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Isang Pagkakataon

Sa bawat patak ng oras, ako'y nauubos.

Hindi mawaring isipin kung kumusta ka.

Iniisip mo ba ako? O ako lang ba ang nahulog?

Pilit kong itinatanim sa aking isipan na huwag magmadali.

Hayaan ang tadhanang gumawa ng paraan. Bigyang respeto ang tamang pagkakataon. Huwag nating pilitin.

Ngunit kasabay ng pagkumbinsi sa sariling huwag mangialam, nahahati ang aking isipan upang gumawa ng unang hakbang.

Ano nga bang mapapala ko kung hindi ako kikilos? Subalit sasagi sa isip ang posibilidad na mawala ka dahil sa mapupusok kong gawi.

Isang malaking palaisipan ang pag-ibig.

Hindi ito para sa mga mahihina ang puso.

Hindi ito para sa mga taong mabilis mahulog at madaling masaktan.

Minsan napapaisip ako kung bakit pa ba natin ito ginagawa?

Sa dinami-dami ng hirap, sakripisyo, at sakit nitong dulot, talaga bang may patutunguhan?

Sa tagal ng panahong ginugol kong mag-isa, naliwanagan ako sa aking halaga.

Karapat-dapat ako sa pagmamahal na buong-buo at mapagpalaya.

Ngunit, tangina naman. Bakit ganito kahirap mahanap?

Akala ko madali. Iwinaksi ko lahat ng hadlang na maaari kong malampasan.

Ginawan ng paraan at isinaayos ang sarili.

Pagkalingon ko'y ako bigla ang nahuli.

Halos lahat ng aking mga kasabayan nagkaroon na kani-kanilang katambalan.

Ang malas ko naman.

Bakit ako na lang ang hindi nabigyan? Hanggang sa dulo ba ay ganito pa rin?

Parusa ba ito sa salang hindi ko namalayang gawin?

Diyos ko, ano bang magagawa ko?

Anong ginawa ko upang maranasan ito?

Hindi naman sa pagdadrama.

Ang nais ko lamang ay isang makakasama. Iyong makakausap sa araw-araw nang walang sawa.

Iyong magbibigay sa akin ng atensyon at alaga. Ngunit kasabay nito, ako'y handa rin

Na isauli ang pagmamahal na aking nagkakandarapang kunin.

Isang pagkakataon lang po upang magsimula muli ang puso

Makadama ng pagmamahal na tapat at totoo

Makakaasa kayong hindi ko ito isusuko

Anoman ang pagsubok na aming matamo

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TUMBLR ASK GAME ANON OR NOT.

1. Who was the last person to call you baby/babe? 2. Anyone crushing on you? 3. What is your relationship status? 4. Has anyone ever sang to you? 5. Has anyone ever given you roses? 6. Who do you text the most? 7. First person to text today? 8. What color are your eyes? 9. What is a compliment you receive often? 10. Who was the last person to say they loved you and when? 11. Do you like your parents? 12. Do you secretly like someone? 13. Why did your last relationship end? 14. Who was the last person you said you loved on the phone? 15. Who was the last person you kissed? 16. Do you like funny people or serious people? 17. What are you listening to? 18. Is the last person you kissed older than you? 19. Are you happy right now? 20. If you could have one thing right now what would it be 21. Who makes you happiest right now? 22. Do you want to get married & have children one day? 23. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? 24. How many girlfriends/ boyfriends have told you they love you? 25. Have you ever thought that you were going to marry a person? 26. Are you crushing on someone? 27. Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt? 28. Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry? 29. Are you happier single or in a relationship? 30. Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn’t mean it? 31. Have you ever had your heart broken? 32. Have you ever broken someone’s heart? 33. If you could go back in time and change things, would you? 34. Think any of your ex’s feel the same? 35. Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend? 36. Have you dated people who were not good to you? 37. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? 38. Do you believe in love at first sight? 39. Ever been given an engagement ring? 40. Do you want to get married? 41. Has anyone ever told you they wanted to marry you? 42. Ever liked someone else’s boyfriend or girlfriend? 43. Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds? 44. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up with you? 45. Would you believe your ex if he/she said they love you? 46. Would you ever date your best male/female friend? 47. If your best friend of the opposite sex went out with someone you knew was wrong for them would you speak up? 48. Do you regret any of your relationships? 49. Would you date an ex? 50. Ask anything.

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His heart came to me.

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Do you want to sleep together tonight?

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— ABHIJIT NASKAR

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Stop breaking your own heart by exaggerating your place in other people's lives

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and yes, i am a feminist. but that isn’t why i started doing this.

deap vally x stranger things

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I get so jealous because I know how easily replaceable I am.

I’m nothing special (via makethisalifetime)

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Ironically, I am the master of my own thoughts but a slave of my own emotions.

perhaps the greatest irony anyone could ever feel; srk-adapted. (via ianlanz)

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get rid of him. i mean it. you will absently check your phone without meaning it, so leave it behind and go sit outside. stack rocks on each other and pretend you’re burying your love alive. leave it there. be sad, but don’t listen to adele or you’ll take him back. blast breakup music. burn your hair with bleach, cut it, whatever. revel in the fact nobody asks you “but will he like it?” who gives a shit. know when you’re overdoing it. know that it’s not a race and some people don’t heal as fast as others, maybe you’re a turtle kind of person, keep your insides soft and when something gets in that shell it fucking hurts. get rid of him. sew up the missing parts with better things. they’ll feel empty at first. that’s okay. that’s okay. empty doesn’t mean endless. it means more room for new things. you’re okay if you’re still upset a year later about things. you’re okay if when you think of him you’re on the verge of crying. just don’t think about him. delete him from your phone if not only to be able to say “sorry who dis” if he ever texts. it’s not about winning the breakup, fuck that, just come home when you can. if he burned everything of course he’s going to win, he fucked you over to begin with; so don’t worry he’s got a new girlfriend and a new job and a nice car. you had to start from scratch. had to plant trees in ashes. if you’re alive that’s a good thing. he tried to kill the loving parts of you and you’re still growing. get rid of him, don’t worry that when you saw him you were in sweats and a dirty shirt. you’re a person who has been entirely hurt. you don’t have to prove you are doing better. you just have to exist without him. my mother always said being happy is the best revenge. so get rid of him. be happy. know that you had literally nothing and you still made it out in the end.

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How terrible is it to be called beautiful, smart and strong but end up being alone every night.

Bird Brain (via jasfuckinq)

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Lost some people I never in the slightest thought that I’d lose, but that’s okay. It hurts, yes, but I don’t want people to stick around with me just because it’s a waste of the good times in the past when they see me as a burden. I don’t want to be friends with people who prove to be weak against the test of time.