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friendship breakups are lowkey the worst thing ever cause what do you mean this person I used to share every single detail of my life with is just gone

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Mi hijas… 😭😭😭

Utena pov:

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dance, monkey, dance!

[inspired by the poster for the 1918 harold lloyd short film two-gun gussie]

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this guy who i really enjoy <3

close ups !

also its been 2 years since i got into him .. wowza !! big day <3

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YEAH!!! I'M BACK HERE!!! HMM... I DISAPPEAR THEN I APPEAR :-)

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er

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i’ll never not think about how while recording a life in the world to come episode , will decided to do a bit on playing a rapper character and encouraged chris to have a rap battle with him , to which chris responded like “ ight , bet ” then proceeded to bring up the entirety of their ( at the time ) nine year long friendship and it apparently got so personal that they ended up having to restart the entire episode

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One of the main problems around people with personality disorders (particularly cluster B), psychotic disorders, OSDD/DID/other CDDs or other stigmatised mental conditions is, well... Everything we do gets put back onto our disorder. Every fault, every misstep, every mistake is used as proof to say that the stigma of us all being horrible people is right.

We can say "not everyone with x disorder harms people, and in fact we're more likely to BE harmed and abused than we are to hurt others" as much as we like--and of course, that's a true statement. But the moment someone with a stigmatised mental illness does something wrong, it's "of course you'd do xyz, you're a narcissist" or "checks out with the psychosis".

Someone with ASPD could cut someone off for any valid reason, but anyone else could spin it into "yeah, that's sociopaths for you". Someone with psychosis could wrongfully accuse someone of something and without being given a chance to apologise, suddenly it's "this is why we don't trust delusional people like you" and you're discredited from here on out. Someone with DID could genuinely forget that their alter had an argument with someone and be trying to sort it out, but no one wants to hear that something was forgotten in the amnesia, so and all they get is "see, people with DID just blame everything on their alters".

People with stigmatised disorders are just like anyone else. They're not evil or uniquely capable of harm, but that also means they're not incapable of making mistakes. Everyone is entitled to their own limits but I think people need to be more aware that disabled people can make genuine mistakes and one slip up or argument doesn't mean that pwNPD is secretly manipulating you. Sometimes people are manipulative and you need to be able to tell the difference--just like neurotypicals, disabled people can be abusive. But blaming mistakes or even genuine malice on someone's disorder does nothing but harm a marginalised group of people. If you wouldn't say "of course you would, you're neurotypical" to someone abusing someone else or if that wouldn't make sense to you, why would you do it to disabled people?

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"I WANT TO BE IN YR BRAINCELLS" tsb had yearning down to an art

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ARIEL NEEDS LEGS

I was gonna make Emmy draw this but she said no so I drew it myself.

I’ve never drawn a comic before!

edit: WATCH IN MOTION COMIC FORM

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🧬𝒪𝓃𝓁𝓎 𝓁𝒾𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓃 𝓉𝑜 𝓂𝑒, 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓃𝑒𝑒𝒹 𝓂𝑒🖤

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kangel

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don't worry about me, ever. nothing I ever do should ever be of any concern, I'll always be fine

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it's not a problem is no one sees it

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been embracing my apathy recently. stopit. no. don't do that. suppress it. push it down where nobody will notice it and it won't hurt anybody.

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Oh my gosh, what the hell happened to this year being my "golden era" I mean, jeez, this was supposed to be my healthy era! the calm before the storm that'll be the rest of my life