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[toythrob]

Oh, you really think you’d be able to hold back if I really wanted to make you cum?

How about this: I tie you up and play with you while you try your best to hold back and not have an orgasm. But if I succeed, you submit to me and give me complete control of your orgasms.

Because if I can just make you cum whenever I want, you were never actually in control, were you?

Oh sweetie…is that a wet spot on your panties already?

[toythrob]

Hiii i love your blog ☺️

i edged while scrolling but i was a good girl and didn’t cum!

i am 36 days denied and ughhh it’s so hard not to go over the edge but i want to stay a good girl for as long as i can!

Your blog made the ache so much worse in the best way 🥰

Good girl, that’s very impressive. Keep going! Keep edging and denying yourself for as long as possible.

Do you have someone to hold you accountable or did you manage to deny yourself for so long on your own?

I’m really glad that you like my blog. You can edge to my posts as much as you like but you’re not allowed to cum to any of them. If you want that, you have to ask for permission 😉

[toythrob]

hi sir...can i get a cute edging task from you? please? wanna be a good edgeslut and follow orders🥺

Good girl. Tonight, I want you to edge by humping your pillow. Make sure that it’s nice and wet before going to sleep. This should remind you of what a good edgeslut you are.

Have fun 😉

And no cumming of course

[toythrob]

No, sweetie. You don’t need to cum…you just want to cum.

But you‘ll learn the difference soon enough. Keep edging for me.

[toythrob]

This is what happens when you make a mess in your panties. Now be a good girl and lick them clean while I edge that needy pussy.

[toythrob]

You’re finally allowed to cum today. You really earned it after being a good girl and not cumming for such a long time. Are you excited?

I thought so. Let’s get you tied to the bed and I’ll edge you a few more times before you finally get your release.

There we go. Looks like you’re really desperate…just how I like you. Alright, are you ready? You can cum in

10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4…

3…

2…

Oh no…I‘m sorry sweetie. You know the rules…I didn’t give you permission yet so I had to ruin your orgasm.

I know that you didn‘t get any relief from that…but it still counts as your orgasm for today. Maybe you can hold back longer next time and not be so greedy.

[toythrob]

I clipped my nipples so hard today i nearly cried and my clit but it didnt hurt as much… are you proud of master ?

Of course I am. Good girl

[toythrob]

hi me again :) i’m not sure if i sent the other one anonymously… i’m kinda shy so if i didn’t please tell me what my punishment should be here (i went overedge :()

I hope that you’re the one that I just answered. Otherwise, same punishment for you

[toythrob]

i was supposed to be denied for a week but i went over the edge… would say it was accidental but i’m not sure. i will accept any punishment that comes my way

Sounds like it may have been on purpose. It goes without saying that you should start your one week denial from the beginning again.

But you’re right, you do deserve a punishment for cumming without permission. A spanking is always a good idea…let’s say 100 spanks right now (feel free to take breaks if you have to) and 10 additional spanks right after every edge for the next week. This should remind you to stay obedient and not cum without permission.

[toythrob]

A seasoned edgeslut here I guess, reading through your blog and ask responses had me feeling all sorts of ways 🫠 I already have someone in control online but gOsh I so badly wanna have you play with me too 😩

I‘m glad you enjoy my blog.

My DMs are always open for anyone willing to play 😉

[toythrob]

Too shy to slide in your dms but I need to get something off my chest. I saw how detailed your answer to the last ask about edging regiment was (that wasn't me btw) but it made me believe you'd be the best person to approach

I'm extremely new to this side of Tumblr. I literally didn't even know about edging until a month ago. I'm very interested in learning more about it. But, I've been cumming non stop since I had my first ever orgasm years ago. I've had like 3 orgasms a day at minimum. So it's not easy for me to just flip the switch and not cum again. I tried getting into edging myself but I'd literally end up cumming on the 3-4th edge.

