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Normalize taking care of men. Normalize holding and kissing them when they’re sad and just because. Normalize doing nice things for them. Normalize genuinely listening to them when they’re upset. Normalize complimenting them and telling them you love and appreciate them. Normalize taking care of your man the same way you would want him to take care of you.

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yes cowboy your masculinity is perfectly balanced between instinctive and performative now can you please bruce springs-clean your room

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a thread about a thing that keeps happening for some reason that I am still wildly unqualified for

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LOVE is….

Stylish

Innovating 

Forward

Cute

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LOVE is…

Comforting

Fit

Protective 

Adorable 

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Love is…

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LOVE is…

Unapologetically BLACK

Cultured

Inspiring 

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dating is supposed to be empowering. it’s supposed to make you feel good. it should be about two people, enthusiastically wanting to get to know each other and spend time together. it’s supposed to make you feel good and add joy and fun to your life

if talking to/dealing with/dating/getting to know a person isn’t like that, it’s probably a waste of time

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I want to bake with him! I wanna go to the store and buy everything we need for his favorite dessert and then get home and get confused by the recipe together so we just end up winging it and hope we do well, we can make a mess togther and then clean it up when they’re in the oven and cuddle until we hear the timer go off and giggle while almost buring ourselves on the hot pans

(( I hope this is alright idk if I like it but it’s a cute idea ;w; ))

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i know we talk a lot about yearning and romance, but reminder that gay men are allowed to be sexual. you are allowed to find men hot, to have sex with other men, and take pride in your sexual expression. it doesn’t make you dirty, or shallow. you have nothing to be ashamed of

mlm & nblm only, everyone else dont touch

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what if we held hands at spirit halloween

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pretty sure if a boy called me his boy i would die on the spot 

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I would like to join the bisexuals with swords club

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if ur in an ldr just know that you and ur partner(s) look at the same moon every night

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Here’s a hot freaking take guys but nobody gets to tell anybody else how they experience themselves. Somebody has a gender you don’t understand? Tough. That’s how stuff works sometimes. I don’t understand French but the language still exists.

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I want that “drive safe,” kind of love, the “let me know if you need anything” kind of love, the “text me when you get there” kind of love, the “this made me think of you” kind of love, the “how was your day” kind of love, the “have fun, be safe” kind of love, the “good luck today” for something I only mentioned in passing kind of love, the “have a good day” kind of love, the “I remember you said you liked this so I got it for you” kind of love, the little ways of saying I love you without saying I love you kind of love.