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i think it’s interesting how that ‘if the [trans woman] doesn’t feel loved, she will leave’ thing from that inane vice article got spread around on here because maybe it was different in the 2000s in those scenes but from what i’ve witnessed trans women are generally the most willing to tolerate friction and mistreatment for scraps of social involvement even when they don’t have to

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My favorite kind of customer

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be trans. be trans be trans be trans. be trans

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“milk is from bre*sts EW” “eggs are basically menstruation” “honey is bee barf yuck!!” do you guys ever stop sounding like 4th graders who think cooties still exist or what

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“When trans women are told that they need to stop being assertive and strong because it is a sign of male privilege - invariably by “feminists” who, of course, encourage cis women to be assertive and strong - that’s transmisogyny. When trans women are pressured into being silent, rarely offering their opinion, and refusing leadership roles for fear of being seen as male or accused of having male privilege, that’s transmisogyny. When trans women are afraid to analyze or discuss the role of male privilege in their life because of the way accusations of male privilege have been used as weapons to silence, shame, and misgender trans women, that’s transmisogyny. When trans women do analyze and discuss the role of male privilege in their lives and come to different conclusions than the dominant cis feminist perspective and are told it is because they simply don’t understand privilege or are ignorant of feminism, that’s transmisogyny.”

— Tobi Hill-Meyer, “What Transmisogyny Looks Like”  (via fawnmother)

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Idk like the way every tme person uses “jerks it to big tits” as a litmus test for if it’s acceptable to call a trans woman pornbrained in everything but name kinda rubs me the wrong way! Even otherwise supportive tme people! Like are you constantly on the look out for an excuse to call her a tranny in a way that doesn’t interfere with your Ally Credibility?

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Yeah, you don't want to make people in your community feel unsafe, but I also think that everyone has the responsibility to consider that their fears might be delusional reactionary bullshit.

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Yeah, you don't want to make people in your community feel unsafe, but I also think that everyone has the responsibility to consider that their fears might be delusional reactionary bullshit.

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it's always quite telling when people's problem with trans women making egg jokes is "it's fuckign weird & creepy" because it highlights what they think "suggesting somebody could be trans" is: weird and creepy. like, they literally can't define it any further beyond that because there is no further to define it: it is a deeply conservative gut response. if you think it is "weird" or "creepy" for somebody to suggest or yes even joke that a cis person is trans, then i don't know how to tell you this: you think being trans is weird and creepy. you think transition is weird and creepy. and you can jerk yourself off about how you support everybody's right to do whatever they want, but that objectively does not make up for the fact that you are saying "transness should be marginalised, it is abnormal to talk about transness, transness is a dirty, perverted, shameful part of society that must be spoken about in hushed whisper if at all"

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something incredibly American about an Allied trooper yelling brand names at Soviets until they recognize him as an ally.

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it's so epic that transmisogyny on this site has 0 long-term social consequences so like every single day i have to see somebody's unfunny 80k nothingpost reblogged onto my dash and go "oh hey i remember that guy from baselessly accusing someone i care about of being a rapist pedophile because he thought she was annoying and netting her months of death threats"

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This really cuts to the heart of it, doesn’t it? By their own admission, Zohran will not do anything materially to make Jews in New York unsafe, but he just makes them feeeeel unsafe for some ☪️ reason 🟤 and really isn’t that just as bad?

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if my journey into booktube is teaching me anything it's that much in the way that the mass-produce commercial object of the book is often fetishized as having innate cultural and intellectual value by virtue of Being A Book, many "bookish content creators" seem to fancy themselves as having something innately intelligent and interesting to say solely because they are Talking About Books

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some of you will with your whole chest berate people for finding egg "jokes" uncomfortable but the "jokes" in question are just "why are you a MAN enjoying a GIRL thing?? 🧐🤔 (girl thing is when pink btw) the ONLY reason a 'man' 🙄 might like girl thing (pink) is if 'he' is secretly GIRL see you on estrogen in five months mama mwa mwa 😘" as if that's not a deranged thing to say to a complete stranger and then less than five minutes later will reblog a post about how dangerous gender essentialism is and how we shouldn't ascribe arbitrary rules to gender and like I do think we have completely lost the fucking plot.