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Go die zac your not trans go away bitch

Okay sure have a good day- Noa

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Maybe a stupid auestion, but I never know this and I actually want to know it (and also english is not my first language so I'm not that good with grammar and such ;P) but when someone uses they/them pronouns, do you also use "are" after that or "is" like "they are very nice" kr "they is very nice" because it is a singular pronoun so that would mean is but that just doesn't sound or seem right? Sorry and thank you!

Hey don't worry it's okay to ask! You actually have to say "they are" even if it's singular :)

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I came out to my best friend as genderfluid a while ago but I've discovered that I'm actually transmasculine. I go by they/them pronouns and she was cool with that, but I've recently become very comfortable with he/him pronouns and I refer to myself as a guy a lot now. I also want a name change but she's know me since I was 5 so I don't know how to tell her that. Question: How do I tell her that I'm not genderfluid but transmasculine and that I want a name change without overwhelming her?

Hey! If she was supportive of your first coming there shouldn't be much trouble doing it another time. Just explain that you've had time to experience different things and reflect on those things and now you know shat feels the best and most comfortable :)

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How to make a simple soft packer out of socks

This is something I’ve made for myself in the past but I thought that it might be useful for other people. The main advantage of this packer is that it is very easy to make and very easy to hide (you just disassemble it back into socks). It’s not too realistic but is much better than just stuffing socks randomly down your pants. It’s a good makeshift solution for people who can’t buy a packer or who are just exploring what makes them comfortable.

Supplies: 3 socks, a few rubber bands

1. Take two of your socks. Tie a knot in each of them at the toe end of the sock. Make sure there is not any sock hanging out of the end of the knot. These will be your testicles.

2. Fold over the tube end of one of the socks. Fold it over again “hot dog style” so it makes a cylindrical shape.

3. Take your other sock and fold it inside out over the cylinder you’ve created. This is now your penis. Your dick and balls might need some adjustment here to hang correctly, so pull on the balls or re-wrap the dick as needed. The penis part may also be a little puffy depending on what kind of socks you’ve used. You can fix this at the next step or you can put a rubber band around it now (this will make the penis harder, though.)

4. Put the whole thing inside of another sock. I used a tan sock here to approximate my skin tone; you can do that too if that’s important to you. Put the balls inside the toe end of the sock. You can turn the tube end inside out over the dick or wrap it around the dick tightly. I chose to wrap it around in this picture. Secure it with a rubber band. Again, if it’s too big or too puffy, you can use the rubber band to tighten it up a little.

5. This is what it looks like when it’s done. Put it in your pants. Since it’s made of socks you can secure it with a safety pin to your underwear if you want.

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Inbox is open again

Hey, it took time but i answered to all of the questions that were not very specific. Yhe inbox is now open again! Also please tell me if you wish for mor to stop replying on here since I don't identify with transmasc anymore.

- Noa x

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hello! i just got a new binder from gc2b, and i've been using it fairly regularly over the past couple of days. i never bind over 9 hours and i try to go easy on myself while i am binding, but i've noticed some soreness in my ribs. it almost feels like i've got a rubberband around the middle of my chest, and the the pain intensifies when i laugh. any idea as to what could be causing this? also, how can i alleviate the symptoms? thank you!!

Hey, this might be because the binder is too small for you! Try verifying your size and possibly chnaging it if it's too small.

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For anyone who wants to stp without buying a real stp because they're too expensive, I bought a "female urinal device" from amazon for just £5, I go into stalls in the male bathroom and pee standing up - it's done wonders for bathroom dysphoria and it's quite flexible so it fits in jeans pocket or even in boxers 👌🏽

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Okay i have a question,,,if i identify as a demiboy does that mean that i couldnt be dysphoric at all? Like i looked it up and it says being a demiboy you cant be dysphoric at all and like i do and im just r con fuse d

No, of course you can be dysphoric. If you are identifying with the definition of it, it means you are.

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Just a tip for those nb/ftm with acid reflux or heart burn: DO NOT were a binder if you do not need to! You will be so uncomfortable! It hurts! Please be safe!!!

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Hi Id like some help. Well, ive been trying to present as more masculine and pass for a while but its very hard because my mom refuses to let me shop in the men's section. She also doesnt allow me to cut my hair short What do i do

Hey! You can try going shopping without her or shop in the "women"'s scetion for things that look more masculine or unisex like flannels or oversized sweatshirts and stuff like that. Regardring your hair, you can either tuck it in a beanie or tie it back. You can also compromise with her and have your hair cut to shoulders, then to chin and every time you go to get a cut ask for something shorter and shorter.

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I feel VERY masculine but I don't want to get any surgery and I don't mind she/her pronouns. It varies if I get dysphoria or not but sometimes I get it really bad and I just want to cry becaus I don't have a binder. I'm not a cis female but I don't think I'll ever come out because I don't want surgery and sometimes i don't hate my boobs. am I still... not cis??? I feel uncomfortable calling myself a trans boy because I don't feel valid but I still feel like a boy. what do I do???

If you feel like a boy, you are one. Even if you don't mind your body or don't have social dysphoria, if you feel like a boy, you are!

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Just told my mom that I'm trans and that I'm ready to get started with T. However, she wants me to see a therapist who specializes in this sort of thing before I do anything "too drastic". I have been in therapy for a year now though. She's trying to understand the situation, but I'm also ready to start transitioning.

Hey, seeing a gender therapist is an important and manarory step to go on T so she is not that wrong! If the therapist you are seeing is already a gender specialist, maybe take your mom to one or two sessions :)

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Hi, I think I might be trans masculine (I am agender-ish) but I don't want to be on HRT or to get transition (I do bind however.) Am I still trans masculine?

Yes, being trans has to do with how you are feeling and how you perceive yourself, not about what you want to do to your body, you are definitly still valid!

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Hi has anyone legally changed their name in New Zealand (or using NZ law system) as well as having their gender legally changed, all of the legal technically terms are very confusing.

Anybody ?

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Is it safe to wear a binder under a compression shirt?my binder doesn't stay on right because It's big due to me being between sizes, the compression shirt keeps it in place and flattens more. I'm not in pain and no breathing issues but is this safe?

If the binder is too big for you then, it should be safe! But listen to your body and look out for soreness and bruises.

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Hey, i wanted to ask, if you use they/them as a singular pronoun, do you say themself or themselves? English is not my first language. Thanks.

I beleive you say theirselve but I am not a native speaker either, sorry :(

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Hi I'm a dutch trans guy and I'm starting T soon. Since I'm Dutch and very blonde (blue eyes etc) I was wondering wether or not I could still grow facial hair because that would be awesome :D

Hey, there is no reason for you not to be able to grow facial hair, hair color does not affect beard growth :)