I realised I needed actual guidance from someone, someone who can teach me and hold me accountable, so I made this Tumblr. Since then, I've encountered a few doms/mutuals who claimed they could help me in this journey. But their instructions were always "don't cum for the next 3 days", "don't touch yourself for a week" and punishments if I broke the rules. Obviously it went nowhere because i ended up cumming pretty quickly.

This is just leaving me more frustrated now. I know what I need, i need a schedule, i need someone to let me cum in the beginning and then slowly increase the gap between when I'm allowed to cum. Use my love for orgasms as a way to ease me into edging. But no dom seems to understand it.

Am i wrong for wanting this? Is this an absurd approach to even expect? am i just a failure at being an edgeslut?

Sorry if this is too long. Feel free to ignore if you don't want to respond, i totally don't mind!

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I‘m happy to hear from you. I’m sure that you’re not the only one in this situation, so I‘ll try my best to answer this in as much detail as possible as this could be helpful for others as well.

First of all, you’re not in the wrong at all and you‘re not a failure. Sometimes people can be too impatient or inconsiderate. I think it’s perfectly reasonable for you to start off slow, especially considering that you’re still quite new to all of this. You should always have fun and not feel like you’re being pushed to do anything.

I‘ve got a few ideas on how you could ease yourself into this and slowly increase the intensity.

For the beginning, it might be enough to try edging just once. Make sure to stop when you feel yourself getting close…it’s better to stop too soon rather than too late. Over time you will get a better feeling for how far you can push yourself before you inevitably cum. Then take a break for a minute in order to calm down again.

This might already be the point at which you want to reward yourself and make yourself cum. But depending on how you feel, you could also stop altogether and just go about your day (to practice being denied) or start over again with another edge (maybe pushing yourself just a little bit further this time). You could even see how long you can keep doing this and just edge again and again until you can’t control it anymore and finally cum.

I don’t know what the right starting point for you is. I could imagine that you might want to start increasing the number of edges first in order to get used to controlling yourself and stopping in time. Once you think that you’re comfortable with that, try denying yourself…for example start with a manageable amount of edges in the morning and wait until the evening to give yourself an orgasm (or maybe just a few hours if that’s too hard in the beginning). Next, try to increase the denial period and/or number of edges.

Regarding an exact plan, I’m not sure what the right approach for you is…that’s for you to decide. Especially after hearing about your experiences so far, I could understand if you wanted to start on your own and explore how far you can push yourself. Needless to say, it’s easier when someone else is in control and tells you what to do (as long as that’s reasonable). I‘m of course more than happy to help with that if you need it 😉 (communication is easier if you dm me but it’s not a problem if you want to keep this anonymous)

And don’t worry too much about the occasional accidental orgasm…you’re still very new to this and need to learn how your body reacts. As long as you’re not doing it on purpose, I don’t see a reason for such harsh punishments 😉

I hope that this was helpful for you. Let me know how you get on with edging and denial. As this is public, maybe also let others know what helped you and if you have some other useful tips and ideas for starting off.

[toythrob]

really wish someone would tell me how many days i should stay denied and how many times i should edge…

Let’s start with a week of denial and at least 15 edges every day.

It’s hard for me to know if that’s enough or too much for you…but I guess that’s kind of your own fault. You got what you asked for 😉

Feel free to dm me. That would make it easier for me to give you more detailed instructions and feel out how much you can really take. But it’s of course also fine if you want to stay completely anonymous…in that case let me know when you’re finished and I might let you cum.

[toythrob]

I did edge twice but the third time i couldnt and went over the edge and didnt ruin my orgasm … sorry

If you can’t even control yourself for three edges, it’s probably best to put you on no touch for a day. I don’t see any other way to keep you from cumming. So no touching today.

Tomorrow, you should practice ruining your orgasm. No edges, just get yourself close once and stop touching once you go over the edge. This is what you should always do when you start cumming without permission.

If you can manage that, I might allow you a full orgasm after your ruin.

