trope” which is disgusting and that trope leads to real lesbians and bi women being raped to “fix” them. 

he leaves new york, they’re long distance. they get in an argument and he calls her a slut and a whore among other things and then she dumps him

eventually they get back in touch and she has a new cis boyfriend so yep, she’s been “cured” woo she’s actually straight and he helped her realise that yay (massive sarcasm)

It is deeply deeply transphobic. To imply that our identities are just costumes for other people to put on erases who we are as people. More than that, to imply it is done to trick people into sex is a dangerous lie that literally gets us killed.

It is also deeply lesbophobic. To fuel this narrative that lesbians can be “fixed” by having sex with a man leads to real corrective rapes happening. 

Here is a review of the book by a trans man. I have yet to find one by a lesbian but will edit this if I do.

This book gives out incredibly harmful notions about trans men and lesbians that are used to hurt them in real life. It’s so entrenched in the narrative that I don’t see how the film can possibly be any better.

I do not say any of this lightly. it’s very very rare for me to call out a piece of fiction or for me to decide that a story is unfixable. But this… there’s no excuse for the bigotry in this. 

I’d like to tell people to boycott it but I can’t tell you what to do. So instead I’m going to ask that you share this because it being named as an exciting new LGBTQ film is going to make LGBTQ teens want to see it. And they should know beforehand how hurtful it could be. They should be able to arm themselves with that knowledge.

Don’t make queer kids see this film believing it will represent them only to be exposed to this hatred of their identities. 

Please reblog.

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Sooo....

LIllith: It's been a minute since I last posted and honestly I love my binder. However it has opened so many doors for me in regards to my identity as a whole. Almost everyday it seems I learn something new... what I like and what I don't. All I know for sure is I couldn't be happier with Tressa. She is absolutely perfect and the most wonderful and supportive person I have ever met. I love her with all my heart.

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so there’s a new north american release of just fma omakes & many i’ve personally never seen before bc they’re like dvd extras kbndvcxv