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I miss THEM, every day I go on with my life but the emptiness is getting deeper. That's it.

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My love,my life,my everything!

You smf,happy birthday 😘

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Jungkook recording Letter ♥️

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Now lookie here why don't we?

Tae IG 3 October 2023

Vminkook everyone...

Could he not put the two of them in one goddamn frame, for god friggen sake?

Omg, this year is just killing me.

We see they are all there together.

How about a photo together, eh Tae?

So Vminkook were in Jeju together.

And once again folks.

If Tae wouldn't have posted, we wouldn't have known they were on a trip together.

If Tae wouldn't have posted either or of these photos, as in only one of them, and without any explanation, we wouldn't have known that the other was there with them.

NOT SEEING SOMETHING DOES NOT MEAN IT DID NOT HAPPEN.

Also, kind of doubt they were all sleeping in same bed like Tae likes to do with Wooga. Just saying.

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What is going on with Jimin, Jungkook and Jikook?

Warning: long post

I've been a BTS fan since early 2017. Back in the day, I ran this blog here, analyzing a lot of Jikook moments, but life sort of took over, and I stopped having the time for it. However, I never stopped being a fan and observing BTS and Jikook through the years. There's a lot said and written already about the supposed video of JK, but here are my two cents.

To me, the most logical explanation for that video is that this really is Jungkook. The layout of the apartment matches (yes, even the position of the security system, if you have ever watched JKs lives, you'd know that it actually is at his shoulder height, just like in the video), the dog looks like Bam, the couch is the same and this definitely looks like JK. There's also another video of the man in this apartment, alone, shirtless, and having a whole tattoo sleeve on his right arm just like JK. Obviously, we don't know for sure, but it looks like it's him. People say it was filmed in late Feb, early March, and I agree. JK had the same hair then, the outfits look warm, like winter clothes and not to forget, that when JK was stalked in his gym (late of February) there were a lot of fuss about a girl being there with him, so it all checks out in my book.

Now, what the video shows isn't that scandalous. A boy hugging a girl from behind and them playfighting/tickling each other or whatever. It isn't overly explicit. It could mean a lot of things, but it's clear the people are at the very least physically comfortable with each other. It's a short video. We don't know if they're even alone, but it looks like it. There are a number of possibilities for whom this person is to JK: a long-time girlfriend, a casual hook-up, a one night stand, or just a friend.

We'll probably never know for sure. What we do know is that this is an unacceptable invasion of privacy, and the person who took those videos should be sued for all they are worth. I hope we all agree on that, yes?

Now, if this girl is someone JK is dating/has dated/has slept with, where does that leave his and JM's relationship?

In my eyes, as someone who's observed them for literal years now, there's no way JM and JK have always had a strictly platonic relationship. Too much just doesn't add up. Sure, technically, they could be bestest friends with great chemistry, but as someone who is now 30 years old, I don't think I've seen this type of chemistry between people ever be just platonic. At times, it looked too much like sexual tension for it to easily be dubbed as "friendly".

My theory is this (keep in mind these are still just assumptions):

In 2017-2020, pre-Covid era, JM and JK spent A LOT of time together, basically all of it. BTS were super active, they didn't have any breaks. They were always working. Always on tour and doing smth else. JM and JK were pretty young back then (20-24) and this is typically the time when someone discovers their sexuality and starts experimenting, and I believe that at some point they did this together. They were best friends but also had this weird tension and air around them and I think they could've started a physical relationship back then. The members teasing them hear and there about being a couple, also kind of supports this, though of course, it doesn't prove anything.

Contrary to other people, I don't belive they only just fucked. It's very hard to have sex with someone who you are very close to otherwise, who you love and admire as a person, and not catch romantic feelings for them, so I think they did more than fucking. Whether they had a serious relationship or decided not to label it much, due to MS coming up, the group being in jeopardy or other reasons, I tend to think that other than sex, they also had feelings.

Side note: In any case, they were figuring thinks out about themselves as individuals, as well as a pair. I think maybe this is the time JM realized he is definitely bisexual (which he proudly expressed in his photobook of last year in my opinion). Idk what Jk figured out for himself, if anything.

Anyhow, by 2020‐2021 it seemed they had some sort of agreement about what/who they were to each other. At times they could have been on and off. There might have been other people/partners in-between, but I think they were mainly together by this point. It even looked like they lived together for some time. The fact they always took the same car and they were together on JKs birthday night when they first had number 1 on hot 100 sort of proves it. JM's birthday live in 2021 was also sus af (the way he was blushing while mentioning JK and their whole convos, very sus).