[toythrob]

I did my 10 edges, and just saw your reply. But I accidentally went over the edge 🥺 I’m sorry sir

Sorry, seems like I missed your response this time 😅

To me it sounds like you finished the edges like I told you and then went over the edge. In that case you did nothing wrong and got your well deserved orgasm.

Anyways, I think you should try again with a few more edges today.

This time I’m going to give you a choice…after you finish 20 edges, you can either stay denied for the day or you can practice what you should have done when you accidentally went over the edge, which is to ruin your orgasm. That means removing all stimulation right as you go over the edge. The choice is yours.

No matter how you choose, no full orgasms today. If you manage to follow my instructions this time, I might allow you to cum tomorrow.

[toythrob]

not your dms because this edgeslut is a little bit shy, but one of my biggest fantasies right now is being put on a brutal edging regiment and told to edge myself in public spaces,,, out at work? go to the bathroom and melt my brain with a few edges. shopping? go to a dressing room or private corner and drop my panties, edge in front of a mirror. roomies not home? cuff my hands behind my back and hump furniture like a pathetic bitch.

What a good girl. Those are some fantastic ideas.

In fact, why aren’t you doing exactly that already? I think a good edgeslut should use every chance she gets to edge. And you are a good edgeslut, aren’t you?

I want you to edge at least once every time you have to go to the bathroom, no matter where you are. If you’re already there, you might as well use the opportunity. So make sure to always stay well hydrated 😉

The same goes for dressing rooms. Edge at least once for every piece of clothing you put on. If possible, edge while you’re wearing it, otherwise right before you put it on. This should of course apply to your own clothes as well, so don’t forget to edge when you’re getting dressed again. (This might also be a fun idea in general to spice up your morning routine and start your day right)

I think it’s also a good idea for you to edge every time right before you have to leave the house. Only a quick edge before you pull up your panties and leave right away. Just to make sure that you’re wet and horny every time you go out in public and remember what a pathetic edgeslut you are.

I also really love the idea of you cuffing your hands behind your back and having to hump furniture to edge. If you’re not already doing that, you should have to do it every time your roommates aren’t home.

And if you’re a really good edgeslut, you can of course always do even more edges than required. But I hope that this is a good start to keep you occupied throughout the day. Have fun and let me know how you get on if you decide to live out this fantasy 😉

I shouldn’t have to say this but all of this only applies if you have the time to do it and it doesn’t interfere with anything important…I know that life gets in the way sometimes. Also make sure to stay safe and not get caught when you’re playing in public. For your own safety but also to not expose yourself to unconsenting others.

If you ever muster up the courage to dm me, I’m happy to chat and learn about all of your other kinks and fantasies 😉

[toythrob]

You know the rules baby. If you can’t keep your panties dry, you have to take them off.

What do you mean, it’s not fair? Just because I made you edge all day without letting you cum?

Now take your soaking wet panties off and give me 10 more edges. Still no cumming of course.

If you keep talking back, I’m going to gag you with them and give you a nice, hard spanking.

[toythrob]

How long have you been denied? What’s the longest you’ve ever been denied? How often do you edge?

I haven’t been put on denial cos my play partner whom I am not owned by but facilitates my denial has been very busy for the past couple months. I cannot be trusted to maintain denial on my own (because it’s too easy to tell myself “yes” where I am not being held accountable by anyone but myself and there are no repercussions for it). It’s too easy to give into my want to cum. And I do, but denial is also hot.

The longest I’ve been denied on purpose was 4-going-on-5 days. It was torture. I have been put on singular day denial a couple times since the last round with my play partner.

I don’t have edge sessions very often, unfortunately. I’d love to spend a day or even a few hours edging my brains out, but I’m usually either too tired or too limited on time. </3

I can understand that…life just gets in the way sometimes. For your play partner and for you as well.

If you need someone to hold you accountable, let me know. I‘ll gladly help you with that 😉

If you were able to finish the 10 edges, I will give you permission to cum. Otherwise, I’d like you to stay denied for today.