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[tsfander]

honestly crazy that you’re 26 and care so much about this lol, pleaaase keep going because it’s genuinely funny now

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

soo if someone doesn’t like something about a show, that gives you the right to be an asshole to them because their opinion is different than yours? that logic is fucked up. and dude i barely even use discord. what besties am i going to talk shit to 💀 legit nobody cares. nobody is making a fool of themselves, you’re just a dick who cares wayyyy too much over something stupid

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

ew 💀 don’t call me weird ass names, you’re like 8 years older than me. it was criticism. deal with it. i didn’t need your ‘help’ understanding anything, especially if you’re passive aggressive in the tags. i’m allowed to not like something. i already knew it was supposed to be bad. i just think it was a stupid ass video. damn LMFAOOO

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

chronically online behavior LMFAOOOO

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

if it made you feel better responding to my silly post trying to prove me wrong or change my opinion for no reason, then that’s good! hope you feel better /sarc

i’m allowed to not like something, thank you very much

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

how did we go from this

to this

not trying to stir up anything but it did make me cackle

[tsfander]

the real reason why i haven’t been posting:

i lost my pencil again lmao

[tsfander]

hey gang, ik it’s for the funny ha ha’s, but can we pls stop responding to this with really nsfw answers 💀 kinda weird ngl, love the enthusiasm tho LMAO??

What is he reading? (wrong answers only)

[tsfander]

An apparently unpopular opinion: disabled people can have and do their hobbies. They deserve to have fun. They deserve to live their lives.

Their inability to do some things (like work, for example) does not mean they should be judged for… idk hanging out with their friends or to going outside. After all, having interests outside of work is often essential to our mental and physical health OUTSIDE of our disability.

And also *you might want to sit down for this* disabled people know what’s disabling for them (unless they people-please or push through due to necessity or survival of some sort). Disabilities don’t have to be visible or persistent to be disabling.

So yeah - my declaration: if an activity you want to do feels good and you’re able to do it, then do it. REGARDLESS OF YOUR DISABILITY WITH OTHER THINGS.

[tsfander]

What is he reading? (wrong answers only)

[tsfander]

Intentions do not matter. This is why you are getting as much backlash as you are. All that matters is how your actions impacted somebody.

The only reason why people were afraid you would have committed suicide in the first place is because you explicitly brung it up for leverage. Otherwise, no one would have been afraid of something so severe over a misunderstanding. It doesn’t matter what happened- you should never, ever, use suicide as a way to gain the upper hand in an argument.

The only person receiving consequences is you, because you deserve them. So, perhaps take your own advice.

You do not understand where you went wrong, and this entire response shows that. Also, it shows that you only care about your public image, because all of this contradicts what you have said in your post on Instagram. Also, blocking me there for simply pointing out inconsistencies is not going to help with that.

Why did you threaten suicide about the RP situation? Are you going to apologize for that or just argue about the nitty gritty of hypnosis dubcon?

If you read my explanation, you will see that I do take accountability for my immature and petty reactions to the situation. That does include the suicide "threat". However, to clear it up, I did not view what I said as a threat. It was something my dad would call "killing a fly with a bazooka" It was a dramatic and unfair attempt at humanizing myself specifically after being told I was a disgusting person for being a r@pe victim by a mod.

While I cannot remember the exact wording, I said something similar to: "If I were to kill myself, do you still think your actions were justified?"

I understand now that it can be very scary to have someone seemingly threatening suicide, and I'm sorry for whoever was affected.

Despite this, I strongly believe that all parties involved should have chosen their words more carefully with the acknowledgement that everyone involved is simply human.

[tsfander]

“If I kill myself over this, would you still feel justified with the way you treated me?”

It doesn’t matter if you didn’t say this to someone directly, but it was still related to the situation. And, it was directed towards it publicly where people involved would see it. And, I hate to be the one to tell you this, but this is holding suicide over somebody to gain upper hand in the argument. It doesn’t matter if that was your intention or not. It was still threatening.

