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STOP THINKING THERE IS A DEADLINE. THERE IS NO DEADLINE. TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND TAKE YOUR TIME.

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being uncomfortable becomes easier when you realize that’s literally the point. it’s like working out. if you work out & it becomes easy for you, you already got all you could out of that workout. your body adjusted & is strong enough to handle it now. you’re not improving anymore. that’s why you up the ante with harder workouts, where you’re uncomfortable & not quite strong enough yet. bc eventually you will be strong enough. but if it’s not a challenge, there’s no gain. & that’s exactly how it is with situations out of your comfort zone. the more you put yourself in them, the easier they get—but that in-between phase where you’re struggling is still completely valid and ok and natural. it’s what’s supposed to happen. it’s what’s going to change you as a person. and you should keep doing it

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New F/O just dropped - and by that I mean resurfaced from my childhood brain :

Ganondorf my beloved (◡‿◡✧) ❣...

Oh to be his smol malewife / pet consort, to be spoiled with all kinds of luxuries possible, to be held in his strong arms in a warm embrace, to feel cherished and protected (>///<✧) ❤️✨

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Yearning for my F/Os right now. I want to be hugged so bad.

Just...Feeling comfort and love. Without fearing that it'll go away.

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I want to make a cuddle pile with all my F/Os :3 ❣

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Random proselfship positivity!!

💙 Shout out to those who don't own any merch of their F/Os! Your F/Os know how loved they are and having a place in your heart is more than enough for them

☄️ Shout out to those who selfship in secret! Your F/Os want your safety more than anything, they don't mind that only the two of you know about each other

💙 Shout out to those who don't publicly share who their F/Os are! Your F/Os only have eyes for you and they don't need the attention of anyone else

☄️ Shout out to those who see symbolisms of their F/Os everywhere in everything! Your F/Os are always happy to give you little reminders of their presence

💙 Shout out to yandere selfshippers! Your F/Os wouldn't know what to do without you, they need you to keep them safe and loved

☄️ Shout out to those who have a non-wholesome relationship with their F/Os! Regardless of what your feelings towards one another are, you're valid!

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Spicy-brained friends, I would like to propose an update to the very useful ‘if you hate everyone, eat, if everyone hates you, sleep, and if you hate yourself, shower’ mantra to live by

Have you suddenly become a petty, hateful little gremlin who thinks people should face the firing squad for (checks notes) leaving teabags on the counter, breathing loudly, or daring to exist in the same space as you? Perhaps mundane and reasonable requests like ‘hey, we agreed to hang out now, let’s hang out’ make you want to scream and move to a yurt in the woods.

You. Are. Overstimulated.

People talk a lot about being overstimulated, and the physical/mental effects of it. What I haven’t seen is people talking about what it does emotionally, and it took me an embarassingly long time to link up those nitpicky, resentful emotions with the state of overstimulation/meltdown/shutdown.

These feelings do not mean that you’re a bad person! They probably aren’t how you actually feel about the people around you. They probably do mean that your nervous system is at its absolute limit and any request/demand/stimulus is Too Much and taking you into fight or flight territory.

Go lie down in a dark room for an hour, or find somewhere safe and familiar to stim for a bit. If it’s happening a lot, schedule yourself regular low-stimulation shutdown time

Signed: someone who moved in with their nearest and dearest only to have a massive crisis of faith about Suddenly Hating All of Them. I don’t hate them, it’s just overstimulating living with people. If I can spare anyone else a similar 9 months of suspecting that they may actually be a bit of a shit person, then this post is worth it!

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Yearning hard for Donatello Versus... Again 🥺❤️✨

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I... I like the idea of Mohg being a yandere for me (>///<✧)👉👈❤️✨...

I'm his and his alone. He doesn't want to let anyone approach me hurt me, and he keeps me by his side at all time. He spoils me with riches of all kinds, tells me *how much* he loves me, calls me his dearest, his darling, his precious tresor, his beloved, his adorable lambkin.

Only thing he won't grant me is letting me go away from him - but I never want to leave anyway.

I don't mind living in a golden cage if it means we're together (◡‿◡✧) ❣

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i think the funniest and realist thing i’ve realized lately is how troubling idealization can be. every person is just… a person. the very people you want to impress or be apart of are just people. even if they seem wildly intimidating because of the way they look or because of their reputation, every one is just a person. human. as embarrassing, as remorseful and they are going through stages of growth just like you are. we only see what we want to see and then drown ourselves further in our own depression and we don’t have to.

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One of the most important survival skills as an adult is internalising the idea that other people being rude or dismissive towards you for no apparent reason, is most often a reflection of their problems (shitty attitude, bad day, work stress, family stress) and usually has nothing to do with you.

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I'm yearning so much for him (>///<✧) ❣

Oh, to hold him in my arms 🥺❤️✨

he can keep my runes if he wants. i don't mind

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Bro your F/O TOTALLY would accept you irl, in fact they'd do their best to integrate you in their group. Like...

They'd show you what they like. Explain private jokes to you. Bring your fav food and go to your fav places when you hang around together. And when you feel overwhelmed they'd try their best to help you.

Some of them *cough cough Ungalo for exemple* aren't super good with feelings and knowing what to do with it, but I feel like they'd still know how to help, somehow (maybe in a roundabout way ?)

Like in Ungalo's case : he'd say a dumb shit but it's actually very comforting and reassuring, while at the same time it's allowing your mind to not overfocus on the overwhelming stuff & anxieties.

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I just don't see any of your F/O NOT wanting to present you to their friends. And no way they'd be friends with people that are mean to you / ignore you - then they wouldn't be their friends to begin with. That's like rule number 1, "no jerks to my S/O Ellie".

Plus your the most important person in your F/O's life, the friends heard so many good things about you ! And if your F/O(s) didn't talk a lot about you (in case you have a silent / secretive / shy ect.. F/O), well... you bet the friends are still going to be hyped about you as soon as they see you !

Just judging by the way your F/O look at you, the friends can tell that you're awesome, and they're happy their friend have someone in their life that brings them so much happiness !

I just know y'all are going to vibe well with eachothers (◠‿◠✧) ❤️✨!

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Source : it's canon. Every authors / creators that ever existed and will ever exist whispered it in my ears (I live in their walls - all of them. At the same time. I transcended myself into an omnipresent quantic being through the power of selfshipping and friendship /hj)

I honestly can't help but have doubts that ANY of my F/Os would actually care for me irl because I'm just. Yeah. Not used to being accepted into a friend circle or even being talked to.

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I am worthy of feeling my feelings. I get to ask question and say if something is making me uncomfortable. I can cry and be angry. I can be disappointed in people that I love. I can choose to forgive someone even if they have hurt or disappointed me but I also can choose not to.

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