I think before Covid they had smth somewhat stable but then Covid hit. Their schedules changed, it was a tough period overall. Suddenly, they were not working and traveling so much, they were staying in SK. I think this was the time things started getting much more real and different. MS was also in the near horizon. Maybe one of them wanted a more committed relationship, and the other wasn't ready. Maybe they were both afraid. Maybe they tried and it didn't really work out. Maybe one finally realized his sexuality and the other had doubs. Whatever it was, the feelings of affection were still there. Chemistry as well. Proof: JM bday live in 2021 was just crazy, the way he blushed when JK was mentioned and the way the spoke to each other... man. Also, the way the were at PTD L.A. The way JK answered questions about JM etc.

So , all that connected them as people was still there, but I think their relationship come late 2021-early 2022 was definitely more unstable. Who knows what happened then. Personally, I don't believe in the theory that they opened their relationship, rather I believe by the second half of 2022, due to whatever reasons, things were simple mostly off between them. I believe they stayed this way all through the second half of the year and at least the first 4 months of 2023. They were friends, their families still loved and supported each other (JK's mom made seaweed soup for JM's bday, which one does for family) but that's about it. They weren't living together anymore, as well.

The beginning of 2023 we saw a very busy JM and a very not busy JK. Sure, they still commented on their welives but it seemed they didn't meet each other that often. Jm was working, JK was at home and occasionally with Tae. Yeah, JK watched a lot of JM content and often invited him over, but he also didn't know when his promotions will be over and it seemed they haven't seen each other for some time and JK was missing JM. I think if they truly were a serious couple back then, they would still have found the time to meet each other no matter how busy one or the other was, especially considering they live in the same city, and it wasnt the case. I don't think JK would have to resort to watching hours of JM's content just to satisfy his need-for-JM thirst, if they were a couple back then.

So, yeah, I think they were not more than friends by this point, for sure, which also ties up pretty well with the timing of the recent leaked video (February-March). To me it seems that JK and JM probably saw other people in that period, at least JK, JM was pretty damn busy then. Maybe they had some serious partners even, maybe just hook-ups here and there. Maybe this was JK's time to explore more of his heterosexual side, who knows. I don't think he stopped caring for JM in some capacity. In fact it kind of looked like he longed for his company but for one reason or another, they were simply not that much in each other's lives in the first quarter of 2023.

But then something weird happened around June-July. First JM is all scratched up from something (presumably Bam) indicating he saw JK and spent time with him. Then Seven came out and JM flew to NY. There they spend a long, fun weekend amid promotions. It wasn't a secret but they seemed to want to keep private and didn't really want to talk about it , judging by the way JK answered the question about JM being in NY as well. JM was practically silent. Then they returned and that welive happened. The one where they openly flirted, JM said he could handle JK naked, JK blushed like a school girl and tried everything in his power to get to JM but JM said "I'm not that easy". That welive. Idk about you, but that welive didn't seem platonic to me at all and if I had been JK's partner at the time, I would definitely be very angry with his behaviour. I don't think JK is disrespectful and a cheater, and neither is JM for that matter, so I believe there's no way any of them had a partner when that welive happened. I simply refuse to belive they are that type of people.

So, my conclusion is they were both single then and something definitely happend in July and NY. They returned somewhat different and they still kind of are. Jk posted pics of NY to Twitter for the first time. Jm shared a pic from then for JKs bday (shirtless, as we all know) and then recently another pic from a boat that could have been from back then, as well. The whole way they're acting offline and online strangely reminds me a lot of the time after their trip to Tokyo, actually. The way JM has been posting about JK very much give me nostalgia about the way he used to post Jikook often in 2017-2018 before he withdrew from social media. But maybe that's just me 🤷‍♀️

Anyway, to finish this long post I will say this. I don't know what Jikook were and are to each other and unless, it is explicitly denied the person in the video is JK, I will believe that it's him. But also, unless it is confirmed he currently has a girlfriend, I will have my doubts. The video is old and in any case, it doesn't prove much other than the fact JK is maybe into women (solely or also into them). This video though doesn't automatically negate everything I've seen between Jikook through the years. In some ways, it confirms what I've been thinking for a long time now. Unless JM and JK personally shut down any rumors about them and deny any romantic connection or confirm a relationship with someone else , I still believe that at some point in their lived their relationship crossed the platonic line.

Whether that was in the past or is currently true, I only can guess, but to me there's no way these two were always, all these years, just only friends.

