[ID: a digital drawing with rough linework of a grey and white fluffy anthro glaceon girl with one flopped ear, darker hair with a light blue streak, light blue horns, small demon wings with light blue membrane, and light blue paws. she wears a black and light blue striped sweater and a red ribbon with a bell tied around her neck. she stands in a joyous pose with an excited, peppy expression, pumping one hand in the air against a background of warm colors. /end ID]
[ID: a digital drawing with rough linework of an anthro character resembling an ant, with four arms and black hair with blonde highlights. she wears a black crop top, black pants and heeled boots, standing in a coy pose against a background of black and purples, with golden splatters. /end ID]
your first mistake is treating transmasc / transfem like inherent opposites. your second mistake is treating man / woman in general like opposites but you all are not ready for that convo.