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i don't know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can't hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can't repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.

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ceramic matcha bowls by mimikiko.home

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PLASTIQUE TIARA // 'atomic blonde' runway ❥ rpdr all stars 09X06

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Orphan's Lament (gouache) It rained on our little smoke tree. I named this painting for the Robbie Basho song!

This will be my postcard print for June. Join my postcard club on Patreon if you'd like this mini print in the mail - link in my pinned post!!

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Vampire fangs.

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Alana Champion by Ana Takahashi

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So like, it's obvious to me reading the comments on my post that anti-porn people are largely like, afraid of porn. Like the concept of a sex video is really spooky to them. They're not making thoughtful critiques of the porn industry, which is genuinely a really fucked up industry, they're mostly just spooked by the concept of a sex video and what it could Do To You If You See It.

I said this in another post, but it's like, the difference between "a ton of coffee is produced using slave labor" (valid, important criticism of the coffee industry) and "coffee turns people into raving coffee addicts who forget how to interact with anyone because they're so obsessed with their coffee" (objectively not true, insane viewpoint).

It's literally just sex videos. They really cannot hurt you.

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Vestmannaeyjar, Iceland

May, 2022

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i’m sick and tired of people pretending that burger isn’t delicious just to clown on americans. america deserves the ridicule, but why’s burger catching strays? burger did nothing wrong

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koji ichikawa

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Halsey | For My Last Trick Tour, Uncasville CT

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VICTORIA MONÉT via instagram

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idk who needs to hear this but sexuality and gender identities are spectrums and fluid so they often will not fit into specific definitions, especially definitions that still rely on a gender binary

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CHAPPELL ROAN — at Primavera Sound 2025