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“trans people in sports is such a complex issue” it really isn’t. make the sports skills-based instead of segregated by gender. “ohhh but so many people’s lives depend on their sports for scholarships” okay then let’s make university universally funded so people don’t have to worry about paying for it based on how well they can throw a ball. how are you not keeping up

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how busy are you guys that you can't spend a few days sorting beetles?

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My collection

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a tumblr account should enable you to see everything on other social media sites without making an account there. like a student visa.

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I saw a post with like 20k notes the other day straight up saying word for word "Drugs don't cause bad behaviors" and it sort of reminds me of the way I've seen people talk about mental illness in that it tries so hard to destigmatize the thing-in-itself that it winds up pushing into this absurd denialism of the thing's ability to actually causally effect things. like when kanye had a manic breakdown or whatever a couple years ago and you would straight up see people say "well when my friend has a manic episode he watches videos about speed running all night" as if to suggest that it's absurd to suggest that a mental illness might actually change someone's behavior

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i think a 7 year old girl could kill any transphobe. imagine telling a 7 year old girl she's not as strong as the boys around her because she's a girl, she'd rip your organs out in less than a second. have you ever seen what happens when a teacher says "i need a strong boy to carry this thing"?? have you never seen a small child carry four times her body weight with a smile on her face just to spite someone???? i think kids should be allowed to kill tbh

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tumblr users love reading. you literally stopped for this post just because it has words in it

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you're cute and it's tuesday

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i hate dogs with blue eyes. why is fucking jeff the killer at my back door

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it’s like this.

if you only have one person in your life that you trust, you probably are always going to turn to that person when something shit happens. as well as whenever something good happens. or anything else. this is not inherently a bad thing, and it’s really beautiful to have someone in your life that you trust so much

but if that person is suddenly busy or going through something difficult themselves or doesn’t have emotional capacity for a while, suddenly there’s a problem. not necessarily through any fault of your own, you don’t have anyone to turn to with as much regularity as you did before

this is true of any kind of relationship. this is true of any kind of coping mechanism, also. the problem is not that you trust that person. the problem is not that you use that coping mechanism. the problem is not even that there’s something wrong with you and that it’s all your fault. the problem is that nothing can be everything

the solution is not to cut off your one trusted person or to cut yourself off from your one trusted coping mechanism. the solution is to do the difficult work of diversifying your life as much as it’s possible for you to do. which is why it sucks so much when external factors prevent you from being able to live a truly diverse life. okay that’s all have a good one

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I love being friends with prostitutes and transsexuals and artists and drug dealers and perverts and queers

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a child came into the nature center and saw tadpoles for the first time and when i told him they're baby frogs he thought i was lying and i suddenly realized that if you're 3 and don't know that tadpoles become frogs it does sound pretty fake. this kid will not fall for made up shit online he is a born skeptic.

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if i can’t embed these subtitles i’m gonna start throwing molotovs