For now, I will observe how JK, JM and Hybe are acting after the leaked videos and go from there. It will also be indicative.

Peace.

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It's just overwhelming for me,I want them safe and happy, SAFE!!!

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I need Jimin, I need my Jimin ,I miss him!!!

Isn't enough?

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A promise is a promise.

Love you with all my heart,see you later on, stay strong, stay healthy. I'll try to pursue some personal goals, it's hard but I'll try. 💜

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I think Jungkook is doing some "fandom cleanse" by himself. We can obviously have our own opinions and considering that we are a huge number of fans, we will of course have a wide nuance of those but he clearly drew his own path. Since February in all the lives he did, he expressed his own feelings: he was sincere and raw and at this point I think that a lot of fans have missed his message, his words or choose to plain ignore what don't fit them. Maybe we were overwhelmed by his cuteness or his sexiness that we probably didn't listen to his words but only stare at him through the screen, yet he said things and did things. Is what we saw healthy? I think it's not but his whole life,his lack of sleep, his messed up daily routine isn't neither. He isn't perfect because he is human but we want badly draw him as perfect in our minds and put him on a pedestal and worship him. It's always about what WE want and never about respect and realization that even them can make mistakes. We pretend to know him through the screen in those few hours/months he opens the live as if he didn't live his life once he turns off his phone. I'm a human too, I make mistakes and my life is far away from perfection and I'm eagerly waiting for his next move, his next step, his music, his words, his new choreography, his goofiness, his sexiness, his short hair, his next dishes, his karaoke, his vacuum cleaner, his giggles, his half naked bedroom live. I want it all, because I love him and his imperfect talent and his imperfect life. Saying "he's a red flag,I'm glad my bias isn't" it's bullshit for all the things I wrote above and honestly? fvck off, Jungkook does not need you because HE SAID IT CLEARLY IN HIS LONDON LIVE!

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Where is Jungkook? 🥲

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I appreciate how Jungkook, over the years, has made some things very clear, what he likes and what not. He put boundaries but not regarding a specific topic that he continues to add in his discourses.

Certain people don't like it.

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Few days ago I was thinking about a moment at the Harry Stile's concert when Taehyung put his hand/touched/rubbed Jungkook's head

Do you know when this 💡happens in your head? Well, I think now I fully understand his gesture, a mix of reassurance and acknowledgment ☺️

I've read a good post here, but I don't remember who wrote it

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How my mind revolves around BTS almost 24/7.

I was driving, stopped at a boring traffic light, I learned from twitter that Jungkook has been in Busan recently. "Ohh how cute" I say to myself "he wants to spend some time with his family for his birthday!"

My mind: birthday--> Busan--> Jimin--> seaweed soup.

So, Jungkook’s mom actually made his son seaweed soup in honor of Jimin’s birthday, last year, right?? probably she knew how much his son cares about him and wanted him to be...happy??

We also remember the embarrassed reaction of the guys in front of this TMI confessed by Jungkook during the live…well, Jungkook is really unfiltered when he thinks of Jimin.

So, back to the seaweed soup, it was really an unusual gesture, wasn’t it?

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I believe Jungkook’s love language is through music. I’ve posted before about songs he has listened to during Lives and read through the lyrics.

I’m always dumbfounded how they pertain to Jikook as a couple, imo. I suppose they don’t to y/n’s, but I do believe he chooses with certain things in mind.

He knows how ARMY will over analyze and he knows how things will be perceived. This time he didn’t even play any music. But he sang just enough of a particular song that we could pick up on it. And lo and behold, it fits.

The song is really cute.

The lyrics though 🫠🫠

Jungkook is a genius. And he super happy lately.

Who’s got you smiling like that, BRO?!?! 😏

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The last wlive was one of the strong ones that leave their mark, an inside or out.

Many things said, some in a playful tone, others in a more firm and decisive way.

Jungkook well clarified his point of view, and left room in his heart only for those who truly love him. For the uninterested others, the door is closed.

He explained what he would like to see in us armys, how we should behave in a face to face. Incurable romantic,Jungkook, a utopian.

Some words shook me personally so much that I almost decided to deactivate my twitter account and delete any bangtan related traces on my phone and in my life. Why? It's complicated.

Now I'm waiting for the subtitles for a more complete trip inside his head. Meanwhile, a big hug, Jungkook!

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Thinking.

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You mean the world to me.

I don't need to write paragraphs about the love and appreciation I have towards you as artists and humans. My love is quite as I am in my real life.

Have a good life, my beloved Jimin and Jungkook ♡