“-having this argument with a stranger online that could probably kill themselves over all this and I never would even know.”

You’re still holding suicide over somebody here. You’re insinuating the idea of killing yourself over the situation, which is a method of manipulation and is emotional abuse.

So, no. You should take accountability for saying this in its entirety, not just what you ‘feel like’ you should take.

Why did you threaten suicide about the RP situation? Are you going to apologize for that or just argue about the nitty gritty of hypnosis dubcon?

If you read my explanation, you will see that I do take accountability for my immature and petty reactions to the situation. That does include the suicide "threat". However, to clear it up, I did not view what I said as a threat. It was something my dad would call "killing a fly with a bazooka" It was a dramatic and unfair attempt at humanizing myself specifically after being told I was a disgusting person for being a r@pe victim by a mod.

While I cannot remember the exact wording, I said something similar to: "If I were to kill myself, do you still think your actions were justified?"

I understand now that it can be very scary to have someone seemingly threatening suicide, and I'm sorry for whoever was affected.

Despite this, I strongly believe that all parties involved should have chosen their words more carefully with the acknowledgement that everyone involved is simply human.

[tsfander]

You do not take accountability in an acceptable way in your explanation. Refer to my comment on your Instagram post for specifics about this.

It does not matter how you personally view a threat. No one cares about your father’s sayings. If you’re going to make claims attempting to back up holding suicide over someone, you should provide proof, especially since you had never spoken of being called disgusting for being a r@pe victim and is only being brought up to justify something wrong that you did. Again, as I said in my comment: Trying to gain sympathy to justify your actions is not an acceptable way to take accountability.

Again, you are using deflective language. “-scary to have someone seemingly threatening suicide.” You are the only one who thinks it was not as big of a deal as it was. Downplaying it with words like this, simply because you personally view a threat differently, shows that your apology is not genuine and that you don’t fully understand the impact saying something like that can cause. If you’re attempting to apologize, at least say their name. Be direct.

I agree, everyone could have done things differently. But this is about you holding suicide over somebody as a way to gain upper hand. That was the ask.

Why did you threaten suicide about the RP situation? Are you going to apologize for that or just argue about the nitty gritty of hypnosis dubcon?

If you read my explanation, you will see that I do take accountability for my immature and petty reactions to the situation. That does include the suicide "threat". However, to clear it up, I did not view what I said as a threat. It was something my dad would call "killing a fly with a bazooka" It was a dramatic and unfair attempt at humanizing myself specifically after being told I was a disgusting person for being a r@pe victim by a mod.

While I cannot remember the exact wording, I said something similar to: "If I were to kill myself, do you still think your actions were justified?"

I understand now that it can be very scary to have someone seemingly threatening suicide, and I'm sorry for whoever was affected.

Despite this, I strongly believe that all parties involved should have chosen their words more carefully with the acknowledgement that everyone involved is simply human.

[tsfander]

Hey, y’all! I made a separate account for some of my other fandom / miscellaneous art. So, if you’re interested in any of that, the tumblr is @tsfanderafterhours !!

[tsfander]

Hey, guys!! I wanted to let y’all know that I probably won’t be making Sanders Sides art or uploading on here for a while. I’ve been incredibly stressed recently trying to move out, cutting contact with a parent, starting college, and my own medical issues. Drawing is an outlet for me and my own coping mechanism, but it’s also been stressing me out because I’ve been beating myself up over not drawing Sanders Sides as much as I used to. So, I’m trying to get rid of the feeling that I HAVE to, and just draw what I want. I might make a second Tumblr for my other works, but I haven’t decided, yet. My commissions are still open for Sanders Sides related art, though. Just wanted to let y’all know :) I’ll be back 😼🫶🏻

[tsfander]

don’t!!! fake!!!! your!!!! interests!!!! to!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

[tsfander]

this was so cute and fun!!!

tagging - @ax3-e0ns @vixven @princeofmisfortune @logan-the-artist

found a fun little personality test!

i am open tagging as always bc i wanna see everyone’s results!!!!!!