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it’s not intersexist to want a neutral body, mixed sex characteristics, or a version of HRT that is neither fully masculinising nor feminising. however. the reason you may be getting called intersexist for this is the way dyadics talk about these kinds of transition goals… can be intersexist

so. these phrases are not okay:

“I want to be intersex”

“I’m transitioning to have an intersex body”

“I’m becoming a hermaphrodite”

“I’m jealous of intersex people”

“intersex people are transition goals”

instead try:

“I would like to have a sex neutral body”

“I’m transitioning to be both male and female”

“I would like to have a mix of genitals and secondary sex characteristics”

or literally anything else that doesn’t bring intersex people into it

you can have your goals. every person deserves to be able to transition in a way that makes them happy with their bodies. just be aware that you are not intersex, and our experiences are not yours

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is there a label that ACTUALLY means 'attraction regardless of gender' and doesn't have transphobic origins?

yes it’s called “bisexual”

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spiderman. opinions on rhode island

your mom rhode my island last night

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putting a polaroid of you on my unhinged conspiracy board and linking you with a red string to a post it note that just says "gay"

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when the objectively bad person has traumatic and honestly reasonable reasons for why theyre like that but it doesnt excuse their actions and only serves to make them more tragic as a character

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arts and crafts are killing me. badly

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Hilariously funny that they let the guy known for wandering off without warning to look at birds was allowed to do this

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The beautiful thing as you get older is that you realize so many “rules” are made up and you can just do whatever. Posters can go anywhere in the house not just my room. I can sit down while cooking a meal or taking a shower. I can make the same thing for breakfast lunch dinner for a week straight. I can roam around the house shirtless. I can wear a dress with jeans. The world is my oyster key word my and I can live as I please embracing little things such as this

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(jaded old queen smoking by an open balcony drinking her second dry martini of the afternoon voice) god i miss 8tracks

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looked up my symptoms and it turns out the parts of me ive been ignoring will come back in full force one day

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not to be insensitive but some of the salem witch trials were so funny bitches like “i saw her at the devils sacrament!!!” girl… what were YOU doing at the devils sacrament 👀

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