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One thing a lot of white woman don’t do is step back from a situation they’ve have themselves misinterpreted.
They may have done or said something wrong and even though they realize it, they don’t apologize. They keep on trying to defend themselves because they get offended and refuse to actually see the situation from a full perspective. Especially in situations where it has to do with people of color calling them out on racism.
So my thing is, if white women are true allies, and they get called out on something racist—then instead of having a flip out they need to apologize and or explain themselves. And furthermore take a step back.
It’s so easy to step back and say “I didn’t understand x and I jumped to the gun” instead of acting out a certain way and making yourself out into a victim.
Like so many white women miss this and I hate how they never learn.
If you screw up it’s so easy to apologize. I’ve done it before, tons of women of color have. I don’t see why white women can’t do the same.
If you’re in the Dallas area this man has an std. won’t inform anyone about it and is abusive.
He sent death threats to one of my loved ones and put his hands on her among other things after we found out he was cheating on her w/ 6,
6, other women. He also goes to Atlanta from time to time.
If you see him stay away
We went to the cops but they really weren’t much help but I no one else should have to deal with him