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@pretty-pink-puppy-kiwi

When you draw for someone and they set it as their profile picture

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Transfem couple needs help.

Hey Yall, I really don't want to have to do this this month again, but our funds are getting extremely tight and we had no luck finding jobs yet this july.

we need some help paying bills/food this month. Anything helps. Especially because of conversion rates, a small donation means the world to us.

we're trying our best to put ourselves out there and get gigs and secure jobs but the market is extremely dry. Again, anything helps us to stay on our feet and safe.

my paypal is also dogheavenplushies@gmail.com, if you would rather go through that.

thank you again and sorry for taking up your time edit: sorry to remake this post, but the embed broke and it lost a bunch of traction out of nowhere. We really need the help and we received a couple of donations, but we need a little bit more help.

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The world is a beautiful place

But we have to make it that way / And I am no longer afraid to die

If you're afriad to die then so am I

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happy pride to kris dreemurr

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as they should

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what you learn from hobbies:

consistent practice opens up whole worlds of skill that you couldn't imagine

making mistakes in the process of learning is not only natural, it is also essential

activities that you enjoy can give you more energy back than you spent on them

wow everything is so expensive

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They just do that

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the oversized joint my bf crocheted …. the cat loves smoking her joint

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Specter and Irene team bonding

Commission for an anonymous patron

[Bluesky]

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In my experience as a third culture kid who travels a lot the best indicator that you as a non-x is appreciating x culture is if the locals actively invite you to participate in it with them

Yes, you are allowed to buy those handmade Inuit winter clothes if an Inuk is literally selling them to you. They would not be offering you a price point if they didnt want you to buy and wear them. And you might discover that theyre the best winter clothes youve ever worn because of COURSE they would be if theyve kept this culture warm in harsh winters for thousands of years.

Yes, you are allowed to join those Cambodians in that local holiday theyre celebrating during your visit if they literally invited you to it. They would not have invited you if they didnt want you to participate. And in the process you might learn a lot about a culture you never wouldve interacted with and you can all have a laugh together about your clumsy but genuine attempts at getting your footwork right in one of their traditional dances.

Yes, you are also allowed to ask if you can participate in something from the local culture you are visiting. Sometimes you will get "sorry, thats a closed practice" but in my experience most of the time you'll get "of course, let me show you how to do this!" And in my experience people tend to appreciate when others make an active effort in sharing their culture and wont stone you to death if youre clumsy about it while youre learning. I guarantee that the local children doing all of this for the first time too make the same mistakes you do and they can tell if youre being disrespectful or genuine.

So much "cultural appropriation" discourse really starts to sound like "you cant participate or visit any other cultures if youre from a Colonial Culture and have to stay in your little box and never relate to other people"

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Specter and Irene team bonding

Commission for an anonymous patron

[Bluesky]

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a comic about dysphoria n femininity and junk

(pics of the hair on my personal insta @ iamjuliakaye lol)

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Blue State leftists will be like "my elected official's endorsement of minority rights was insufficiently enthusiastic, both parties are the same!" Meanwhile in a Red State your Facebook chats can be subpoenaed to convict you of the crime of accessing medical care.

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(Dex is owned by @ghoulcandy!)