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I miss you

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There are no perfect relationships– no perfect partners. Some relationships end because two people cannot commit to working things out. Some ended because of unhealthy patterns. Some ended because it was one sided. Most of the time it ends inevitably.

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The difference between you and me: you keep looking for reasons not to be with me, and I kept looking for the ones to love you despite it all.

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“Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person”

— neckkiss

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why is it not real? // 3.11.2017

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you know what was the breaking point? all i asked was for you to communicate— to talk to me with sincerity and make me feel you care after everything you said. because your words affected me so much. you have no idea what went on inside my head after you said all those things. but you just shut me down. and the more you ignore me, the more it is i feel all those that was said is true. what kind of person would still want to talk to someone who makes you feel that communicating is a waste of their time. i said so much yet you don't even had the decency to exert effort on your replies even when i told you how your replies made me feel. how hard is it to compose a message with what you feel and make me feel that it's not just words. i might be petty for blocking you but i'd rather do that than keep chasing someone to talk to me when they clearly make me feel like it's exhausting to be with me. if you're done, i'm done. i promised myself one thing, and that's to stop chasing you when you run away from me. it was you who showed disinterest. it was exhausting to keep repeating myself only for you to not process everything i said. and how you're dealing with us right now just proves everything. i'm giving myself time, before this year ends, i'll be out of your life like what i told you. out of your life, out of your friends and family's lives. i owe it to you for making me feel that i was the only one who wanted us to work, who was the only one that took everything about us seriously. but why does it feel like you were just waiting for this moment so i can finally get out of your life?

"Conflict avoided is conflict multiplied.

when we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short term discomfort for long term dysfunction."

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One man's "you are asking for too much" is another man's "is that all?".

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sometimes their behavior is your answer

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“I want a bond so tight that even on bad terms u still run to me 1st.”

— Unknown

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