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fuck it. grass on my blog for touching

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trans girls who reject and deny all compliments given to them: i understand, i really do. However. at a certain point you simply have to stop. you cannot hate yourself into a version of yourself that you love. and pushing away the love people try to give you only hurts you both. fake it till you make it, girl, the more you let people love you the more lovable you will begin to see yourself as.

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tip: your plushies can come under your blankies with you!

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do you think this is how he got the blood

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do you think this is how he got the blood

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do you think this is how he got the blood

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obsessed with this video

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scariest and most dangerous birds. ever

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This is paining me

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jevil plays minecraft toby fox told me himself

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burgers are awesome. so are pussies. so you'd think something called the "borgussy" is something very good, but according to my friend Karl Marx such is not the case.

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Guys ive been reading peak

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and im supposed to, what, fuck the house?

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People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.

I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.

I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.

(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)