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Tarot Inspired Journal Prompts

Fool: what is something new you are doing or want to do?

Magician: what is a magical way to enhance my day? Or, how can I be more like the magician?

High Priestess: what are my thoughts on divination? What about intuition?

Empress: what part of myself do I want to grow/nurture?

Emperor: what part of my life needs me to take authority? How can I?

High Priest: what are my personal traditions? How is my spirituality unique to me?

Lovers: what relationships mean the most to me?

Chariot: what part of my life needs me to be more combative/ warrior-like?

Strength: what part of my life should I face with courage?

Hermit: what do I need to do alone more often? What do I need to do with others more often?

Wheel of Fortune: what do I think about luck, fate, and/or fortune?

Justice: when do I need to focus on legality vs fairness? Or, What may cause me to seek justice/retribution?

Hanged Man: what have/will I sacrifice for -x-? What am I never willing to sacrifice? What will I easily give up?

Death: what is something personal I want to end or change? What is something that will end or change no matter how I feel? How can I accept it?

Temperence: what part of my life needs more patience? What part needs more balance? How can I achieve both?

Devil: what is a primal desire I have? Should I grant it to myself? Why or why not? How can I get what I want?

Tower: what can I learn from the current or recent chaos/disaster in my life?

Star: what do I hope for? How can I get it?

Moon: what part of my life is best kept private? Why?

Sun: what makes me happy?

Jusgement: what part of me needs reflection? What is a fair assessment of that part?

World: what parts of my life have been fulfilled? What parts are still lacking?

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I am the most beautiful human being I have ever seen.

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Every affirmation I have written about the world and myself has come to fruition; I have nothing left to desire. I am the full-time creator of my reality, and I enjoy and appreciate this fact. I am absolutely perfect at assuming the best for myself.

I give myself everything and anything I want in imagination and my desires effortlessly come to me, for they have always been mine. I am not a servant of the 3d, for it reflects only what I assume to be true.

My mind and heart are always in alignment with my desired assumptions. I allow my mind and heart to desire and receive only wonderous and good things.

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I’ll forever be big on “you could’ve just left me alone” because I’ve always been happy and at peace with myself. I don’t bother nobody, I don’t ask nobody for nothing, so when someone comes into my life and tries to cause chaos it just makes me wanna stay to myself even more.

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22 (Additional) Questions to Ask YOURSELF Before Entering A Relationship An Experience

It’s time to embrace having multiple boyfriends. I have a boyfriend in Miami, Mexico and South Africa yet none in my home state (expect the cashier at my corner store- pop pop’s my boo).

You don’t take “boyfriends” seriously, not until they make the effort into showing you that they’re worth being in the “potential husband” position. In the meantime, here are some questions to ask YOURSELF before officially putting someone in your dating rotation, something I breakdown in this post:

Am I emotionally prepared for betrayal?

Is this person getting my part time or full time attention? Why?

Am I comfortable potentially traveling with this person both in the states and overseas? Why or Why not?

Are they financially secure enough to fund what I want them to?

What are my intentions for this experience?

What’s my desired outcome upon parting ways?

What opportunities can they offer me?

Does he have high value? Medium? Why or why not?

How do we get along in social settings (dinner, parties, shopping. Laughing, awkward, entertaining, etc. )

Do you plan of eventually cutting them off? When is their expiration date?

What traits do I dislike about him?

In what ways do I plan to selfishly benefit from this experience?

Am I comfortable being seen even by strangers in public with this person?

Can this person teach me anything substantial? Is there anything I want to be taught specifically?

What investments am I prepared to ask for?

Can I improve on anything else within this experience?

Am I disciplined enough to detach emotionally?

Am I using dating as a distraction? Why or why not?

How do I feel around this person? (ex: safe, like a babysitter, spoiled, etc.)

What would it take for me to become intimate with this person?

Do I desire discretion? Why or why not?

Would I be embarrassed if my loved ones were introduced to this person as my date in the case of an emergency visit to the ER? Why or why not?

All of these questions were carefully thought and wrote out for my self study reference. Please credit @urtoospoiled if you choose to use for your personal or professional reference.

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Be nice to yourself. It is hard to be happy when someone is being mean to you all the time.

Christine Arylo (via thoughtkick)

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Don't blame yourself for things, that weren't under your control.

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"I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together."

-Lisa Kleypas