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Hey tumblr???? Hey fucking tumblr?????

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becoming an adult cheat sheet!

learn to coupon

what to do when you can’t afford therapy

cleaning your bathroom

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

stress management

quick fix meals

find out if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

resume workshop

organize your closet

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

what you should bring to a doctor’s appointment

what’s a mortgage?

how to pick a health insurance plan

hotlines list

your first gynecology appointment

what to do if the cops pull you over

things to have in your car in case of emergency

my moving out masterpost

how to make friends as an adult (video)

how to do taxes (video)

recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)

change a flat tire (video)

how to do laundry (video)

opening a bank account (video)

laundry cheat sheet

recipes masterpost

tricks to help you sleep more

what the fuck should you make for dinner?

where should you go for drinks?

alcohol: know your limits

easy makeup tips

find seat maps for your flight

self-defense tips

prevent hangovers

workout masterpost

how to write a check

career builder

browse careers

birth control information

financial management software & app (free)

my mental health masterpost

my college applications masterpost

how to jumpstart a car

sex ed masterpost

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Boss is asleep, cannot stop me from frogposting

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DO NOT GO TO AO3 RIGHT NOW!!

I really mean it. Apparently Anonymous Sudan is getting desperate because this isn't the out come they're hoping for and are trying to do a DNS attack! Which means they will try and redirect you to a malicious website to obtain private information!!!! SO DO NOT GO ONTO AO3 AT ALL FOR YOUR SAFETY!!!!!!!! FOR YOUR SAFTEY DELETE ALL AO3 TABS NOW!

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Reblog if you need this energy

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Tom Holland does Rihanna’s “Umbrella” on Lip Sync Battle

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This user supports AO3

This user is anti-censorship

This user believes in “don’t like, don’t read”

This user believes in “ship and let ship”

This user believes that fiction tastes and preferences do not dictate moral character

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devils: 'i believe in the free market'

buckaroos: 'okay i personally dont want to spend my own money on a harry potter game'

devils: 'NOOOOOO YOU CANT SAY THAT YOU HAVE TO BUY IT AND TELL ME ITS OKKKKKKKKK TO BUYYYYY TOOOO'

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while it can seem like a hopeless trot sometimes, this timeline is headed towards love. it takes a LOT of detours, sometimes long ones, but thats the neat thing about time it always gets where its goin. thats the neat thing about love too. thanks for helping it along bud

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Hi Chuck,

Earlier last year, you did an AMA on Reddit where I asked if you had any words of encouragement for a trans man struggling to accept himself, and I wanted to thank you for your reply. Your words helped me find my confidence, and just made me feel so much better than I did. I've been on T for a year and a half now and I can see myself finally. I look in the mirror and actually love the person I see. I cannot thank you enough, I'm so dang grateful to be in the same timeline as you. You are a kind and beautiful soul and the world is better for you! Thank you!

dang bud this is great example of how EVERY CHOICE AND MOMENT creates new timelines that spin off in every direction, and we have so much power in this way. i am so glad to hear that WE PUT A LITTLE MORE LOVE ACROSS THESE REALITIES TOGETHER and you are confident in your trot. thank you for telling me this important tale and proving love is real to me (it is a cycle in this way. never forget the positive feedback loop one kind moment can create as it cascades into others over time). anyway bud it is honor to share this timeline with you so glad to hear you are trotting your authentic way

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Hi Chuck,

Earlier last year, you did an AMA on Reddit where I asked if you had any words of encouragement for a trans man struggling to accept himself, and I wanted to thank you for your reply. Your words helped me find my confidence, and just made me feel so much better than I did. I've been on T for a year and a half now and I can see myself finally. I look in the mirror and actually love the person I see. I cannot thank you enough, I'm so dang grateful to be in the same timeline as you. You are a kind and beautiful soul and the world is better for you! Thank you!

dang bud this is great example of how EVERY CHOICE AND MOMENT creates new timelines that spin off in every direction, and we have so much power in this way. i am so glad to hear that WE PUT A LITTLE MORE LOVE ACROSS THESE REALITIES TOGETHER and you are confident in your trot. thank you for telling me this important tale and proving love is real to me (it is a cycle in this way. never forget the positive feedback loop one kind moment can create as it cascades into others over time). anyway bud it is honor to share this timeline with you so glad to hear you are trotting your authentic way

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I know I posted about Goncharov and Defunctland last night, but that was an earnest desire to see this trend examined under a microscope because it’s fascinating to see it escape containment.

However, while I know most folks are just having a bit of fun with it, the number of people complaining that others are “ruining” the joke by tagging it for unreality is too damn high.

I’ve answered far too many asks in private in the last 24 hours from folks with psychosis begging me to tell them if Goncharov is real or not because they trust me, someone they don’t know beyond my medical advocacy posts, not to lie to them.

So in case you need this: No, Goncharov is not real. It’s Tumblr having a bit of fun with a made up gangster story premise from the 1970s. Most of the gifsets you are seeing are from The Godfather and some other 70s and early 80s films. The musical scores are being composed by some very talented people here on Tumblr, as is most of the art and quotes.

I’m sorry if people are telling you it is real and are refusing to reassure you when you admit it’s causing you distress. Some people are just taking things too far for the bit and aren’t acting with kindness. I hope they will reconsider.

If you were unaware that the Goncharov is causing some people some considerable distress, that’s okay. Tumblr is huge and you can’t be expected to know everything, but please do tag all your posts and reblogs with unreality to assure people that it’s part of the site-wide joke.

If you’re one of the people complaining that tagging it with unreality “ruins” the joke, please reconsider and examine why your enjoyment of people’s distress is necessary to your enjoyment of an otherwise fun and crowd sourced bit that many people are having fun with without being cruel.

Anyway, go have fun you creative little gremlins. Just do it with more kindness.

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one of my coworkers tried to advocate for me during her exit interview bc of the 20k pay disparity between me & another person in my year but it sounds like it went really badly & she called me to be like uhhhh so if management retaliates against you just fyi it’s mostly their fault but also kind of mine so i’ll write you a really nice reference letter for your next job